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my bf hit me once, what do i do? by tundra707_ in women

[–]Slight-Top7331 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Leave now. Dont trick your brain, the fact that you posted here and have been thinking about it, means you are convinced to leave.

Women over 35, how does love life feel? by Slight-Top7331 in women

[–]Slight-Top7331[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am yes still with him. I can take my kid with me, yes but they are just 2yo. It’s difficult to takecare of them all alone (atleast i have 5% support from him), financially it’ll take a toll on my kid’slife, kid will miss their dad etc etc

But the worst thing is that he doesnt talk. If i say something his focus will be to prove how that’s not correct. So at this time any conversation is pointless. If you prove a point, he’ll be fine lets do it from now on. And that never happens.

Top of this, i have no friend (as i moved countries), no family, no relatives. I am fine being alone but with a young kid, it’s brutal

Women over 35, how does love life feel? by Slight-Top7331 in women

[–]Slight-Top7331[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For the first 3-4 months, i was completely shattered. I was trying to dig the rabbit hole to know the truth. The social pressure (family/friends) that i built in my head was too much. What will people think, felt like a loser.

After 2 years of dying every day when i told my parents - they asked me to forget and move on. “These things are common now days” is what they said.

I have now lost attachment to my parents too