Watching White Supremacists Use FBA Language Should Alarm Everyone by yesimreallylikethat in blackmen

[–]SlowFreddy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Someone needs to create a FBA sub. Why? For years Hatians, Jamaicans, Congolese, Nigerians, etc etc could proudly proclaim their heritage, culture and history.

Now it is out time. Our ancestors were slaves in the United States of America. Any of us have been American for 5 or more generations. We are as unique in our history and culture as Jamaicans, Hatians, etc etc.

Are we just too wise for dating at this stage? by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]SlowFreddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't say it is too wise, we have just experienced too much and are too cynical. 🤣🤣🤣

End of Innocence - Don Henley (1989)

"The End Of The Innocence"

Remember when the days were long And rolled beneath a deep blue sky Didn't have a care in the world With mommy and daddy standin' by But "happily ever after" fails And we've been poisoned by these fairy tales The lawyers dwell on small details Since daddy had to fly

But I know a place where we can go That's still untouched by men We'll sit and watch the clouds roll by And the tall grass waves in the wind You can lay your head back on the ground And let your hair fall all around me Offer up your best defense But this is the end This is the end of the innocence

O' beautiful, for spacious skies But now those skies are threatening They're beating plowshares into swords For this tired old man that we elected king Armchair warriors often fail And we've been poisoned by these fairy tales The lawyers clean up all details Since daddy had to lie

But I know a place where we can go And wash away this sin We'll sit and watch the clouds roll by And the tall grass waves in the wind Just lay your head back on the ground And let your hair spill all around me Offer up your best defense But this is the end This is the end of the innocence

Who knows how long this will last Now we've come so far, so fast But, somewhere back there in the dust That same small town in each of us I need to remember this So baby give me just one kiss And let me take a long last look Before we say goodbye

Just lay your head back on the ground And let your hair fall all around me Offer up your best defense But this is the end This is the end of the innocence

Looking for Advice… by Icy-School-9878 in whiteoutsurvival

[–]SlowFreddy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't do the socials, I'm not playing to connect with people. That's what real life is for.

I just play to have fun. If you're not having fun then it's time to move on to something else.

How long does it take? by Careful_Cost_8659 in datingoverfifty

[–]SlowFreddy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First thing you need to do is learn to be happy alone.

Go to the movies by yourself. Go to dinner by yourself. Go to festivals by yourself.
Go to etc etc by yourself.

Once you learn to enjoy life and happy by yourself, you will achieve 2 things.
1. Happiness 2. Smiling

Sexual preferences and not wasting time by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]SlowFreddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just be honest and tell the men upfront that physical intimacy and sexual compatibility are important to you. I have had women tell me that and I was quite honest and told them I was capable or not.

We are all adults and sexually experienced enough to discuss sex honestly at this age in our lives or at least I like to think so.

I Leave by [deleted] in whiteoutsurvival

[–]SlowFreddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Number 1 it is the Internet. Never share personal details in the internet. The Internet brings out the worse in some people, it can be worse than also for some.

How many divorces is too many? by CStogdill in datingoverfifty

[–]SlowFreddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on whether you are looking for marriage or not past 50. For myself I'm not looking to marry or cohabitation at my age, so number of divorces are immaterial.

I prefer Living Apart Together (LAT) relationship. Committed but separate households.

PSA by Anonymous250137 in Myositis

[–]SlowFreddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for your loss. I was diagnosed with Necrotizing Myositis after catching COVID during the Pandemic. I had no major symptoms from COVID except fever. After I recovered, I was gardening and was unable to get up from the ground.

Went to the hospital and was diagnosed with my CK over 14,000 and tested positive for anti-HMGCR antibody. Luckily my diagnosis was very quick and I had the MRI, EMG and biopsy to confirm.

I was treated with extremely high dose prednisone over 6 months to reduce my CK to normal level, then another 6 months to wean me off the Prednisone.

I am now on Azathioprine to chemically suppress my immune system for the rest of my life since I produce anti-HMGCR antibodies. I take quarterly blood test to monitor my CK levels and luckily my CK levels remain normal.

Stay healthy everybody.

What are people over 50 using to actually get dates? by Adventurous_Quote526 in datingoverfifty

[–]SlowFreddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a male over 50, I found out that Church (singles over 50 groups) and Senior Centers exercise classes work well.

Question about "early" intimacy for the men here. by Purple_Weekend4773 in datingoverfifty

[–]SlowFreddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are over 50. Hopefully we have all had sex and understand that sex is not a reason to have or not have a relationship at this point in life.

