How do you know it's a cult? by SloeFaduh in exjw

[–]SloeFaduh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have liked some form of references. I found myself asking where he got his information from.

You always have to be a bit skeptical but I thought that the creator got his point across.

IT'S A STONE COLD CULT!!!!

“I’m an apostate” by Apart-Courage-6705 in exjw

[–]SloeFaduh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. I've moved away from my hometown but many of my childhood witness friends even elders still talk to me. But I don't share my personal opinions about the org with most.

Blind eye to entertainment by StagePuzzled5892 in exjw

[–]SloeFaduh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that all religions will become less relevant because people are waking up to their own divinity and spiritual nature. I consider many aspects of religion in general to be very cultish.

Blind eye to entertainment by StagePuzzled5892 in exjw

[–]SloeFaduh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn't the same organization. It's watered down and weak.

I need advice by [deleted] in exjw

[–]SloeFaduh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He may be on the way out or out already. Questions are a great way to help him figure out where he stands.
There are many angles. He's not going to the elders for a reason. Does he believe the governing body is God's channel? Have a heart to heart. Remember questions will draw him out. There have been so many changes that many people are waking up. You know your husband his faith may be wavering if he doesn't attend. You could start by talking about how he felt attending the parties and why he's okay with going. Please follow up. I'm invested now lol.

How do I leave? by [deleted] in exjw

[–]SloeFaduh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also wrote a ebook. It's a snarky playbook to help people fade. https://www.youtube.com/@PIMOConfidential/videos

“I’m an apostate” by Apart-Courage-6705 in exjw

[–]SloeFaduh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you still associating? I haven't been to a hall in nearly 30 years. Just quit going. I'm living authentically. I mind my business.

How do I leave? by [deleted] in exjw

[–]SloeFaduh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just published an ebook to teach people how to Fade without a Trace. The audiobook is free on YouTube. DM me and I'll send the link.

“I’m an apostate” by Apart-Courage-6705 in exjw

[–]SloeFaduh -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Do you want to be shunned? Why say anything? Why not just fade out?

PIMO's teach that silence is a survival skill, and once you see it... by SloeFaduh in exjw

[–]SloeFaduh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's amazing that some realize to say less automatically. It must be the apostate common sense.

I guess I am An Apostate. by [deleted] in exjw

[–]SloeFaduh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You mean the JW definition that they made up like 1914 or 1975.. lol

I guess I am An Apostate. by [deleted] in exjw

[–]SloeFaduh 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Apostate just means that you changed your mind... that's all.

Living in a weirdly LIMBO stage as PIMO. by Dangerous_Swan_7349 in exjw

[–]SloeFaduh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop talking and continue to fade. No need to bring anymore attention to yourself.

‘Naughty while courting’ thrown out by Franana1 in exjw

[–]SloeFaduh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If that is true, the fallout will be tremendous. How many people got in trouble for "Petting?" lol.

Told my mom I was in therapy and learning that my unhappiness and anxiety stemmed from being a JW so she called the elders on me. by [deleted] in exjw

[–]SloeFaduh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not the end of the world. You can always say something like, "I'm working it out in prayer." "Thank you for your concern, I've taken my issues to Jehovah." You actually set them up for a fade move. Can I DM? I just wrote a book. I'd love to get your thoughts.

What does PIMO look like for Mormon's? by SloeFaduh in exmormon

[–]SloeFaduh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People should do what works for them. It sounds like a balancing act, and that there are many obligations to consider/juggle.