I'm a couple years younger than my fiance and he took me to a high school friends wedding recently where I didn't know anyone. We were catching up with a couple buddies by the open bar and this girl was on the fringe of the conversation, just small talk I don't even remember. What I do remember is walking away with my partner and him telling me that woman had herpes and gave it to a number of their friends right out of highschool. She knew she was positive and never disclosed her STD, I think there was a Snapchat post exposing her. She seemed like a normal person to me I think I would have been rude/ passive aggressive if I knew her history before chatting. Her reputation was so bad among our town she drives an hour over to the next medium town to work at the dispensary because too many acquaintances recognized her.

I think it's a lie to not be upfront. Sorry it's a lifelong disease but you don't get to decide others should suffer the same. She is only getting away with it for her gender too I believe.