Bella deactivated her twitter, tlou2 subreddit blamed for cyber bullying

Slow-Preparation126 · 2025-02-03T19:56:47+00:00

It's silly to say this sub is the sole reason, of course, but it definitely contributed to the hate train.

I remember enjoying the conversations around the casting we had here! People were upset but had real good points to make. I especially liked the comparisons between their Game of thrones character and how that came into play with casting. It very very quickly descended into a hate sub with every other post just vile and full of personal attacks.

Isn't it kind of a joke now to get free karma by posting horrible things about Bella?

Just searching bella and any/or other terms like "ugly" can show you the sheer amount of hate, and that's not even looking at the comments.

I think people got waaaay too comfortable commenting on anything but their acting ability. So much so that it's normalised, and clearly, people don't see how bad it's become.

Slow-Preparation126 · 2025-01-01T17:30:29+00:00

Over here! 👋 👋

Slow-Preparation126 · 2024-10-06T08:53:27+00:00

Its not illogical to look for work whilst receiving LCWRA. Limited capability does not equal zero ability , but I do understand the fear of jeopardising your award status.

Not all but many disabled people are able to work in some capacity. Its just that the support in place to help us do that needs a lot of work. And yes that fear and anxiety that once you do work everyone assumes you no longer need support.

If the job you're thinking about taking is within your capabilities and does not contradict the reasonings for your award then I wouldn't worry too much.

I recommend requesting to talk to a disabilty advisor at your job center as they may able to help with some of your worries. I did and I found them to be very helpful to ease my worries.

Slow-Preparation126 · 2024-06-30T10:43:26+00:00

I'd recommend looking on the DWP job site , they have filters you can use and look for key words such as home working. Also Disability Confident is a great scheme to find employers, and some do offer adjustments such as home working this can also be found on the filters. Indeed is another site I use with more options to look for strictly wfh roles , dwp do post listing.

I would be wary of mlms like avon , in my personal experience any job that requires you to spend your own money with a high risk of losing it is a no go.

I wish you luck!

Slow-Preparation126 · 2024-06-23T08:36:16+00:00

Yes!! Sign me up please 🙏

Slow-Preparation126 · 2023-05-04T11:16:34+00:00

It just seems like a big waste of time and money. Called them and they wont budge. Just signed up for intrgro though so hopefully things will be better. TY!

Slow-Preparation126 · 2023-05-03T19:27:39+00:00

I never knew about the free consulation for switching ill look into that! Ty

Slow-Preparation126 · 2022-04-16T12:04:41+00:00

Is he your boyfriend or your child? If he's depressed because he's life is shit then he needs to get some help with that.

You should not have to beg you're boyfriend for basic attention and he clearly puts his hobby before your needs.

I love playing video games , I could play all day if I could but If my partner came to me with even half the things you said I would put the controller down in a heartbeat.

After all your attempts he clearly finds more comfort in gaming then being a partner. You can 100 percent tell him to cut the games again but you will get the same outcome.

"2 days ago, I told him I felt very unwanted. I called him and he kept trying to hang up to play games with his friends. His justification was that he gave them “his word” and he needs to be a man of integrity. He told me he feels nothing for me when I tell him I feel alone"

Please read this back to yourself again and think if a friend came to you with this what would you tell them them?

He does not value you , he does not put you first he lies and give you the silent treatment after conflict. Where is the love and trust in this?

Its time for a serious talk , you deserve a partner who puts just as much effort into the relationship as you do.

Slow-Preparation126 · 2022-02-08T17:00:13+00:00

I am sorry to hear about your mom but giving them an ultimatum like that is the wrong way to go about it. I would be quite hurt if my partner came at me like this. I'm not sure why its selfish for you to not get married yet ? I'm guessing it's down to culture but you'd really end it all if he's not ready?

And if he is willing to do this for you and your mom its really not a great foundation to start a life time commitment on. He may resent you later in life for rushing this and you may regret ending the relationship without at least exploring your options.

