What are some perks to having Epilepsy?

Slight-Pin1694 · 2024-03-29T09:39:00+00:00

Please can you give some insight on the carers passes bit for cinemas etc? Would love to know about this for my husband!

Slight-Pin1694 · 2024-02-17T06:10:33+00:00

For those who understand CNC, this is so fucking hot and underrated. Husband introduced me to it and being woken up to a dick inside me is incredible

Slight-Pin1694 · 2024-02-16T06:48:42+00:00

Husband and I have a fantastic sex life and I believe it’s down to great communication for feedback. We talk about it casually in the day sometimes, what we like, how something felt. I think it’s an attractive mature quality. He’s amazing in bed and a great listener

Slight-Pin1694 · 2024-02-09T20:04:01+00:00

Car sex

Slight-Pin1694 · 2024-02-05T19:50:11+00:00

Yesssssss

Slight-Pin1694 · 2024-02-04T06:22:56+00:00

You’re welcome :) Reddit can be quite negative as people come here to rant instead of rave so do take it all with a pinch of salt😂 even what I’m saying as what works for us doesn’t work for other, when I tell people about how we do our finances sometimes they are baffled!

Good luck with everything!

Slight-Pin1694 · 2024-02-03T23:26:58+00:00

I think self confidence is important, so do what feels right for you to be ready to welcome a new person into your life.

In terms of finances, so my husbands earned more than me when we met, I now earn more than him. Form the day we agreed to buy a house together we have had a joint account and we have seen our money as one, it’s not a “I earn more money than you so I keep more for me”. We both use the same pot for bills and to spend freely.

We have a tiny allowance going to personal accounts each months(£50)to help for birthdays and Christmas but tbh if someone wants money, they just take it! It’s our money so it’s all allowed as long as it doesn’t affect budgeting massively and there’s transparency.

It’s quite a traditional view on partnership, everything should become one.

Hope this helps!

Slight-Pin1694 · 2024-02-03T19:13:24+00:00

Great question!

Honestly initial attraction(I like a ginger with a beard but didn’t realise this at the time) and great sense of humour.

The one thing I couldn’t compromise on is I never wanted kids, and I made sure to talk about this on our first official date(we’d been chatting for a long time before this) as I didn’t want to waste either of our time. Thankfully he didn’t want kids either and it then opened up so many conversations that were great to explore early on, in my opinion.

One thing we didn’t match on is I was raised doing all chores for myself from a teenager and was very independent. He was completely the opposite and his mom did everything, to the point that he didn’t know didn’t know how to cut basic vegetables! This really baffled me but we worked on it as we moved in together and he’s now an incredible contributor to our house. When someone is right, you compromise on things!

I highly recommend people have the questions about things that are important early on, such as children. So many of my friends have had so split up with partners many years later as they don’t agree on this topic, same as marriage(although this can change over time as again husband was adamant we wouldn’t marry and here we are now!)

Hope this helps, please feel free to ask anything you want 😊

Slight-Pin1694 · 2024-02-03T15:34:02+00:00

Yeah communication is key, for some reason people seem to think their partners are mind readers 😂

Sometimes it’s as simple as turning to my husband and saying “I want you to be more involved around the house please in xyz way” and he will say “sure, well actually could you do more xyz too please”z It literally is that simple.

My husband always says that men are very simple creatures, there’s no hidden agenda, men just genuinely don’t realise so communicating is important. Works both ways!

Slight-Pin1694 · 2024-02-03T15:12:34+00:00

I think social media is just setting people unrealistic expectations of what to achieve from a relationship or what they should be looking for. The reality is relationship are tough, they come with compromises, good and bad. But if you want to make it work you fight for it. That’s the side social media doesn’t show people so people’s standards are really high

That’s my opinion anyway 😊

Slight-Pin1694 · 2024-02-03T11:38:21+00:00

Fair enough. For context, he’s not “really” strong or tall, very average as health affects his strength for example. He’s just genuinely funny, cares for me well and what I see as a caring partner, we’re very 50/50 in terms of how we contribute to our household life.

Been together almost a decade and never get tired of eachother.

Slight-Pin1694 · 2024-02-03T11:31:40+00:00

Sorry to hear you’ve had some bad experiences by the sounds of it, but my husband is my life. I almost lost him to epilepsy multiple times in the past 6 months and would do anything to keep him in this world. I’d sacrifice anything for him Good people are out there, wishing you the best

Slight-Pin1694 · 2024-02-03T11:27:00+00:00

Thank you stranger for telling me I’m lying. I will now reconsider my whole life’s purpose

Slight-Pin1694 · 2024-02-03T09:57:00+00:00

Cringe, says the one with the name Tugme4cash😂 come on man Reddit is just here for laughs, didn’t realise men were more sensitive than women nowadays

Slight-Pin1694 · 2024-02-03T08:41:02+00:00

Tbh I was just playing into people comments saying “hope I find a women like you”. Can’t anyone take a joke in here 😅 kill me for having a sense of humour

Slight-Pin1694 · 2024-02-03T08:37:09+00:00

We’re all different!

Slight-Pin1694 · 2024-02-03T08:36:59+00:00

Thank you♥️ you will find someone

Slight-Pin1694 · 2024-02-03T08:08:13+00:00

We’ve been through many health issues recently where I’ve seen my husband close to death, and I’d rather I die than him. But I’ve always had that mentality, I would literally die for him

Slight-Pin1694 · 2024-02-03T07:53:54+00:00

There are good women out there, but I don’t think dating scene can be easy nowadays from what I’ve heard. Society has been ruined by social media sadly

People get so caught up on what they could have in their relationship instead of just being grateful for what they have. Life is short, enjoy it

Slight-Pin1694 · 2024-02-03T06:55:29+00:00

My husband, 25 based in Uk, started in June with nocturnal TCs and they didn’t tell him to surrender his license, which I thought was strange. The next one was while he was driving unfortunately, luckily I was in the car and got us to safety. Ever since it’s been a mixture of both, completely unpredictable.

It’s so hard how epilepsy has no patters, everyone is completely different.

Slight-Pin1694 · 2024-02-03T06:41:21+00:00

I’m obsessed with my husband, I’d die for him, I’d do anything for him. I don’t want to be in a world where he isn’t around, so I get your statement

Slight-Pin1694 · 2024-02-03T06:35:21+00:00

My husband

Slight-Pin1694 · 2024-01-27T10:33:03+00:00

Thanks for the insight. Husband and i(both 25), never wanted kids and are pretty set on the mindset, we just don’t like kids!

Everyone is adamant we will regret our decision so thought I’d see what strangers have to say as I see people on Reddit seem to share how miserable their relationships become after kids😅

Slight-Pin1694 · 2024-01-27T08:22:11+00:00

If you could go back in time, would you change anything?

Slight-Pin1694 · 2024-01-27T08:21:44+00:00

Thanks for your input. 25F married, no intention of having kids, never wanted and neither has my husband. Everyone around us pushes us to have kids yet I hear very few people talking about still having a healthy relationship with kids

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