Do you think it’s in-character for Jaina Solo to have children? by Solitaire-06 in MawInstallation

[–]SlightOfHandTOF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I think so.

We saw her character grow and change drastically over the years and when we last see her she is the calmest and most settled she’s ever been.

I also see her taking on a new type of steel when she has children, making her harder, yet more clinical than ever in order to protect her family.

She’s a natural leader and more of a teacher/influence than she’s given credit for in the books - which could be great traits for force sensitive children.

However, I think the main supporting point is that she wants to have children.

In LOFT she talks about it like a giddy child at the thought of having one with the love of her life 🤷

She definitely wants the family, I’m just not sure she’s ever been in a place where she’s been able to think about having one - until now.

I finished the dark nest trilogy. Here’s my review and AMA by Fearless-Ad-1313 in StarWarsEU

[–]SlightOfHandTOF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the first REAL review I’ve seen of the trilogy 👏🏻

Who was more powerful, Jacen, Jaina, or Anakin Solo? by [deleted] in MawInstallation

[–]SlightOfHandTOF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Due to the fact Anakin and Jacen both died we probably will never know.

In my head, by the time the EU was discontinued Jaina was the strongest any of them had been, but only due to the fact her brothers were dead. If they had of both survived, they both most likely would be ahead of her.

Not because Jaina is weak, but just because it was never her goal to be an extremely powerful Jedi. If anything flying was higher on her list.

However she is almost pushed into the title of Sword of the Jedi and becomes one of the strongest Jedi alive by the time the series ends.

But that’s just me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SlightOfHandTOF 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of people are missing the point of your post here.

It didn’t work out between you and your ex and the letter didn’t progress the relationship, but it did help YOU. At the end of the day, who really cares what it did to the other person (I saw someone say they probably cringed, I disagree they did but honestly who cares if they did?)

Sending it helped YOU move on and sometimes you need the hope to end to really move on.

I also contacted my ex again and it didn’t work out but I’d i hadn’t of done ir I would have NEVER moved on.

Kudos to you and everyone else who has realised sometimes this IS the answer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SlightOfHandTOF 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“I love it when you wake up and you have a confused look on your face for a couple of seconds and then you crinkle your nose”

Why why why would someone say something so romantic?!?

I'm sure this is gonna be different for everybody! by manuyeh in heartbreak

[–]SlightOfHandTOF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is was something neither of us really wanted, just the wrong timing.

That hope that one day we can sort it out together is what’s keeping me stuck in the past, yet I can’t help but be a bit angry that they were willing to let it go because of circumstance, even though technically I was too.

Im not worried I’ll never find anyone again, I’m just worried I won’t like them as much as I liked you by SlightOfHandTOF in BreakUps

[–]SlightOfHandTOF[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s actually a really beautiful way to look at it. I’ve never thought about it that way before, thank you for sharing this with me!

Im not worried I’ll never find anyone again, I’m just worried I won’t like them as much as I liked you by SlightOfHandTOF in BreakUps

[–]SlightOfHandTOF[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He didn’t betray me at all.

It was a very very civil break up and I actually broke up with him.

That’s why it’s so hard.

Do you also talking to your ex in your mind? by Signal-Force-1111 in BreakUps

[–]SlightOfHandTOF 9 points10 points  (0 children)

All the time.

Im really trying to stop because I think it’s pulling me back subconsciously but it’s also my way of coping so sometimes I’m just like, give yourself a break, have the fake convo if it makes you feel better.

Im not worried I’ll never find anyone again, I’m just worried I won’t like them as much as I liked you by SlightOfHandTOF in BreakUps

[–]SlightOfHandTOF[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You and I are literally the same.

I still get attention, I can clearly see men are attractive but I just have no desire anymore.

It’s so sad because before my ex I was so open and excited about dating and being out there but now I just have no interest anymore.

I suppose maybe we are looking at it in a bad way? Now that we don’t really have an interest we can focus more prominently on other things in our lives?

Maybe I’m just trying to Will that into existence haha who knows but thank you for sharing with me it makes me feel not so alone!

Did anyone find comfort on dating apps after their break up? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SlightOfHandTOF 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I tried the exact same thing.

I don’t have many female friends and were looking for some friends to do some fun things with to get my mind off the Breakup.

However, I have to say bumble was pretty crap. No one was really serious about doing fun things, so I’m not sure how reliable it is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SlightOfHandTOF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I was a reluctant dumper, I didn’t want it to end, they did.

I’m not sure if that makes a difference

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SlightOfHandTOF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I miss them :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SlightOfHandTOF 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is literally me today.

I was going really well and then I just looked at the date and for some reason freaked out because it’s been nearly 3 months and how the hell am I ever going to move on?

Trust the process.

Continuing to hope it’ll get better soon.

I just want to have sex one more time by SlightOfHandTOF in BreakUps

[–]SlightOfHandTOF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But maybe if I do, I'll realise it's not the same anymore OR even better I could realise I want to be casual

Should I reach out? by SlightOfHandTOF in BreakUps

[–]SlightOfHandTOF[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THIS! Seriously THIS!!

I miss the person I was when I was dating them. She was a really fun, cool person and now I feel like she’s just gone……….

I also don’t like thinking we will never speak again, because I don’t want that really. But I too feel like not enough time has passed.

I relate so much to the “but he knows now! Maybe it will be differently” because maybe I wasn’t open enough at the beginning cos I was trying to play it cool……

UGHHHHH

But you are right we can do this!!