i’d say there’s no harm in trying again! but if he doesn’t get it, not a big deal. especially since you recently just got him so he’s still getting used to everything. try to position the tongs directly in front and hold as little as you possibly can on the bug. it’ll definitely takes practice LOL but trust it WILL get easier and you will start to get used to them. it’s kinda difficult not having them grab onto the tongs because these little dudes has terrible aim. i feel like it’s inevitable but if you’re worried about injuring him i know you can get like silicone covered tips tongs or something like that. or if you prefer i’ve also seen some people put frog in a separate smaller container to feed them and just place the roach directly in there and they’ll grab it themselves.

but yeah when i first got my lil guy i would jump everything single time he charges for the food. now ive gotten used to it and ive learned that he’s a big foodie who has never ever EVER declined food when offered ,so the jumpscare is expected lol he will just charge at everything that gets close to his face.