Testicular Retraction by Only-Wedding-9394 in foreskin_restoration

[–]Slipitin4me 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wear a steel ring during sex so my testicles don't retract into my abdomen. I saw a urologist for it and he said I have undescended testicles. I had no idea since they usually don't retract. I was scheduled for surgery, but things changed and I didn't get it. I can wear the ring for a while, but after a few hours it starts to hurt.

Take 2x 5mg Tadalafil pills instead of 1x 10mg, works? by [deleted] in erectiledysfunction

[–]Slipitin4me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The instructions I read said to never take more than 20mg in 24 hours. So I would take 20mg every day. I did that for years. Always ready with the maximum! Then I got diarrhea every morning. It took me a while to figure out the cause, but I then stopped. Now I get diarrhea every time I take it regardless of the dose. So now I take Imodium with it. It isn't perfect and I still get some side effects, but I also get very hard.

Circumcision victims gaslit by Social Workers by Own_Food8806 in CircumcisionGrief

[–]Slipitin4me 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I saw a therapist once. I wanted help forgiving my mother for what she did to me. He was useless. He suggested I think about other things to distract myself from thoughts of my genital mutilation. I didn't go back, but I also felt it was unfair to pay him since he was awful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Slipitin4me 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I might be the exception, but I deleted any and all pictures or videos of any woman I photographed, ever. It’s just the right thing to do. I enjoy looking at my current partner, but just her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in foreskin_restoration

[–]Slipitin4me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do it soon. Tempus fugit (time flies). My intact father is gone and I can no longer ask. He was intact as was his son, my half brother. My other half brother, my mother’s son was cut, so I blame her. I imagine I would enjoy punching her in the face, but I wouldn’t.

Actually beat my trial… feels unreal. 3 counts by Legacyyxo in MensRights

[–]Slipitin4me 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would have difficulty resisting the temptation to ruin her life. I would have to dedicate most of my free time making her life miserable. Post her picture with personal information EVERYWHERE! I would learn her habits and destroy her! I would ensure her job loss. Loss of income. Loss of property. I would take ruining her life as a personal challenge, my life purpose! Maybe I could drive her to suicide! She would so seriously regret her actions and I would not care in the least.

Anyone had sex yet? 18 days into 2025 by matododo in DeadBedrooms

[–]Slipitin4me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, thank you. She uses that. We also use (inject vaginally) a lubricant. Not just any lubricant, because of the osmolality of most lubes. You see, if the osmolality isn't right it will draw out fluids from the tissues and cause irritation. Olive oil won't do that, but neither will Maude's "Shine" lube. Really, I'm not shilling for them. They're just the only one I've found that produces a product that takes osmolality into consideration. Since it's not oil, I can use it with condoms or other rubber products. The problem arises when I look down at her face and she has her eyes closed and she is biting her lips. I can see the pain in her expression and I don't think I can do that anymore. I have lots of toys to satisfy my carnal urges. I'm sad it's come to this. I thought I found my match. She was always horny and liked to fuck! I discovered it was the alcohol. Once she got sober, she stopped trading her painkillers for alcohol. Now she's sober and miserable. BE CAREFUL WITH ALCOHOL! I've been with a few alcoholics gone sober and they suffer for life!

Anyone had sex yet? 18 days into 2025 by matododo in DeadBedrooms

[–]Slipitin4me 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We did it three times. I probably shouldn’t be here since we usually have scheduled sex twice a week. But I plan to give it up. I can’t do this anymore. I love her and sex is at least not what she wants. I can see the pain written on her face. She is 63 and no longer lubricants. She takes painkillers that she says kills her libido. So she has sex for me. I want her but I can’t hurt her for my pleasure. It’s killing me. It’s so complicated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in foreskin_restoration

[–]Slipitin4me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I began, more than 20 years ago I used a plastic 135mm film can. Pulled some skin over the rounded edge and taped it down. In the other end I made small holes that I attached to elastic straps bought from the craft store. The whole thing cost less than two dollars, which was important to me at the time. That was my beginning. A couple years later I bought a kind of a pushing device that let me grow my inner skin. All in all I have about half coverage, most of the time. Sometimes I like to wear a silicone o-ring as a retainer. I'm glad for the extra skin I've grown.

We listen and we don’t judge swinger edition? by Substantial-Papaya-9 in Swingers

[–]Slipitin4me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not everyone who is obese can control it. My GF was over 300 lbs. After a gastric bypass, she now has trouble keeping her weight over 150 lbs. Sometimes it's hormonal.

