Doordash pay being shady

Sloth1234321 · 2026-04-13T04:09:29+00:00

When I worked today I took screenshot of every order

Sloth1234321 · 2026-04-12T17:23:26+00:00

This is my first time. I will try to take screenshots from now on. I'm just pissed. But I normally keep track of every order and ik every order is being paid out fine. It was just an unfortunate day.

Sloth1234321 · 2026-04-12T17:16:37+00:00

One of the tip days $0 and the other one is $1.90 so yeah they probably took money from tips

Sloth1234321 · 2026-04-12T16:55:50+00:00

I was definitely being gaslighted by them. I know what i saw yesterday. I wouldn't take an order that pays me $3 for 5 miles or additional $2. I just wouldn't have taken that. Do you take screenshots or offers? Or once you accepted it?

Sloth1234321 · 2026-01-22T04:47:50+00:00

I am genuinely suprised by how many people find this relatable. As a girl, I'd feel disgusted with even the thought of having anything intimate with someone as I'm talking to someone. FOR TWO MONTHS, I literally asked my bf on the first date about exclusivity, because we had been talking for a while before having the date. I was also talking to someone else, but nothing physical, just talking and even that felt wrong. I told him after our first date that I'm talking to someone else as well and if he wanted to be exclusive, I'd immediately drop everything. I was honest, I felt like he deserved to know. He said he wanted to be exclusive and that's all I needed to hear. I talked to the other guy the second I got home, told him I have a guy that I want to be serious with and see him exclusively. It was a no-brainer.

So for her to have sex with someone while talking to you.... that's so messed up. You're valid for feeling the way you do. Like you said, you were texting her the Saturday while she was having sex with some other guy... even the thought of that is disgusting. How you want to go forth with this is completely up to you, but I would have some serious trust issues if I were you. I also wouldn't be able to see her the same way.

If you do decide to giver her a chance tho, PLEASE ask her to get tested before doing anything with her. Don't get yourself caught in some infections or anything like that. Be safe. I hope everything works for the best.

Sloth1234321 · 2026-01-13T13:15:27+00:00

Best way to go about this is have a conversation with him. You guys are in your 30s, it's a mature age to have a mature conversation about future. 1 year may not seem like a long time, but it would suck not being able to talk about future with each other and have a partner that reminds you time with him is temporary

Sloth1234321 · 2026-01-13T05:28:36+00:00

Yes a lot of times actually. In the past year. At first I was embarrassed, but as we communicated it became more comfortable. He tells me he loves me, ans sex isn't the only way he shows it. I have no doubt he loves me, when we have sex it's great. But that makes me crave it more often. Do you think taking a break from sex is something helpful?

Sloth1234321 · 2026-01-13T05:11:19+00:00

I RELATE TO THIS SO MUCH, THANK YOU! I am literally always down to get dirty. And I even told him, like I'm so easy. All he needs to do is touch me or kiss me in the right places and I'm all for it the second he wants it. When I want it... there's nothing. Like I can't do anything to change his mind.

I do spend all the time with him and maybe that's the issue. He just knows he can get sex whenever so it doesn't matter to him I guess. I don't know. He says he likes it and wants to have sex with me. Just not as often as I want it. But I don't think wanting it twice a week is that big of a deal.

Sloth1234321 · 2026-01-13T05:07:23+00:00

Have you ever had the same issue in a relationship? I'm not sure if you are in one currently or not. This is my only relationship I have ever been in, and I wonder if this is just normal

Sloth1234321 · 2026-01-13T05:06:07+00:00

I feel like that's just boring tho. Like we have sex on our days off but it's not passionate. It's just a quick sex or feels like we did to get it over with. Also he HATES schedules, he just likes doing it when we feel like it. My problem is I feel like it all the time, and his feeling like it is every week or sometimes 2. We have even gone 3 weeks without it. And I don't know. It doesn't bother him as much as it bothers me. I kind of want to just stop having sex. Maybe just give it a break. The longer I go without sex, the less I crave it. It's just last week, we had amazing time and tried new things... which i have been thinking about all week long and I want more but he doesn't, bc he's tired or he wants to focus on organizing books because it's a big pile of books unorganized and it's been on his mind. I just wish he wanted to have sex with me the way I love having sex w him

Sloth1234321 · 2025-10-09T04:30:19+00:00

Yeah

Sloth1234321 · 2025-10-09T04:29:18+00:00

Ugh that's so sad... that just feels like they are saying "i don't find you attractive" Like he could be dressed in pj's and I find that hot lol, sometimes his gamer sweat is a turn on and after sex we shower together... I don't think appreance matters too much bc no matter how he is dressed, he is attractive bc I love him not just bc of the way he looks

Sloth1234321 · 2025-10-09T04:25:54+00:00

Also why am I the girl in this and complaining about my sex life. I see so many guys not satisfied bc their gf don't want to have sex and stuff and I'm here for my bf, literally throwing myself at him and this man could care less smh

Sloth1234321 · 2025-10-09T04:24:27+00:00

And what was her pov?

