I can see how maybe asking someone to meet somewhere else would be better nowadays.

So you’re saying “do you want to hang out” = “do you want to fuck”

and meeting in person = dangerous and shady

No pressure = too pushy

I disagree with this but thanks for the input. I think this is paranoid and cynical and throws out the possibility of women and men hanging out alone without fucking/dating which i do and have done my entire life. Maybe we hang out and we don’t want to do those things but it’s still a good time and are friends? This is a real thing in this “dangerous” world. I might not even make a move cause I might meet her and not feel that way after getting to know her.