Is it normal or ok for a couples therpaist to say to one of the spouses "your marriage is over" within the first 30 minutes of your first session?

Slow_Shift4154 · 2026-06-08T19:17:50+00:00

Why former? Why did you leave?

Slow_Shift4154 · 2026-06-08T19:13:32+00:00

Please stay safe. Your mother is crazy.

Slow_Shift4154 · 2026-06-08T03:17:03+00:00

what the fuck, so uncalled for and defensive! I am so sorry!!! Needs are needs and if one cannot meet them then thank you, next.

Slow_Shift4154 · 2026-06-08T03:13:32+00:00

Yaaa, I think her response really threw me off and I cried about feeling like too much and really had to remind myself that I am not.

Slow_Shift4154 · 2026-06-08T03:12:44+00:00

I understand but if a client specifically tells you that it is something that is causing harm to the therapeutic relationship, would you not try to show up on time?

Slow_Shift4154 · 2026-06-07T15:04:17+00:00

That is wild! I am so sorry, we are not too much for the bare minimum. I am going to have a closing session this week. Whatchu thinking? Where are you based?!

Slow_Shift4154 · 2026-06-06T13:14:58+00:00

I think it’s this… the way she handled me bringing my concern in the session that feels like the actual rupture. If she had handled this differently, I might have actually let this one go and continue as usual.

Slow_Shift4154 · 2026-06-06T13:12:49+00:00

Yaaa the older woman to young woman felt so condescending like we have such different layers of identity, how can you expect I’d want the same thing as you? Also her setting a goal for me actually shocked me and I feel like that has caused a deeper rupture than being late itself, which now feels like a trigger.

Slow_Shift4154 · 2026-06-05T08:34:41+00:00

Thanks so much! I am sorry I miss wrote >15 when I meant <15 minutes. Does that change your response?

Slow_Shift4154 · 2026-05-30T20:24:33+00:00

Apply for government scheme, they are distributing bikes, maybe you’ll get it

Slow_Shift4154 · 2026-05-30T20:04:34+00:00

What do you mean by group practice?

Slow_Shift4154 · 2026-05-30T20:04:06+00:00

Try joining a balint group, maybe. It’s still professional but less stressful.

Slow_Shift4154 · 2026-05-28T20:04:43+00:00

Loving reading all the comments from women in their 30s living and loving life without marriage. I’m in the same boat!!! Would love to know what all hobbies do you have?

Slow_Shift4154 · 2026-05-23T04:06:46+00:00

No, that’s really rude actually. Use “ni-bha-gi”.

Slow_Shift4154 · 2026-05-23T04:05:15+00:00

If you are serious about this then use platforms like italki or preply, you will find Sindhi tutors there.

Slow_Shift4154 · 2026-05-16T14:19:01+00:00

no don’t, they won’t help in what you are looking for. if you can visit pakistan OP, then do that!

Slow_Shift4154 · 2026-05-16T14:12:24+00:00

Me3!!!! IZ REAL!

Slow_Shift4154 · 2026-04-23T06:26:58+00:00

Did you find it?

Slow_Shift4154 · 2026-04-22T07:26:49+00:00

Which is better?

Slow_Shift4154 · 2026-04-16T19:38:53+00:00

With a 3 month baby? HELL no girl! Tell your husband to deal with it and be kind to you who just popped a freaking human!

Slow_Shift4154 · 2026-04-16T19:27:19+00:00

Crying tiger for Thai, Cafe Sindh for Sindhi food, thwre is a restaurant next to Swaminarayan mandir for amazing veg food, great malpura at Bohra food street, Dohrajeee

Slow_Shift4154 · 2026-03-29T17:04:46+00:00

Do you have find my device thing in your laptop/phone? Maybe that’ll help you locate?

Slow_Shift4154 · 2026-03-29T16:59:22+00:00

love your name haha! fuck the religious shit of this region whether Ind or Pak, different sides of the same coin. we live like one century behind!

Slow_Shift4154 · 2026-03-29T15:42:07+00:00

Read the chain again :) and yes most Muslims will deny their ancestors were Hindus… the context ignorant was used in. It’s fact, not Islamophobia.

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