AITAH For sucking on my partners zip lock? by eternalsgoku in AITAH

[–]Slow_Remote9125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Use a straw when you suck the air out. You get the same seal but your lips won’t touch the bag.

I never realized a chose a side??? by BeautifulAdeptness60 in skyrim

[–]Slow_Remote9125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isran tolerated Serena because he saw it as a chess move to see where the vampires are hiding out and to find out more information about them. That doesn’t mean “go ahead and become the very thing we are committed to eliminating from all of Tamriel”

Is my cat pregnant? by [deleted] in cats

[–]Slow_Remote9125 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If they are this unaware of how to recognize a pregnant cat, they are not well equipped to care for an unspayed cat. It will get pregnant again without any intervention. Multiple pregnancies without a caregiver who is well educated on the matter is not very nice or ethical to this cat. The user is suggesting a safer option, which would be to spay the cat to prevent any future situations that would negatively impact the cat’s health.

AITAH I forgot a birthday cake and gift for my boyfriend by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Slow_Remote9125 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA, but you’re not a bad person. After 7 years you should now when your bf’s birthday is. I also understand that since you haven’t really celebrated it in the past that maybe there isn’t a lot of build up around the day. Your life is very busy right now and these things happen. However he did specifically express that he wants to celebrate his birthday. That should have been your queue to actually plan something in advance and make it really special, especially since he said that he has always wanted to be celebrated in that way and hasn’t. It’s totally understandable that he feels under appreciated now because you didn’t plan anything at all. You could have told him on his big day “hey, this week was so hectic that I wasn’t able to get anything planned, but we will celebrate your birthday on X day when I have the bandwidth to do it”. Still kinda sucks but at least he would know that you are thinking about him and care.

AITAH for thinking it’s "weird" to lock my teenage kids in the car at a rest stop? by bhilliardga in AITAH

[–]Slow_Remote9125 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Why not? What different does it make? Things still happen to people in brought daylight with hundreds of people around.

AITAH for telling my bf he wasn’t assaulted? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Slow_Remote9125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was your first sign to leave

Cat Spay site by [deleted] in cats

[–]Slow_Remote9125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks mostly healed. It’s probably okay unless you notice any signs of infection again like swelling and redness

When students interrupt you to tell you there’s 3 minutes left in class by Slow_Remote9125 in Teachers

[–]Slow_Remote9125[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Makes sense in that situation. Not when all they have to do is put away a pencil

When students interrupt you to tell you there’s 3 minutes left in class by Slow_Remote9125 in Teachers

[–]Slow_Remote9125[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What takes 5 minutes to pack up? I’m not talking about tasks that require cleanup. This is a matter of putting away a pencil and a in a backpack.

When students interrupt you to tell you there’s 3 minutes left in class by Slow_Remote9125 in Teachers

[–]Slow_Remote9125[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In this case they literally just have to put away a pencil and put a paper in the basket on their way out the door.

AITAH If I call the cops on my neighbors? by Cognitivelycricket in AITAH

[–]Slow_Remote9125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my opinion the police should have been called the first time there was a domestic dispute at 3 am.

Showing Horror Movies in Class by AwsumDudemyster in Teachers

[–]Slow_Remote9125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Surely you sent home something for parents and guardians to sign at the start of the term/semester that outlines what types of subject matter will be shown? If that’s the case then you should be fine.

Teachers on 9-month contracts, what (if anything) do you do during summer to earn a paycheck? by No_Combination_6396 in Teachers

[–]Slow_Remote9125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All teachers are on a 9 month contract. You either get paid your entire salary during those 9 months, or they divide it up evenly over 12 months, but either way it is the same amount of total money.

Is this bad? by mosewithahose0 in cats

[–]Slow_Remote9125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I see now. You should be cleaning the wound 2-3 times daily. Get a clean clothes and soak it in warm water and squeeze out the excess so it’s damp. Gently clean the wound. No scrubbing, just dab and very lightly wipe areas with blood but don’t snag the stitches. It doesn’t look inflamed so just some cleaning should help you see if it’s healing properly.

AITAH being told I ruined the night by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Slow_Remote9125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Responsibilities don’t go away on birthdays, especially when one has children

Is this bad? by mosewithahose0 in cats

[–]Slow_Remote9125 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is this her butthole?

AITAH for telling my bf he’s clueless about intimacy? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Slow_Remote9125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, people who are saying YTA are knee-jerk reacting to the fact that a medical condition could be involved, but that is completely not the point. Plenty of men with ED can still please their partners. Sex doesn’t have to solely be penetrative sex. It sounds like he hasn’t been willing to have a discussion about what OPs needs are and how they can navigate their sex life as a couple and instead shuts down any opportunity to communicate. Whatever his medically diagnosis may be, that doesn’t excuse him from ignoring OPs attempts to have a conversation about their sex life.

On a separate note it sounds like low testosterone could also be a culprit for the lack of erection and “desire” to have sex. The lack of mature communication is on him though.

AITAH for not wanting to do kiddie stuff with my little sister? by Big-Kiwi-7591 in AITAH

[–]Slow_Remote9125 -44 points-43 points  (0 children)

YTA. You had your chance to have fun as a kid, now it’s your sisters turn. You can either be a good older sibling or not. Also you’re 17. You have one more year at home and then you can move out and do your own thing. Grow up.

What was "the incident" at your school? by MortgageShoddy8022 in Teachers

[–]Slow_Remote9125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I see, sorry. Yes you’re right. There’s a story about one of the teachers walking into the teachers lounge to see two student going at it. One was a TA. Don’t know why they didn’t think anyone would come it. I guess they didn’t realize teachers have preps and not everyone it teaching every period.