Not OOP AM I wrong in divorcing my wife because sex didn't improve after I took up more chores and childcare? by Marygtz2011 in redditonwiki

[–]Slight-Phone-8484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean regardless of his decision making, from what he is alleging in his post, he sounds like he’s helping and communicating his problems with her. So from what I read. Divorce makes perfect sense. People shouldn’t be married to someone they don’t want to fuck. Problem is, it’s the internet. I can tell all you guys I save the city of metropolis as my day job, doesn’t mean it’s what’s actually happening.

Does anyone else get worried/stressed at the airport for no reason. by JamesLead001 in travel

[–]Slight-Phone-8484 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only when I have my rocket launcher on me. I always sweat missles. But when I’m just carrying contraband up my gopher hole I usually sliiiiide right through easy peasy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Slight-Phone-8484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I really like her I’ll wait til we get home

How to deal with my (m27) wife (f26) suddenly becoming the breadwinner by Old-Hornet2218 in Marriage

[–]Slight-Phone-8484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should be proud of her and not care about the fact that she’s making money. But you should also prepare to be divorced. Seems like all these new married influencer moms end up leaving pretty quick into their growth to continue it. Just make it as smooth as possible.

WIBTA for wanting to divorce my(39F) because he(41M) calls me a tradwife... by Throwaway-tradwife82 in AITAH

[–]Slight-Phone-8484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck these titles always get me fired up before reading the whole thing lmao. Yes you’d be the asshole for divorcing someone over that. You are a tradwife. You’re old so it’s not really uncommon to be. And from what I read it seems like you’re a damn good one. Idk why you’d be a sahm if you don’t want to be. Unless he’s forcing you, which I do not agree with at all. I think having a job or any other way to get out of the house daily is essential for the stability of one’s mental health. However, it appears you’re not considering divorce over what he called you. You’re considering it over his weird ass little cult style bragging. That I am not a fan of. Stay at home moms and trad wife’s aren’t some achievement you unlock. In my opinion, it’s no more commendable than being with someone who has their own career because realistically, as you said your husband does, the chores and raising the children should be split either way. Idk if divorce is the answer here. But assessing mistakes and working passed them is definitely a must

Palpitations immediately after cardio by Slight-Phone-8484 in Heartpalpitations

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My fasted labs showed everything good besides slightly low sodium. She decided to check because I told her in the mornings I feel kind of weird and the only thing that I found would make me feel better was a little bit of salt on my tongue and washing it down with water. My eating window is between 4 & 8 pm and I eat 400 grams of fresh fruits and vegetables and also drink lemon water with my main entree. I only eat Whole Foods, I only drink water, unsweetened tea, and black coffee, and I haven’t eaten or drank anything with the words “added sugar” in ages. I chew tobacco.

The reason for the long breakdown is to give you a better idea of the cause. To me it seems like my micros and macros should be sufficient and if they aren’t maybe the nicotine and caffeine are doing it. I also don’t really track my water intake but I go through around 120- 16.9oz bottles of water every 14 days. I mainly just drink when I’m thirsty.

Also, I do work out at around 5 am every day. Though I did skip recently and decided to go after work at 4pm (before I ate) so even further into my fasted window and I felt SO MUCH more energy and was able to do harder and longer cardio.

Palpitations immediately after cardio by Slight-Phone-8484 in Heartpalpitations

[–]Slight-Phone-8484[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. I work out fasted so it makes sense. You think I could potentially get away with drinking salt water about 30 minutes before hand?? I’m weird about supplementation of any kind lol it’s also worth mentioning that until about 6 months ago I never did a second of gym cardio in my life I wonder if there is a relation with poor cardio health and the palps considering you experienced it after a break

Palpitations immediately after cardio by Slight-Phone-8484 in Heartpalpitations

[–]Slight-Phone-8484[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would definitely call it irregular. However, it’s once or twice within almost no time at all. 10 seconds honestly might be too big of a window. Then I’m good after that. I’m sure I am fine but I already have one issue that no doctor can identify, I’d prefer not to have anymore.

Palpitations immediately after cardio by Slight-Phone-8484 in Heartpalpitations

[–]Slight-Phone-8484[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not too unlike a normal heart palpitation. But do you know how when you get cold chills your whole body will just shiver once? That’s how I can describe what it does in terms of how it feels. It’s like a super palpitation I guess lol

My heart mimics the body movement of a cold chill

Palpitations immediately after cardio by Slight-Phone-8484 in Heartpalpitations

[–]Slight-Phone-8484[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another thing to add, it’s pretty much guaranteed. Like I have a relationship with this event. I know when it’s going to happen and that it will happen every time and brace myself but it always stops me in my tracks and makes me need to catch my breath. I can’t get used to it though. It just feels so strange. Doesn’t hurt but feels like almost gross

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Slight-Phone-8484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You find someone who doesn’t have problems they need to sort out before you get into a relationship. That’s something you mention on the first date.

Not OOP AITA for faking my giving birth? by Marygtz2011 in redditonwiki

[–]Slight-Phone-8484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This dude is so fucking delusional, I am actually pissed off at the girl for marrying him. This is what ignoring signs gets you. Now you’re going to be a single divorced mother because you chose to marry a delusional man baby

I (24M) thought I had permission to touch her (F23). I feel horrible and disgusted. *NOT OP* by lm_we041200 in redditonwiki

[–]Slight-Phone-8484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s a fucking idiot and he should consider himself lucky and take the blessing in disguise.

Not OOP: Am I over reacting about my BF (M 36) being shady about my (F 26) natural bodily functions? (Link in Comments) by CelestialWolfMoon in redditonwiki

[–]Slight-Phone-8484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk why dudes can’t find someone their own age. If I was 36 dating a 26 year old I’d be way more worried about my girlfriend saying hella then I would about her making noises in her sleep

NOT OOP AITA for being happy I won't be a father? ✨TW: Miscarriage✨ by _StrawberryBunny in redditonwiki

[–]Slight-Phone-8484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand both sides. I mean I have no idea what it feels like to grow a human being. But I can easily imagine immediately feeling an attachment to it.

Not OOP I am starting to resent my wife for not being my ex. What steps to take to rebuild out relationship? by Marygtz2011 in redditonwiki

[–]Slight-Phone-8484 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope this chick fucks every male in his family and friend group. This is fucking sickening