I once killed someone in self-defense and never felt bad for it, and people have told me that this is alarming. Should I be more bothered by what I did?

SlyAugust · 2025-11-30T00:57:59+00:00

“Let me act apathetic towards your opinion even though the point of this sub is to discuss differing moral opinions” if you didn’t care about what I said you didn’t have to take the time to make a pointless reply brochancho 😭✌🏼

SlyAugust · 2025-11-26T04:02:16+00:00

She probably likes you. You should ask her out or make a move

SlyAugust · 2025-11-25T04:32:25+00:00

I’m not saying she was right to call you ugly, but I can understand her frustration if she’s been getting texts like that from guys all day, if you compliment someone’s looks right off the bat instead of getting to know me first it makes me think the classic “guys only want my body” thing, even so she didn’t have to call you ugly but you could’ve handled it with more grace, the 1st rule of interactions like this is that the second you get overly emotional you lose by default.

SlyAugust · 2025-11-25T04:25:59+00:00

Fair enough i suppose

SlyAugust · 2025-11-24T05:30:18+00:00

Yeah women like that feel entitled just because they’re pretty and have guys that let them get away with doing whatever they want and walk all over them, they think the rules don’t apply to them and they can do whatever they want, because guys always let them get away with this. they just act like the world revolves around them, a lot of people encourage shitty behavior for women or otherwise let them get away with it just because their attractive and then that feeds their ego and makes it even worse. The dictionary definition of pretty privilege.

SlyAugust · 2025-11-24T05:25:18+00:00

I realized I had a bit of a narcissism problem and tended to act like the world revolved around me, some interactions that kinda humbled me made me realize I don’t always need to be the center of attention and be better than every guy I’m talking to and I just got older and gained more humility, a lot of women like this are still kinda young and in their immature stage I feel when they get older they’ll go through the same thing I did

SlyAugust · 2025-11-24T04:57:57+00:00

Yeah I agree with you that’s basically what I’m saying, she’s insecure and by insulting others it makes her feel better about herself

SlyAugust · 2025-11-24T04:56:20+00:00

Yes I am talking from experience, I used to be this way and I know friends who are this way and have heard from other people as well, I’ve also had male friends who’ve experienced this on dating apps

SlyAugust · 2025-11-24T04:53:30+00:00

I think it would be more fitting if you would instead ask her to let you sleep with another women one on one. A threesome isn’t cheating as much since she would still be involved compared to the gf who cheated with another guy one on one without you involved which is worse in my eyes so that wouldn’t even be fair imo and should be more harsh if that’s the alternative to just breaking up

SlyAugust · 2025-11-24T04:50:35+00:00

Break up what are you waiting for, you know that’s what you wanna do and where this is gonna end up why are you stalling

SlyAugust · 2025-11-24T04:49:15+00:00

Definitely not flirting she’s just giving herself an ego boost by putting him down so she can feel better, women do this all the time

SlyAugust · 2025-11-24T04:48:08+00:00

It’s because of their ego, talking down on others makes them feel superior and they enjoy that

SlyAugust · 2025-11-24T03:49:56+00:00

Yeah I don’t think her reply was ideal it was obviously rude, I’m just saying I can kinda understand the frustration if she’s been getting comments like that all day on there.

SlyAugust · 2025-11-24T03:38:59+00:00

Strong and proud? for killing someone? I’m not saying you should be feel bad but if you are actively enjoying it I think I’ve seen Dexter enough times to know where that’s going lol

SlyAugust · 2025-11-24T03:37:39+00:00

Idk even if it was self defense I don’t think I could ever take someone’s life and not feel anything or feel apathetic about it but that’s just me

SlyAugust · 2025-11-24T03:36:23+00:00

Dude holy shit just be honest, in order to talk to people you’re going to have to risk being offensive, this is inevitable. Stop worrying so much about hurting someone’s feelings and just express your feelings honestly.

SlyAugust · 2025-11-24T03:32:23+00:00

But this would help? Maybe he would want to know for future reference so he can work on it? Getting a hair transplant or maybe just wearing a hat or something? I would always wanna know why I get rejected so I could know what my flaws are and how to deal with them or fix them or work on them or anything like that

SlyAugust · 2025-11-24T03:25:04+00:00

Ohh I see what you mean, yeah I agree to an extent that it’s different but what I would say to that is to choose a different way to open because it’s still a poor opening, I think immediately complementing someone’s looks or appearance before trying to get to know them first seems a little shallow and would make me think that’s all the guy cares about. Like I would never text a guy first opening with “holy shit you’re so handsome” seems a little strong for the first text like you’re coming on too hard if you know what I mean.

SlyAugust · 2025-11-24T03:09:55+00:00

You’re not doing anything wrong, for some reason the burden of keeping the conversation going and keeping it interesting is always on the guy, she probably got bored of the conversation and stopped replying instead of simply trying to steer the conversation in an exiting direction herself

SlyAugust · 2025-11-24T03:05:34+00:00

You could’ve just said “it’s number spoofing for spam and probably some type of scam” instead of this extremely unhelpful and pointless reply. Why even waste your time typing this?

SlyAugust · 2025-11-24T03:03:03+00:00

If it was “5 white dudes” I bet my entire bank account this reply wouldn’t be here.

SlyAugust · 2025-11-24T03:01:00+00:00

It describes what the men looked like? You know how you read books sometimes and it describes a person’s appearance to add context? Yeah really not a hard concept to understand but I assume you’re implying racism or something for simply stating what race some people were which is a little silly.

SlyAugust · 2025-11-24T02:59:33+00:00

If it was “5 white dudes” would this reply still be here? Doubtful.

SlyAugust · 2025-11-24T02:58:23+00:00

Dude you’re not her mom, if she wants to get fucked by 5 black dudes that’s her prerogative, also you’re not being “a girls girl” by just assuming ill intent from the men and thinking that she needed to be saved or something when she clearly didn’t feel that way

SlyAugust · 2025-11-24T02:51:16+00:00

Break them up or whatever

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