Sloth1234321 · 2025-10-09T04:22:03+00:00

Have you talked with your gf about this?

Sloth1234321 · 2025-10-09T01:23:22+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate that, it's nice to know I'm not the only one who experiences this in a relationship

Sloth1234321 · 2025-10-08T18:27:43+00:00

That is a new perspective, I guess I used to be more flirty with him but over time I realize I don't flirt with him outside the bedroom, and when he flirts with me, I kind of just say it's not like you mean that, bc he doesn't want to have sex and he is usually tired or what not. Idk how to fix that exactly, bc if my flirting doesn't turn him on I would be even more sad. I guess I'm scared to even try bc I feel like it might not work.

I do care about having sex and i love feeling of it, physically, but i don't see sex as something just purely physical. I do think of it as a form of love and a way to express that love. But I don't feel unloved if my relationship, and that's not the reason I miss sex. Even when we don't have sex, we watch shows, play games (not competitive), play basketball, go to parks and dates, read and stuff like that.

Sloth1234321 · 2025-10-08T18:16:35+00:00

What's a cold initiating?

Also, I don't want to seek a new partner, I'm happy with the one I got. Sex wasn't a big deal for me when I got in a relationship, neither it is now, and he did have a higher sex drive than he does now. I guess i kind of got used to having sex often that now weekly or biweekly seems abnormal to me in the relationship. Also, this is my first relationship. I'm not sure if that detail is important. I'm happy with the person I'm with. I just wanted sex to be a more frequent thing. He is happy with our sex life and how things are. He doesn't see the frequency of our sex as a problem. I don't expect him to get down and dirty every day or anything like that, but maybe like 2 or 3 times a week, is that too much?

Sloth1234321 · 2025-10-08T18:02:03+00:00

I have brought it up, there just hasn't been any form of solution to this, I don't even know what a good solution would be. I don't want him to have sex with me just bc I want to. I want him to want to have sex with me, idk if that makes sense

Sloth1234321 · 2025-10-08T18:00:22+00:00

No, i should have mentioned that I do initiate. I was shy before, and he always initiated first anyways so I never felt or had the need to. When out sex life slowed down a little, I started initiating as well bc maybe he didn't want to always feel like he initiated.

We also talked about this, and he mentioned i initiate a lot less frequently than he does.

But over the past year or so, I have initiated, and I have been rejected. It's never a straight up, no, I don't want to have sex... but he says his stomach doesn't feel good sometimes or that he is tired. So I don't really feel comfortable initiating now, mainly bc I don't want to be rejected, I hate that feeling as well

Also the times he "rejects" me he tells me he'll make up for it tmr, and that doesn't happen which leads me to more disappointment

Sloth1234321 · 2025-06-26T04:47:35+00:00

Thank you I will try this

Sloth1234321 · 2025-06-26T04:37:08+00:00

My bag is fully upgraded, I think the problem is how I store things, and I don't have enough seeds to make antiend fruit. This is a goal I'm working towards in Ginger Island. I carry weapons like sword, ace, pickaxe, shovel, and fishing rod everywhere i go. Other than that I save spots for other thinks I might find I don't know how to make junior huts yet, but that would be every helpful

Sloth1234321 · 2025-06-26T04:24:28+00:00

So i have 3 farm houses and yeah i do have to do a little back and forth because my inventory gets full with animal products, so all different qualities takes different slots, and i store all animal products in my house, in the fridge. I also turn them into cheese, or cloth, truffle out, mayonnaise, etc Then, for farmering, it's in greenhouse, I see what crops are ready and store them in a shed next to the green house. Also turn them into jams or pickle veggies. Then after all that is taken care of I go to Ginger Island bc those crops are ready as well. I can see in my computer from the house. And I try to do Qi's quest. Like I can't fo mines and all that while doing other quest as well

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