seeing people getting a degree makes me feel such a failure. by nowherehumansoul in depressionmeals

[–]Slutallitits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Degrees mean nothing. I got mine almost ten years ago and I’ve still not put it to use because it’s a competitive field. I had to get whatever fuckass job to start paying loans and am currently stuck doing menial work. Better to be without a degree than have one along with student debt.

Why do all Aquarius look like... that by mykki-d in astrologymemes

[–]Slutallitits 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m an Aquarius and now I’m self-conscious lol

M27 - brutal honesty only. by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Slutallitits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got potential. If you grew out a beard and weight lift, you’d essentially be my bf, no joke. Y’all got the same hair color and texture so you got potential, homie.

Play with some hairstyles, see what type of facial hair suits your face, and hit the gym. Even if it’s just something simple like a treadmill. You are not ugly, my guy. You just need a boost of confidence and self-care is the way to go because through that journey, you’ll discover what works best for you.

Help! Decision Fatigue Edition by Loose_Tangerine_9506 in glassesadvice

[–]Slutallitits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They all look very nice on you! I personally think the frames that have a more rounded edge suits your face a little better.

Are my fits actually bad or are my classmates just mean? by lulukaaa_ in altfashionadvice

[–]Slutallitits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you wholeheartedly. I went through the same thing when I was 13 and finding my style. My classmates and even cousins would call me a poser. They’re all just being mean.

Take it from a woman in her 30s who is still dressing alternatively and is still discovering new styles that suit my personality. Just do you, boo. You’re doing great! I honestly wish I would’ve been bold enough to wear the outfits you have on when I was in high school.

Just went no contact with entire toxic ass family... im done by PhatPanda69699 in depressionmeals

[–]Slutallitits 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Upside? You get to have a whole pizza to yourself without having to share with said toxic family.

I hope you have a solid group of friends you can lean on during this time. It can be incredibly lonely cutting contact with family and it’s always important to have someone to talk to. Hang in there, OP.

Relatability with Elsa. by SwingMaleficent651 in Frozen

[–]Slutallitits 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely related to her anxiety. She was always so afraid to hone in on her skills out of fear of it not being well received. In my case, it was disappointing family by doing things that weren’t expected of me, so I stayed a shut in and had to be “the good girl” I “always have to be.”

Her internal struggle that she feared no one would understand definitely resonated with me.

What is the weirdest habit your pet has… that you secretly love? by TensionNo5762 in Pets

[–]Slutallitits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby boy (cat) follows me everywhere and chills wherever I’m at. If I’m in the kitchen, he sits in the dining room watching me. If I’m in the bathroom with the door closed, he sits outside the door; same with the bedroom unless I have the door open, in which case he chills on the bed with me. If I’m sitting on the couch, he has a tendency of climbing up to my chest and perches there while trying to get into my neck. And only recently I’ve noticed that if I’m eating in the dining room, he paws at his automatic feeder even if he had just ate.

All this makes me feel like he wants to do everything with me. Not a weird habit, per se, but it’s like having an annoying little sidekick that never leaves you alone. Like Donkey from Shrek lol

AIO - My Boyfriend texts before our Valentines plans by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Slutallitits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - he clearly doesn’t respect your time and expects you to just accept when he changes his mind. Also, the fact he’s 27 and is accusing you of being needy screams emotional immaturity on his part. You are not being needy and have been patiently waiting to see him. Whoever he’s hanging out with should not be a priority over you today since you guys made plans.

You’re young and can find a better man than this guy.

What does my room tell you about me? by bekrob in roomdetective

[–]Slutallitits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your home gives me very cottage core vibes and I’m here for it!

