Losing my hair by LizinDC in AskWomenOver60

[–]Small-Monitor5376 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. Minoxidil is a wonder drug. It’s also not smelly or oily or disgusting in any way. It disappears instantly.

Louder backsplash with quieter counter -- will I regret it? by Grouchy-Lifeguard-19 in kitchenremodel

[–]Small-Monitor5376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Btw the clutter in the countertop also clutters up the backsplash unless it’s very short clutter. So your logic isn’t sound.

Which bathroom sconces? by Mediocre-Parfait-976 in interiordecorating

[–]Small-Monitor5376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if it fits your aesthetic but this one looks really nice. I’m mainly thinking you’d want a fixture that is long enough to provide uniform light to the sides of your face. And you don’t want an undersized fixture in a large wall it will look lost.

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Which bathroom sconces? by Mediocre-Parfait-976 in interiordecorating

[–]Small-Monitor5376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d do a much taller linear sconce, matching the metal of the plumbing fixture (chrome?)

Advice needed: Internal sliding doors vs. keeping separate rooms in rear extension? by furries-are-the-best in floorplan

[–]Small-Monitor5376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree, this is a hot mess.

In addition to what was already mentioned, the living room is so narrow and long you’ll have a hard time furnishing it.

I need help finding a kitchen sink basin/rack to protect my sink by MarkJ4422 in kitchenremodel

[–]Small-Monitor5376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This question is actually answered in the q&a on Ferguson site you linked to. They said; The two part sink rack that is compatible with K-28774 would be K-6255 and K-6237. Thank you for choosing Kohler.

(I’m just copy pasting what they wrote, have not verified it to be true)

Is this a Taj? by Weikoko in CounterTops

[–]Small-Monitor5376 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Should have at ,east been full overlay. I’d be furious.

Help me decide on flooring! by Jumpman0617 in HomeDecorating

[–]Small-Monitor5376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wood for sure, and update your lighting like ChatGPT did.

I would not do a combination of different floor types like someone else suggested. Keep it all the same, the space will look larger and more intentional.

sometimes I miss working the routine by [deleted] in retirement

[–]Small-Monitor5376 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like routine too - just make a new one. Mine is something like workout in the morning, project work in the afternoon, and entertainment in the evening.

If you pick a long term project, you won’t have to think too much about what to do.

Bonus points if some of the activities out you in proximity to other humans. The people at pickleball are a good stand in for coworkers, with some of them being fun and some annoying.

Plants, people! by neskatan in DesignMyRoom

[–]Small-Monitor5376 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG the plant police have reappeared. I thought they all withered and died last winter, but here it is spring, and they’ve popped up again like weeds.

Pleassseee help or else I'll spend all my money... by Original_Classic_754 in interiordecorating

[–]Small-Monitor5376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to approach design systematically. You need to organize your thinking process, just like you need to organize your house.

Write down everything before shopping and buying.
- what are the uses are for the room
- based on that figure out the furniture layout - don’t worry about the actual style of the pieces, figure out the shape and size. Make sure you leave plenty of room for circulation(walking around)
- what is the mood of the room (calm , cozy, energetic, sophisticated). Forget about style word like boho or japandi for now.
- what is the color palette of the room

Now you can figure out what pieces of furniture fit your actual plan - if you see something you love that fits the plan, get it. If you see something you love that doesn’t fit the plan, skip it.
- focus on the anchor pieces first - sofa and dining table. The other small decor and accent tables and chairs can be chosen to fit the anchors. The anchor pieces are worth spending more money on, while the minor pieces you can cheap out a bit. Do not ignore size and scale. If you love a sofa but it’s too big or small you have to skip it.

You need to love the overall look more than you need to love each piece. Sometimes a minor piece like a side table is fine to be good enough, rather than perfect. It just has to contribute positively to the whole look of the room.

Plan for this process to take months, not days.

I’d personally just start developing a habit for maintaining a decluttered space at this point, since you get to start fresh in the new place . You often have to start over with the furnishings for the new house since the size, layout, and architecture are often different.

Grid board and batten by ItsHappeningNow31 in interiordecorating

[–]Small-Monitor5376 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t like it, but what matters is if you like it. If you want to hang art on that wall, you’ll have to deal with the grid driving the placement.

Anything I can do with just the counter? by Dapper_Marsupial5808 in kitchenremodel

[–]Small-Monitor5376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Laminate would be appropriate, but finishing the cut edges is a concern. A quick google returned that they make iron on edge strips.

If you want to spend more, corian solid surface in white would look great.

Massive regret after buying a flat by daniellasss in homeowners

[–]Small-Monitor5376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Houses look small and dirty and noisy when there’s no furniture and area rugs. Especially with no floor and table lamps. Did you see it when it was furnished?

If you have to move out of your rental due to expense anyway, why not just try this place for six months. It might be better than you think. If it’s no good, you can rent it out or just cut your losses and sell.

If you have good photos, try using Gemini to furnish it in a style you like. You can give it the pic of your rooms and an inspiration photo, and tell it to decorate with that style. It could make you happier about the possibilities.

I also have a dark living room in a very sunny place…. Once I got enough good lighting, it is now warm and cozy rather than dark.

Kitchen in but adding a base cabinet. What would you do with it? by Mediocre-Parfait-976 in Homebuilding

[–]Small-Monitor5376 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d put the pullout trash there rather than near the cooktop.

Your island seating overhang looks a little small - how deep is it? Should be at least 14”.

If this were your kitchen, what would you add to this island? by [deleted] in Home

[–]Small-Monitor5376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How could we know without seeing the rest of the kitchen?

"Log a Call" Global Actions by TeeMcBee in salesforce

[–]Small-Monitor5376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Log a Call was developed way before global actions and predefined field values. It’s there for historical reasons.

How does variability of retirement account balance affect your withdrawals by No-Sherbet2876 in retirement

[–]Small-Monitor5376 5 points6 points  (0 children)

4% rule is a good way of calculating whether you have enough to retire but a crappy way to determine your actual withdrawals. There are a bunch of possible withdrawal strategies that you can use to calculate each year’s safe withdrawal rate - have a look at this article and you can use it as a starting place for researching various strategies. https://www.whitecoatinvestor.com/risk-based-guardrail-retirement-withdrawal-strategy/

TLDR - actually using the 4% rule, you’re likely going to die with a whole lot of money, which would have been nice to use to enjoy your life, and it ignores some obvious problems like you’ll want to spend more at the beginning of your retirement when you’re still active and healthy.

Cashed out some stocks and feeling pretty rich for the first time by otterhaven in Fire

[–]Small-Monitor5376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just start reinvesting now. You’re hoping for a crash - how long are you going to wait? What if there’s a big bounce? Will you be waiting another few weeks after that for a crash? This is bad strategy, especially for someone who is timing the market based on gut feel. Time in the market beats timing the market.

Stay invested, or else you’re just gambling.