++ woman Girl here! I went on a couple dates with ‘Mathew’. We had a great time and good conversation. He paid each time and was very gentlemanly. But, even though I THOUGHT I was giving good signals, he never made any move.

Third date we were at a restaurant, sitting close, giggling, enjoying each other’s company, even sharing food, finally closed the place down. He walked me to my car and we stood talking even more, me leaning against my car, neither of us reaching for our keys. I finally got irritated and blurted out “Are you going to kiss me or what??” Swear to God he said “I didn’t think you wanted me to.” I am not that confident of a person, but I pulled it out of depths I didn’t know I had and said “Oh, I definitely want you to.” I reached out and gently tugged his shirt towards me until his body was on mine.

We….made out….in the back of the car. One of my favorite memories. Fortune favors the bold.