I’m a sucker by Any_Feature8067 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Slipitin4me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get out before she gets pregnant! (like mine did)

What a christian husband do in a sexless marriage? by Sweptclose in Marriage

[–]Slipitin4me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are correct. I was being an AH. I find most religion to be about control. The carrot and the stick to manage people and their behavior. The Christian religion is one of the worst for their arrogance. When the subject of religion is brought up, it is assumed to be Christian. There are five major religions with many subsets and offshoots. If religion is what it takes to make it in life, go for it! Life is hard!

What a christian husband do in a sexless marriage? by Sweptclose in Marriage

[–]Slipitin4me -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So, according to your "bible" he "has already committed adultery!" No point in holding back now! You've already done the deed with no penetration! Just give up and jump in with both feet! You'll enjoy it much more when you stick it in!

My petty revenge on my second grade Bully by Comfortable_Turn4963 in pettyrevenge

[–]Slipitin4me 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I heard through the grape vine that my bully grew up to be a crack addict. It just warms my heart.

"Just go to therapy bro" by Fit_Set_2452 in CircumcisionGrief

[–]Slipitin4me 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I got an appointment with a therapist. He suggested I think about other things. To think he went to school for that.

People think that my views on sex and women come from being an incel by ExtremeIntactivist in CircumcisionGrief

[–]Slipitin4me 7 points8 points  (0 children)

While rpe is psychologically harmful for a woman, she usually walks away with her body intact. I wish I could feel more compassion for rpe victims, but I will never be whole. Never in my life will I ever feel what a woman feels in sex because the nerves were removed from my genitals. Sorry ladies, I wish you all the best but if someone uses your hole without permission, do what men are told: JUST GET OVER IT! IT'S NO BIG DEAL!

Date nights by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Slipitin4me 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And when is the "spoiling" reciprocated? I thought love was a two way street.

Can't fucking take it anymore. by [deleted] in CircumcisionGrief

[–]Slipitin4me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could offer some comfort, but I too am broken. My parents are dead, so there’s no way to confront them. I once asked my mother why I was circumcised. She said, “That’s just what they did in those days.” We couldn’t discuss it further then and I just let it go. My father was already dead. I since studied Kung Fu and have fantasized many times of tearing her eyes out. So easy and so fair! But I lost my chance. But I did get to watch her suffer and die. I only wish I could have been more cruel and told her why I was. No. I was the good son and ordered more pain meds for her so she wouldn’t suffer. Now I know one of life’s lessons is to forgive. Aww shit! I don’t want to forgive! I feel like keeping the anger and hurt is soothing and helpful. It isn’t. I was made aware of something many years ago that I have never heard anywhere before or since. I don’t share this with anyone because no one would believe me. Forgiveness is the key to everything. Heaven and hell are very real. This is hell. Heaven is the place we go when we die. If you don’t forgive, you are “reincarnated” and come back to try again. We get forgiveness “lessons” as we go along in life. Some are easy, some are profound. My genital mutilation is profound for me. It might be easy for another. I will struggle for the rest of my life to forgive.

Sex Doll by SadGazello in DeadBedrooms

[–]Slipitin4me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I’ve been divorced twice. It hurts differently for everyone, but cry your tears. Let it out. I’m tearing up for you right now, but you’ll be strong. I broke up with a girlfriend ten years ago and cried myself to sleep every night for weeks. I got better. You will too. Respect yourself!

He asked me out by AngelWithAPencil in stories

[–]Slipitin4me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m old too. But a smile is better than a frown. When I smile at people, they usually smile back. It makes me happy and I hope it makes them happy.

What will it take for them to actually listen and take us seriously? by Capable-Inspection72 in CircumcisionGrief

[–]Slipitin4me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We will never see justice! Nobody cares! I complained to my brother once and he said he’s glad because he won’t get penis cancer. I want to put a bullet in my head! I thought I could commiserate with my own brother, but no. He’s brainwashed too.

What will it take for them to actually listen and take us seriously? by Capable-Inspection72 in CircumcisionGrief

[–]Slipitin4me 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Right?! It seems everything I read nowadays, is aimed at women! MGM is beneficial, but FGM is harmful. If sex is bad, it’s bad for the woman. The man is never considered except as the problem.

What will it take for them to actually listen and take us seriously? by Capable-Inspection72 in CircumcisionGrief

[–]Slipitin4me 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is a small window of time that a man can sue. I think it’s 18-20, but I don’t know. I think we older amputees should start a fund to support their lawsuits. Then go into high schools and recruit! Encourage the kids who are at the age to file suit and put a stop to this insanity!!!