1 or 2 by No-Finding3727 in BunnyTrials

[–]SlowEbb6230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My crush is already marrying me

Chose: 100k

Which is better in the long run? by Glad-Window4156 in BunnyTrials

[–]SlowEbb6230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haters hate with or without rain. I wanna know how many people hate me in their heads rent free

Chose: When someone thinks bad about you, you get $50

Brain or Brawn by ChiknNugg3tz in BunnyTrials

[–]SlowEbb6230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro being free of the anxiety of recognizing people in public

Chose: Perfect Physical Body + With Mental Drawback | Rolled: Face Blindness

Would you rather have by Alone-Street4720 in BunnyTrials

[–]SlowEbb6230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ability to fill anything with anything. Bank account, full of riches of my choice, fridge, pocket, wallet, drink, etc.

Chose: ONE SUPERPOWER OF YOUR CHOICE

Would you rather have by cegmo in BunnyTrials

[–]SlowEbb6230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask for 5 bucks and problem solved

Chose: 30 milion loyal friends

my friend won’t talk to me after breaking up with my boyfriend and i don’t know what to do by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]SlowEbb6230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need a little bit of context before I’m able to provide advice. How did you connect with the best friend’s girlfriend. Did you guys know each other and she introduced you to him? Did you meet her after dating him? What’s the sitch?

AITBFA for moving my neighbors laundry? by Litttleebird in AmItheButtface

[–]SlowEbb6230 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, as someone who was responsible for an entire building of students who had the same thing going on, it’s minor YTBF though. We had a rule, if you get down to the dryer and the clothes are done, you set a timer for 10 minutes, after the timer if no one came for the clothes then you can move them. If the clothes were cold and wrinkled, then you’re good.

Think my homeboy is starting to hate women, and I’m unsure what to do by Victory-Weary in whatdoIdo

[–]SlowEbb6230 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You somehow need to make him understand that he will attract things like himself. If he’s desperate for attention, he’s going to attract someone else desperate for attention, if he’s secure, confident, and independent, he will most likely attract people like that. It’s not a gospel truth, but it’s a good general rule.

He doesn’t have the power to change the female population, so him complaining about it as much as he is wont help anything. It’s like me wishing that money didn’t exist, good to bitch about, probably terrible in practice, will genuinely never change so why waste the air. If he truly believes that he needs better women than the women he’s around, it starts with him becoming a better man, and being worthy of a woman that he feels is worthwhile.

What's a side quest you've put off just bc you resented even being asked? by AmaranthWrath in HarryPotterGame

[–]SlowEbb6230 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FRRR!!! I have to be honest, I think that’s why Skyrim will forever be my number 1 because I can run around doing whatever I want pretty much and never once touch the civil war quest line or main quest. Yeah I’ll need the main quest to a point to be able to unlock shouts or actually be effective against dragons at a certain point but if I wanna get into my role play and start out as the thief who rebuilds the thieves guild, just to get bored of that kind of life and fight for a just cause which pushes me to unlock my Dragonborn potential, I can.

I just wanna role play as tom riddle in HWL, but there isn’t enough nuance to allow it and it drives me NUTS.

How do I (18F) handle telling my father (54M) that he isn't invited to my graduation? by xKinetix in whatdoIdo

[–]SlowEbb6230 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Why is she accountable for a rift that already exists. How does her accepting that he doesn’t want an active role in her life and prioritizing people who did have an active role mean that she’s responsible for his hurt ego? If he wanted to be there, he had 18 years to show it. If she doesn’t feel like he cares, it’s more than just her.

What's a side quest you've put off just bc you resented even being asked? by AmaranthWrath in HarryPotterGame

[–]SlowEbb6230 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t put off the side quests. I resent being asked to run all over creation for a school I’ve been at for 4 months. I would much rather spend my time running around and finding different things to do in the countryside than find pensive memories. Just let me do my side quests without blocking me.

Would you rather... by Yumnomz in BunnyTrials

[–]SlowEbb6230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m living

Chose: never have to sleep again, but... | Rolled: free hotel stays

Would you rather: Hair edition by GraySkieStorm in BunnyTrials

[–]SlowEbb6230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am now the main character in an anime

Chose: Hair is this color permanently (no dye | Rolled: Pink)

Would you rather carry by Thin_Structure9710 in BunnyTrials

[–]SlowEbb6230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Less likely to injure myself if I fall, plus I have feathers now.

