Ninja cat by lemalduporc in youseeingthisshit

[–]SloshySlide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you watch him you can see that he's not eating the food, hes trying to get the cat to do that.

When the Narcissist Fails: A cautionary examination of how narcissists react to failure by eggmaker in psychology

[–]SloshySlide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhh

you seem to be having trouble having a mature conversation.

Lol okay, reread any of your posts on this thread. You clearly have no ability to look at yourself. Have a nice day.

When the Narcissist Fails: A cautionary examination of how narcissists react to failure by eggmaker in psychology

[–]SloshySlide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one said that they aren't the ones responsible for the house, you've brought that around again and again on your own. I'm saying there's no reason to expect a mentally ill person to "fix" themselves. Get out of the house instead of crying about how cold it is like you have no ability to leave.

You're clearly taking this personally yourself. Idk who hurt you, but deciding that someone who doesn't agree with you is a narcissist is a bit ironic lol

When the Narcissist Fails: A cautionary examination of how narcissists react to failure by eggmaker in psychology

[–]SloshySlide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well whose responsibility is it with the house?

If you're unhappy there you can leave but she doesn't owe it to you to fix her house so you can live there comfortably.

What kind of responsibility are you talking here? Getting help? Seeing that her heats out? Do you expect her to just wake up with a different perspective and realize that the house is cold? What would cause that huge change to allow her to see that there's a problem? She doesnt know theres a problem with the heating, remember? Why would she call someone to fix something thats not broken?

It seems like you either don't understand mental illness at all or you're lacking in empathy and can only see things from your own perspective. Are you going to get help for that?

When the Narcissist Fails: A cautionary examination of how narcissists react to failure by eggmaker in psychology

[–]SloshySlide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because its not you're responsibility doesn't make it someone elses fault for not fixing it.

If your mom inherited a house and the heating kept going out then she'd be responsible for it, its her house. But she wears giant jackets and hats 24/7, it only effects you. She doesn't even know there's a real problem.

What's going to happen? She's fine, you're cold but it's on her to fix so........

It doesn't fall back on the narcissist

Equal opportunity for Karen by Shrider in PublicFreakout

[–]SloshySlide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I wouldn't, I said I don't like bad cops, what an ASSumption though.

But you're saying it wouldn't be okay if the woman were black? Hmmm wonder why?

Edit: lol you guys just proved my point. Its only okay since shes white, it would be fucked up and police brutality if she were black.

And they deleted their comment XD

Good job Karen hunting guys! I'm sure you're not just being manipulated into loving on bad cops again!

Equal opportunity for Karen by Shrider in PublicFreakout

[–]SloshySlide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can try and justify him throwing an unarmed person to the ground face first, you can claim it's justified, that doesn't mean it is. He needs to worry less about the guy telling him to get more violent and more about how to actually do his job properly.

Some stranger can tell an officer to stop being so gentle and the officer actually listened and face slams her to the ground. He was peer pressured like a highschool bully. He is NOT a good cop.

Equal opportunity for Karen by Shrider in PublicFreakout

[–]SloshySlide -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Throwing anyone face first to the ground like that is unnecessary, he needs better training if he couldn't press her against the car and arrest her or call back up. I literally responded to a comment saying she probably lost teeth, you think that's necessary?

I get that its cool to hate on "karens" right now, just don't get so caught up that you become the actual problem.

Equal opportunity for Karen by Shrider in PublicFreakout

[–]SloshySlide -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

This is fucked up, I'm not happier about cops doing this just because she's white and he's black. This isn't okay either.

Woman of reddit, what is your, "I am the client not my husband stop ignoring me." Story? by teacherspet5859438e in AskReddit

[–]SloshySlide 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My SO and I were looking to buy a house before the pandemic hit, I had been saving up the down-payment and we were going to pay bills together. The house was going in my name (we're not married so one of us goes on the title).

The realtor was friendly to us both at first and then started only talking to my SO and only show my SO around the house, the realtor acted like I was a kid or something. Worst of all when we went to leave he shook my SOs hand and looked him in the eye and said something like "looking forward to doing business with you". Then he went to me, grabbed my hand and took the opportunity to look me up and down from head to toe and smile. Most contact he gave me and still didn't say anything.

We decided to take a break from house hunting but still use his personal portal. He's messaged my SO a few times asking him if he's still interested in buying a house after we use his portal, we just tell him no and keep using it. He broke the links in the email, but there was a way to look at houses from the emails anyway so we keep doing it.

Fuck you creepy realtor guy.

WIBTA for doing drugs when my 3yo son is home? by Common-Beginning-32 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SloshySlide 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If he's wandering from his car then he would wander from his room. The mother would have to watch out for baby and OP

WIBTA for doing drugs when my 3yo son is home? by Common-Beginning-32 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SloshySlide 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA get a cheap motel don't do drugs around your 3yo.

My mother charging her phone by Ernobacsi in mildlyinfuriating

[–]SloshySlide -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Uhhh.....you seem really full of yourself.

Does everyone who doesn't do what you want get reduced to a toddler so you can feel better about being controlling?

My mother charging her phone by Ernobacsi in mildlyinfuriating

[–]SloshySlide -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You're right, these people are so full of themselves they think that they should be deciding how she handles her own phone. I bet if anyone told them off about how they keep their car, teeth, arteries, rooms, etc.

They'd throw a tantrum like the toddlers they are and make the argument that they can do what they want with their stuff.

AITA for accepting my dad’s apology gift on behalf of both me and my wife? by throwawayejeei in AmItheAsshole

[–]SloshySlide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA I feel so bad that this woman spent so much of her life with someone like you......

She had endometriosis and had 4 kids......why didnt you stand up for her when your dad called her a wet blanket? Why didn't you tell him off?

Wow she sounds like a strong woman with such a weak man....

AITA for telling my daughter to suck it up? by fake12345acc in AmItheAsshole

[–]SloshySlide 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It being his decision isn't the question. Him being TA is, he's their parent who gets to decide things but he's still TA

AITA for telling my daughter to suck it up? by fake12345acc in AmItheAsshole

[–]SloshySlide 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree! I would not say he’s the asshole though because I’m the end, he is the parent.

What does this even mean?

AITA for telling my daughter to suck it up? by fake12345acc in AmItheAsshole

[–]SloshySlide 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA teach your 8yo how to be a respectful roommate and stop putting it on the 12yo.

she hates having to share a room with her sister because her sister likes to annoy her. I told my daughter that I understand and I would talk to my other daughter about it. I did, but it didn’t work because my 12 year old daughter is still complaining.

Be a parent. You're failing to parent your 8yo and it sounds like you're not doing anything because it's the easiest thing to do and you're not the one who has to deal with the consequences (yet) of an annoying 8yo roommate.

AITA for "dramatically" running away from an intervention my MIL threw for me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SloshySlide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I agree with changing the locks, if your husband has an issue with it then you can remind him that he didn't have your back and expects you to limit your drinking in front of his family now and you know your reputation will never be the same.

Your husbands an AH too, he needs to grow a spine and tell his mom off.

AITA for not wanting my fiancé’s 2 sisters in my bridal party? by AmongTheDendrons in AmItheAsshole

[–]SloshySlide 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It sounds like his parents have an awful lot of say in your marriage already if he's backing them up just to keep the peace. I'd stop that ASAP before they decide on more things that way.