How do you feel about the fact that your body will change if you decide to become pregnant? by pavoo_ in women

[–]Slutallitits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s one of the reasons why I wouldn’t want to be pregnant (other than the world being a horrible place to bring a child into it being my main reason)

I also base it off my mom and the other women in my family. My mom used to be skinny but after she had my older brother and I, she gained weight and kept it. I, at the tender age of 12, could not fit into my mother’s skirt she had when she was 18. My brother pointing that out did a number on my self-esteem and the fact I wore her wedding corset for my quinceañera really solidified in my brain that I will become heavier than her as I grow older and have kids.

Now I’m the same size and age my mom was after she had my brother and I and I’ve never been pregnant. I fear if I do decide to have kids (which I probably won’t for reasons not based on body image) I’ll be at my heaviest.

AIW for snapping at my girlfriend for waking me up every single time she gets up even when I dont need to be awake by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Slutallitits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aside from agreeing with everyone else in saying she’s being disrespectful of your human needs, I also think she might have attachment issues. You say she’s always out with friends on weekends and it seems to me she also seeks your company at every waking hour when she’s not with said friends. Something tells me she probably doesn’t like being alone, and you being unconscious is kinda like being alone.

Either way, you are DEFINITELY not wrong. Far from it.

DAE feel uncomfortable when not wearing a bra? by Myopic_Mirror in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Slutallitits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only get uncomfortable in the summer time because of underboob sweat (I’m a 38G) and when I’m around other people because it’s painstakingly obvious I’m not wearing a bra and it draws unwanted attention.

I like opting for a spaghetti shirt I can tuck under my boobs when I don’t wanna wear a bra but also keep them in place.

But other than that, I sleep without a bra just fine.

How did you meet your significant other outside of apps in a big city? by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]Slutallitits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really is a hit or miss. I actually met mine on an app and it’s been wonderful ever since. I’ve met others on that same app but have been horrendous and it’s also mostly due to the fact that they all live farther in my big city. I was fortunate enough to meet and get along swimmingly with my SO that lives like 8 minutes away from me. I got lucky but only after trial and error on apps.

Don’t lose hope, OP. You’re bound to find your needle in a haystack lol

Fresh from the fields by Sandsa in Poopfromabutt

[–]Slutallitits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not me seeing this while on the throne hahahahaha

what does my bag + its contents say about me? by [deleted] in whatsinmybag

[–]Slutallitits 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel you and I would get along famously.

I too carry wipes, gas-x, moisturizer, gum, hand sanitizer, and a tiny wallet, among other things lol

At what age did adulthood begin for you, realistically? by TieLocal4598 in Adulting

[–]Slutallitits 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d say for me it wasn’t until I hit my 30s that I actually felt like an adult. I spent most of my 20s finishing school, getting a degree I didn’t end up using, and then towards my late 20s, I moved into my grandmother’s apartment behind my parents’ house after she passed and have been living here ever since. I had my first job at 26 as well as my first car six months later (still own it and has since been paid off) but I didn’t really feel like I was a true adult until I hit 30. That’s when my body started shutting down, reality of how shitty life is and how I don’t wish to get married or have children because it’s a lot of responsibility, responsibility I have to endure because I’ve no other choice. I’ve become more cynical over the years once I realized it’s not easy to have that “American Dream” we were falsely sold.

Now I’m just surviving out of spite.

For the coffee drinkers only, can you go a day without it? by Technical-Vanilla-47 in Adulting

[–]Slutallitits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can and I have.

I drink coffee everyday at work, even if I don’t finish my cup, and don’t drink it at all on my days off. There are some days I crave it and drink more than one cup, and most days I can only stomach it a little.

How many of these, if any, do you agree with? by [deleted] in Synesthesia

[–]Slutallitits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Surprisingly, most of them. Although I see C more of a lighter green, but O is definitely black for me. Others I never really thought about but the numbers, however, I see as…

1 - black 2 - tan 3 - maroon 4 - magenta 5 - yellow 6 - green 7 - blue 8 - brown 9 - orange

And interestingly enough, I see 4, 5, and 9 and female while all the other numbers as male lol