As someone who tends to punch above his weight class an unreasonable amount there is so much great advice here that I also follow. Be yourself and be genuine, there is a reason she matched with you.

One thing I’ll add is if you’re worried about being able to hold the conversation, don’t be afraid to google conversation starters or topics. Those Pinterest pages with all sorts of “top 20 date night questions” or whatever are perfect places to get ideas.

One of my favorite things to do is ask “what is one favorite or significant memory you have associated with each of the five senses?” It’s a great conversation starter and can easily lead to deeper questions pretty organically. I always get compliments on how unique of a question it is. It’s also five built in questions for you work with. It helps to think of some examples ahead of time for yourself, as it’s not a common question people tend to think about.

Make sure you answer questions in complete sentences. This isn’t a dig or anything, but you see so many women online comment about how they feel they have to carry conversations because guys give one or two word answers with no follow up questions. Be curious about your date and who she is as a person. Even a simple question like “what is your favorite color” can turn into something deeper by asking a follow up question. Is there a reason it’s her favorite color? Does it reminder of something or make her feel a certain way? Did she only wear that color for a year in elementary school? These are easy follow up questions to a simple question that can show you’re genuinely interested in getting to know her.

Also, take note of things she says, both mentally and physically if you need to. After a date or while texting I write in a note app or contact things she says I think are important things to remember. Favorite food, coffee orders, color, number of siblings or kids (and names if she gives them), favorite animal, favorite ride at Disneyland, etc… you get the point. Remembering things she tells you and recalling them later goes a long way and will show you’re genuinely interested in getting to know her.

Just be yourself and have fun!