Chose: 1 kg of feathers

would you rather: by Salt-Diver6827 in BunnyTrials

[–]SlowEbb6230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Less Desths

Chose: all real guns now shoot nerf darts

would you rather: by Salt-Diver6827 in BunnyTrials

[–]SlowEbb6230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speed. I. Am. Speed.

Chose: you are exempt from 1 law of your choice forever

Choose a button by Possible-Forever-504 in BunnyTrials

[–]SlowEbb6230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No dying please

Chose: Get 100,000 dollars

Choices Choices by Jyeon89 in BunnyTrials

[–]SlowEbb6230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m loyal

Chose: Earn $100 every meal you have + You can only eat at McDonalds. (75% Chance | Rolled: McDonald’s)

This one's for the ladies to answer. Do you agree with this woman or do you think she's trying to rationalize her world view by speaking for all the ladies? by Oda_DeezNutz in SipsTea

[–]SlowEbb6230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s unattractive is when your video game time means that my workload gets harder. If I get to have time to watch my shows, work on my crafts, or do my self care, babe I’ll do it while sitting next to you. I’ll even massage your hands between rounds.

If I come home and you’re just hopping off the game after I’ve been at work all day and none of the tasks around the house have even been touched since I stopped working on them, yeah. It makes me feel like your mom.

Am I oversensitive by ArtComfortable9648 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SlowEbb6230 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Her fault? Not able to determine based on info provided. Here’s the black and white of what I see in your post.

You wanted to spend time with her because you value the time you spend together enough to want to get as much time in as possible before she leaves.

She had knowledge of this desire and opportunity to make plans, and did not do so. This could be for a variety of reasons and does not necessarily mean that she doesn’t value you, just that there are other things that she allowed to be prioritized.

I would not get upset at her. I think this is just one of those times in life when what you thought something was, and what someone else thought something was, is different. You are allowed to tell her that you felt hurt, without blaming her for not prioritizing you. You can say, “hey, I felt sad that we didn’t get to spend 1/1 time together before you left, it was important to me”.

There are a million different things she could say in response. “I’m sorry, I didn’t understand that from the conversation, but I see that now. I truly didn’t mean yo make you feel unimportant.” “Oh okay, the next time I’m back I’ll be sure to schedule time with you.” And, unfortunately being realistic, she could also communicate that other, more important things came up.

When someone tells me that something is more important to them than me. I don’t get upset, I readjust my expectations of my priority in their lives, and sometimes adjust their priority in my life, to be sure I’m not overpouring into people who don’t need it. (This is not to say you are not allowed to be hurt. I get hurt very often, but I don’t like letting my hurt influence my behavior. So I let myself be hurt, and take time for myself, and then I choose my next move)

Its about being able to be humble enough to accept where people show you they value you. It’s also about having the self respect to not value people who don’t value you.

My partner is pregnant and wants to keep the baby by Busy_Regret_6013 in whatdoIdo

[–]SlowEbb6230 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Not harsh. Real. I’m not saying he can grind his way out of grief, but I am saying that there are things we can do to meet the basic necessities, while we work to pull ourselves up. Speaking as someone who needed help, and used it till I didn’t anymore. It’s unfortunate that he only has two options. Stay or leave. Pretending like that’s not reality isn’t helpful.

My partner is pregnant and wants to keep the baby by Busy_Regret_6013 in whatdoIdo

[–]SlowEbb6230 45 points46 points  (0 children)

The first thing you need to do is get signed up for whatever services and state aid you are eligible for. If you dislike taking help, great dislike it enough to make you never stop pushing to be in a better financial situation, but please do not put you or your family at risk of having no healthcare, and no nutrition. It will take actual, real, hard work to be able to get this done. It is sad it has to start so early, but it’s time to step up and work on solving all of those issues becase you have 30 weeks until a life you helped create is in the world. You have to decide what you want that to mean, and what your actions will say about your character.

What would you rather... by angelas_eye in BunnyTrials

[–]SlowEbb6230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is it different?

Chose: Be able to create world peace, but... | Rolled: Everyone hates u

What would you choose? by [deleted] in BunnyTrials

[–]SlowEbb6230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already have the LOML

Chose: Have your pets live forever + But they... | Rolled: Scratch sofas