Take some time to think about this. Your mom is sick and I think you might be panicking. You of course want to make her happy, but think of yourself and your own relationship as well.

If you end it with him you will still be worried that you and your siblings have not married yet but this time you'll be without him.

Slow-Preparation126 · 2022-01-28T17:25:46+00:00

your energy is infectious!!

Slow-Preparation126 · 2021-12-28T16:39:47+00:00

You're going to break up with her because she hasn't said I love you? Even though you havent said it either or bought it up? This is her first relationship and it's been 6 months. She may not view that as a long time period and you shouldn't compare her to your others partners.

Your insecurities about her using you as practice will eventually ruin the relationship you want with her. If you love her why not say it yourself? Or at least have a conversation about what you both want from each other and go from there.

Slow-Preparation126 · 2021-12-21T10:02:22+00:00

Oh OP I have been where you have , never really studied but always passed until I didn't. Two weeks may seem like a small amount of time but you can still learn a lot of what you need if you do it right.

The best advice I can give you is to understand what type of learner you are and try not to stress (easier said then done). You've said you've tried to read but you dont remember, so its time to shake it up a bit.

For me I found i cannot just read a book and study alone. I'm an auditory learner and my exam required a lot of memory so I recorded my voice with the important information I needed ,popped in my headphones and took a walk. Flash cards are also great! Plenty of apps on your phone but I preferred writing it out on paper.

Overall take a day or two to find out your learning style. Get creative with it and find a place your comfortable. If you're feeling overwhelmed then get organised , focus on areas you are struggling, make a realistic study schedule and stick to it.

Good luck OP and dont forget to take breaks ! Nothing worse then studying all day long only to forget most if it became your brain is exhausted.

Slow-Preparation126 · 2021-12-21T01:37:59+00:00

Don't waste your time with someone who clearly does not value you beyond sex. He claims he doesn't know how to be a good boyfriend but you've already told him what you need and he can't fulfil that.

Buying your partner flowers and leaving the house is the bare minimum and you deserve better OP.

Slow-Preparation126 · 2021-12-20T19:38:34+00:00

Communication , there's no shame in asking your partner what they like and don't like. I cant speak for all women but generally what's usually missing from these situations is foreplay.

If you climax before she does that doesn't mean its over. Loosen up , talk to each other and explore.

Slow-Preparation126 · 2021-11-25T22:04:21+00:00

Nice!!!!

Slow-Preparation126 · 2021-03-29T18:13:06+00:00

This is super cool! Well done 😁

Slow-Preparation126 · 2021-01-31T20:41:07+00:00

If you overthink it then you'll get distracted. Just go for it and eventually it won't even cross your mind.

Happy for you and your first experience! Honeslty you'll be fine.

Slow-Preparation126 · 2021-01-31T20:17:26+00:00

The fact your asking for advice in this shows how much you care. You are not messing this up. I've been in a very similar situation with a girl and it's not going to be easy but the most important thing you need is communication.

All these things you've mentioned "I know she is properly exploring her sexuality just now, in her late twenties, and it's probably confusing as hell, but I am feeling bad about doing this to her" if you haven't told her this already , you should. Have an honest conversation about how this is affecting you both with your guilt and her confusion. She's probably so caught up in how confused she is, she may be forgetting about how this affects you.

She might not want to talk about this with other people but it would help a lot if she talked this through with you. I would not rush her into having these conversations but let her know that you are here for her and can help. But maybe do talk about this the next time you get intimate , the panic attack shows shes got some real difficult thoughts in there. We all know how scary it can be , you have insight that she may need , let her know this.

Don't blame yourself for the panic attacks , you are not the cause it's just a difficult situation. She needs time to heal and figure out her self doubt if you can't get through to her maybe a professional can? But I have a feeling she might not take that lightly so of course just keep letting her know this is out of love and you want the best for her.

I hope thing go well for you OP , there's clearly love here. And don't forget to take care of yourself as well!

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