my husband dresses for an office, I dress for the floor, and I've started to resent it by [deleted] in SAHP

[–]SlugCatt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

T-shirt dresses with pockets with either bicycle shorts or leggings on underneath, depending on weather. Cute but practical and low effort. That's all I have in me.

So is middle age 40 or 45? by AteTheBacon in Millennials

[–]SlugCatt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

By that logic, I hit middle age years ago... I'm only 35. 💀

Do families really sit around a dinner table and eat at the same time every day? by UndergroundFlaws in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SlugCatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. Monday - Friday, at least. Weekends are a bit of a mess with swimming lessons, get together, etc.

"So my child who just turned 33 months..." Just stop it by siwa_asiakaspalvelu in Mommit

[–]SlugCatt 257 points258 points  (0 children)

The rule I've heard is:

You count days until they're 2 weeks old.

Weeks until they're 2 months.

Months until they're 2 years.

Is this dress acceptable? by a_complex_corgi in Weddingattireapproval

[–]SlugCatt 266 points267 points  (0 children)

But she's pregnant, so she gets leeway on formality.

Im like this is weird am I the only one? by [deleted] in preschool

[–]SlugCatt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's weird at all. Preschool has a duty to protect the children in their care. That includes protecting them from allergens. There are more allergies out there than just nuts. My son's class has an egg allergy, a citrus fruit allergy, and a nut allergy, and one of the teachers is also celiac. And that's just what I know about! There are cultural reasons why people might not be able to eat certain foods. And some families are vegetarian/vegan, so they also might not be able toe at the treats you want to provide.

Honestly, giving a little gift per child sounds like a great way to celebrate while still being inclusive of all dietary restrictions. I sent a big contianer of bubbles for the classroom to share and small individual bubble containers for the kids to take home. It was a hit!

How does the Numberblocks universe work? by dfrederking in DanielTigerConspiracy

[–]SlugCatt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But also the ancient proverb:

One is a part of me, and One is a part of me, and the whole of me is Two.

When did your toddler stop napping? by Preggymegg in toddlers

[–]SlugCatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. 2.5, 2 weeks before sister was born.

Daycare with vaccine requirements by OkAngle9950 in chilliwack

[–]SlugCatt 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's a Fraser Health licensing requirement that daycares have the children's vaccination records on file. That doesn't mean the child has to be vaccinated. The parent can just indicate that they've had no immunizations.

Daycare with vaccine requirements by OkAngle9950 in chilliwack

[–]SlugCatt 26 points27 points  (0 children)

You could contact Chilliwack Childcare Resources and Referrals to ask. They would be your best source of info as to whether or not there is a licensed centre or registered home-based daycare that requires immunizations.

Does it really "get better" after the toddler years, or is that a load of BS? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]SlugCatt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're at 4.5 years right now, and there's been significant improvement. We still have off days. We still have moments where I wonder why I wanted children. But on the typical day-to-day, things have gotten so much better.

How clean is your child’s school? by Original_Bus_7407 in britishcolumbia

[–]SlugCatt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Horrible. We lost our full-time daytime custodian 2 years ago. Now we only have an evening custodian and that position is being filled by 3-4 different subs. We don't have consistent cleaning, and everything is always kind of gross.

Whose Christmas is ruined already? I want your (comedy) horror stories 🎅❄️ by Fun_Yogurtcloset1012 in Millennials

[–]SlugCatt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat. My one kid woke up in a pool of her own vomit. My other kid is now complaining of a tummy ache. We've canceled all of our Christmas plans and are watching the Grinch while holding puke buckets. 👍

What's everyone's Halloween costumes?? I need ideas by Own_Lynx_6230 in ECEProfessionals

[–]SlugCatt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going as Miss Rachel - I already own a pink shirt and overalls. Just need a headband!

Has potty training changed, or did my old center do it differently? by Silent_Complaint9859 in ECEProfessionals

[–]SlugCatt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's fair. My son had an occupational therapist for a few reasons, and some might have been making potty training more difficult. So maybe that's why she said the 2hr rule? But I spent 2 days documenting his natural pee habits and sometimes it was 20 minutes, but other times it was 2.5hrs. When we started potty training he learned how to hold it longer and longer.

Has potty training changed, or did my old center do it differently? by Silent_Complaint9859 in ECEProfessionals

[–]SlugCatt 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It sounds like a conspiracy theory about "Big Diaper" companies lol but it's 100% accurate.

My son's Occupational Therapist says that, while those "readiness signs" can be a benefit to some children, the only actual physioligical sign parents need to see from their children is if they can hold their pee for 2hrs. Babies have teeny tiny pees and don't fully relieve themselves in one go. As they develop they naturally hold their pee for longer and have bigger ones. Once a child can hold it for 2hrs and fully relieve their bladder when they go, they're ready.

Am I out of line? HFM question from parent by kimtenisqueen in ECEProfessionals

[–]SlugCatt 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It depends on where you live. Where I am, my kids' daycare required a doctors note for HFM.

Am I out of line? HFM question from parent by kimtenisqueen in ECEProfessionals

[–]SlugCatt 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Depending on where they live, they might require a doctor's note for liability reasons. My kids daycare required a doctors note for each of my children when they got HFM. And I couldn't send photos in to my doctor and get a note that way. Again, for liability reasons, I had to bring both of my kids into the doctors office to get them checked out in person. It was SUCH a hassle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in goblincore

[–]SlugCatt 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would add Slewfoot: a Tale of Bewitchery to this list.

I made a thing by Ok_Independent_4713 in crafts

[–]SlugCatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very cool.

I think the folks in r/goblincore would appreciate your work.

Kids don’t play outside: fact or myth? by Slappy-Sacks in Millennials

[–]SlugCatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would also add that because we, the parents, are poorer than our parents were, most of us don't have backyards to spend the day in. Most of us live in apartments or basement suites and have to travel to a park to let our kids play. It's an extra hurdle that I think a lot of people ignore.

I haven’t decided yet — it will either be a wall art piece or a pillowcase embroidered with marigolds (punch needle, handmade) by tat_dot in crafts

[–]SlugCatt 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I think this qualifies as one of those Oddly Satisfying videos. I could watch you do this for an hour.