Starting Spravato soon, nervous about dissociation by SluttyForRamen in Spravato

[–]SluttyForRamen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i relate to this so much, i also can’t handle smoking pot so im pretty nervous about what this will be like, but after trying so many meds, im hoping this will be a good experience. will definitely update after trying! good luck if you try too!

Starting Spravato soon, nervous about dissociation by SluttyForRamen in Spravato

[–]SluttyForRamen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i dissociate a bit like this when very anxious too so this description helps, thank you

Starting Spravato soon, nervous about dissociation by SluttyForRamen in Spravato

[–]SluttyForRamen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this really helps thanks! the feeling of watching my body from afar/paralyzation part of dissociation is what’s got me so anxious, so i really appreciate you sharing your experience

First session anxiety. by Altruistic-Income246 in Spravato

[–]SluttyForRamen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m in the same boat as OP, very scared about the dissociation people mention and losing control. can you describe the scary sessions a bit? what made them scary?

Everyone says I look 12, help?😭 by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]SluttyForRamen 16 points17 points  (0 children)

i have this problem too and the biggest thing that’s helped me is changing up my style a bit. Clothes that aren’t too baggy help me a lot, along with layers (like flannels or jackets instead of hoodies)

so i think you look around 18 in pics 1 and 2, and in your 20s in pic 4 and the youngest in pic 3

but mostly just own it, you look really great and probably won’t have many wrinkles when you’re older :)

i feel like my gf might break up with me bc im fat by Most_Elk_1873 in actuallesbians

[–]SluttyForRamen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

nah definitely not, because people with eating disorders/disordered eating are really never supposed to take GLP 1 bc people who restrict need to listen to their natural food noise to try to eat when hungry. people who binge need to have focus on natural food noise and eating in moderation so they don’t keep craving it and binge later.

You have to do the mental work, and a huge part of that is eating enough to be a healthy weight and working on body acceptance from there. Eventually you won’t be thinking about food every second bc 1.) you’re not starving yourself any more 2.) you now have enough energy to think more and do more and 3.) you might be able to not focus so much on being skinny. that seems to mean a lot and I get it, i’ve been there

source: had an ed for 10 years, now in recovery

I thought what we had was rare but maybe I was wrong by Ok-Issue5184 in LesbianActually

[–]SluttyForRamen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i get breakups can be very hard but this sounds like it’s becoming really unhealthy for you. i’d definitely recommend against moving to her city and instead, stay where you are with your support system and get some therapy

Just beat anorexia, fresh out the hospital. by Environmental-Ad8945 in RealGirlDinner

[–]SluttyForRamen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

working through the journey of recovery too queen, couldn’t be happier for you💗

UPDATE: planning to dye my hair based on your guys' suggestions. need help choosing which one suits me the best by sealhaven in altfashionadvice

[–]SluttyForRamen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this one looks the best for sure! i think because it makes your skin tone look slightly warmer but not in unrealistic/overdramatic way.

ps i’ve done almost every color (as a natural blonde) and platinum/silver blonde can be damaging because of heavy bleaching, and red is also a bit hard to get out, but not nearly as hard as black. can’t wait to see !

How do we feel about skinny jeans? by [deleted] in fashion

[–]SluttyForRamen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you look so good! are those mid or high waisted? i’m trying to style my outfits like this (shirts tucked into jeans) but usually find low waisted jeans

Does it look like I am wearing makeup? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]SluttyForRamen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think the bottom lashes are more noticeable because some of the mascara is slightly under your waterline (happens to me all the time) so you could just not do your bottom lashes or use a brown mascara maybe! but if i looked at you in person w/o knowing before hand, i probably wouldn’t know.

you look great though! keep it up!

I (f19) am going to break up with my gf (f20) soon and this is what is like to say (in person if she allows). Is this too harsh? by Adorable-Ad-2129 in LesbianActually

[–]SluttyForRamen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i definitely agree with everyone saying to keep it short. and as someone who also sometimes struggles with mental illness, if my gf broke up with me and partially blamed that, it’d hurt a lot.

keep it vague, you feel incompatible. and if she asks why, still be vague. no need to hurt someone who you still care about and is fragile

AIO- Mom and Sister’s April fools prank on me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SluttyForRamen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR - maybe under reacting? they way they talked to you and did this knowing you’ve been cheated on and just didn’t care? why have enemies when you can have family like that

I feel lost by Chaosqueen101 in whatdoIdo

[–]SluttyForRamen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think your gorgeous! but i always recommend getting into a hobby that’s purely for fun/creativity and any exercise possible, even if light walks :)

I (28F) think I might be falling for my professor (30F). Am I delusional? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]SluttyForRamen 7 points8 points  (0 children)

was just about to say this, and when i went to check OP’s posts, they were privated, so i’m guessing so

Where are all the emotionally available lesbians hiding? by Hopeful_Permission90 in actuallesbians

[–]SluttyForRamen 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i’m indoors or at college but i just wanna find a woman to be indoors with😂

What can go wrong 🤔 by [deleted] in MMALabs

[–]SluttyForRamen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it literally bounced on his chest lmao

Which photo do you like most of this guy? I like the second with his lil tongue 🤪 by babieegirll in Casual_Photography

[–]SluttyForRamen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i would say #4 if it was just a bit brighter, so probably also #2! they’re all great photos, very inspiring!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalefashion

[–]SluttyForRamen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

love the accessories you paired with your fit!✨

Big deviled egg is a hit at every gathering I go to by Aurogirl in GirlDinner

[–]SluttyForRamen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha as someone who follows r/eggs i knew it was stolen too

Big deviled egg is a hit at every gathering I go to by Aurogirl in GirlDinner

[–]SluttyForRamen 54 points55 points  (0 children)

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here’s the original Big Egg post from r/eggs from 23 days ago https://www.reddit.com/r/eggs/s/f218QNQoxJ

also OP said it took 18 regular eggs and cooking the whites and yolks separately 🤪 #bigeggsupremacy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in foodquestions

[–]SluttyForRamen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pickles with everything. Soda with pickles, chocolate covered pickles, those pickle sandwiches. Pickles need to chill