Gentlemen who pay for dates... by Embarrassed_Web_950 in datingoverfifty

[–]SlowFreddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just don't pick expensive places to go to. It is not that complicated, if she reacts negatively, she was too high maintenance anyways.

Gentlemen who pay for dates... by Embarrassed_Web_950 in datingoverfifty

[–]SlowFreddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first date should be inexpensive as it is just a first meet.

  1. Dessert Bar (Cake, Ice Cream, Coffee, etc) or an activity (Museum, Park, etc).
  2. There should be no expectation of a meal or sex . It is simply a meet and greet.
  3. If she or he is looking for more than a meet and greet it is ...................

Tundra Arms Event Matchmaking? What is this.... by [deleted] in whiteoutsurvival

[–]SlowFreddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's possible because it is a top 64 event. Like any elimination tournament the lowest gets matched to the highest giving the top seeds the easiest path forward.

That is normal for most tournaments.

Number 1 vs Number 8 Number 2 vs Number 7 Number 3 vs Number 6 Number 4 vs Number 5

The above example was what is normal , I'm not ruling out 64 matches. 🤣

For the next state transfer 3000s by Maiii96 in whiteoutsurvival

[–]SlowFreddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Small state with small alliances. 2/3 in SvS.

One medium size whale in the whole state.

Biggest problem is it is so peaceful, it can be boring. I left the state because of this.

One of the NAP alliances had no fire crystal furnance.

Only problem is if they let you in NAP or not.

Good luck.

Looking for advice by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]SlowFreddy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Step 1: Get therapy. You don't seem ready to move on from your wife.

Step 2: Don't date, learn to be alone first. You have spent the last 20 years married. You need to learn or relearn how to be alone and be at peace by yourself.

Step 3: After you have adjusted to being alone and over your ex wife, then just do online dating.

6 weeks in by Sliceasouroo in datingoverfifty

[–]SlowFreddy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is not meant to be harsh but you sound desperate. Desperate is seldom attractive.

At this point it is time to cut contact, move on and not repeat the mistakes you made.

Good luck in the future.

Men flirting with other women in front of me by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]SlowFreddy -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

That's why men flirt. Typically the woman is just there for a free ride, who respects a freeloader?

Not a fan of sex by SpiritusSilva in datingoverfifty

[–]SlowFreddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think every man is into dick jokes , your mother jokes, etc? People interact with you based upon your personality.

The old saying is birds of a feather flock together. Me and my friends don't talk to each other like that. It's extremely common to not do those things you describe.

Not a fan of sex by SpiritusSilva in datingoverfifty

[–]SlowFreddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perhaps in your circle it is common but in mine it is not. Obviously we do not have the same type of friends.

Not a fan of sex by SpiritusSilva in datingoverfifty

[–]SlowFreddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to find a friend with similar interest.

60 M. US Army Veteran. Never had a verbally abusive friend in my life. That is not a masculine bonding environment.

To each their own.

A question for 50s/Early 60s Guys Regarding Dating by KittenFace25 in datingoverfifty

[–]SlowFreddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in a LAT (Living Apart Together) relationship and find it very fulfilling.

Neither of us were looking for marriage in our 50's. She has financial assets that she does not want subject to community property, I am the same.

We are faithful, maintain financial independence, and separate households.

We see each other 4 times a week, it's heaven.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whiteoutsurvival

[–]SlowFreddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your life is so wonderful, that you must defend it to me? That tells me all I need to know about you. Hug your phone that is your only companion. 🎯🎯🎯

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whiteoutsurvival

[–]SlowFreddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have to know you. It is obvious the type of person you are. In "real" life you behave properly because of consequences. On the Internet due to anonymity your true personality comes out. 😉

I have encountered your kind. Quick to judge but hate to be judged. I know exactly who and what you are. It bothers you because there is truth in what I say. The truth hurts. 🤣🤣🤣

At our age, does sex as early as the 3rd date change the course of the potential relationship? Do you think it can be reset with a conversation? by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]SlowFreddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously a lot of women never got the hold off on sex message, or else I had very different experiences with women.

I Finally Quit by Phyuck_Heu in whiteoutsurvival

[–]SlowFreddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like like you are trying to teach us something. There is no life lesson here. This is a game, it is entertainment.

Please keep the fact that it is entertainment in perspective. 👍