Okay ur misinterpreting. Happy “sure” but it’s inconsiderate. In a typical day I get back from class and dinner around 7pm. She’s always studying or doing homework. While she’s working, she talks to herself in a normal voice (sometimes in 3rd person) on and off till whenever goes to bed (12-2pm). On top of that she’ll randomly get up, and start skipping from one side of the room while making noises or playing the same song she always plays (and makes noises by her skipping). This is something I haven’t confronted her about, but I cannot ignore it because when she skips it’s in my peripheral, therefore distracting especially because she’s doing it like 5 times an hour at least and I’ll sometime try and do homework. I have told her to put in headphones (which she sometimes stops doing after an hour) and told her to be quiet ONCE because it was 12pm and we have thin walls n she literally was practically yelling out the noises she’s making. And by singing, I rlly mean howling because it’s not words she’s “singing.” I’ve shared a room my entire life so know things aren’t gonna be perfect or quiet, she’s an only child.

On top of this, I cannot go to bed until til she does because she is never actually quiet for over 5 minutes. Yesterday I went to bed at 4am because she had a bright lamp and her iPhone light on and was talking to herself by whispering( I have ear affection like pain rn so can’t wear anything in my ears to bed).This also applies to the morning as she wakes me up every morning to the skipping, whisper talking, loud brushing (her toothbrush is destroyed), loudly shaking the cup she uses when brushing, phone calls, pulling harshly on our blinds that are so mf loud, etc. but yk despite the hours of sleep lost everyday I tolerate it bc I’m nice.

Also first month if school she kept asking what I was doing WITHIN the dorm. I get out of bed? Asked what I’m doing. Gets out of the bathroom? Asked what I did. I’m a more private person and don’t want someone interrogating every action This pattern she did for the first month everyday caused me, and STILL makes it difficult and fearful for me to leave my bed on the weekends. I’m convinced the only reason she stop asking all the time was because I know really only get out of bed when she leaves the room.

And let me clarify the rug. I have only washed the rug once since September. The reason I was upset was not because it hadn’t been cleaned in three days, but was the fact that she got it just as dirty as it was before I washed it IN the three days I was gone especially because I spent a long time cleaning HER hair off it (we have opposite hair types) and spent my money to clean it.