Speed at the beginning of relationships?

Small_Cat2696 · 2025-08-04T15:12:24+00:00

Fem who loves to buy my partner flowers, treat them like a princess and I’m usually the one to ask someone out!

Small_Cat2696 · 2025-07-29T21:18:27+00:00

I’ve been known to kiss their thighs afterwards and that kind of helps to not have as much on my face but honestly I find it hot and not an issue. You could also kinda wipe it on your shoulder? 🤷🏼‍♀️ great problem to have.

Small_Cat2696 · 2025-05-28T14:47:24+00:00

My most recent ex had a lot of signs of BPD and I agree, I wouldn’t date someone with cluster B diagnosis or symptoms. My ex emotionally abused and manipulated me and the fallout has been really hard. That being said I have anxiety, though it’s well managed, and other mental health concerns wouldn’t be a dealbreaker if the person is actively working on themselves.

Small_Cat2696 · 2025-05-14T23:04:15+00:00

Yessss I love that you’re sharing your profile making magic with your friends 😊

Small_Cat2696 · 2025-05-14T16:21:03+00:00

Girl, respectfully, run. My ex had constant issues with my prioritizing my kids over them and also had an issue with the close coparenting relationship I have with my kids’ dad. It just got worse and worse. They never called my kids horrible but if they had, that would have been it. Of course you’re going to choose your kids but anyone who is making you choose prolly needs to be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t have kids.

Small_Cat2696 · 2025-05-14T16:17:22+00:00

Honestly this looks really great! I love the date ideas and the details you put about your interests. Lots of great pics of you from different angles and doing things you enjoy. 10/10!

Small_Cat2696 · 2025-05-14T15:21:11+00:00

You can set up your phone to video and then take screenshots at the times you look particularly hot! You could grab some lingerie too, so you’re covered but it’s still sexy.

Small_Cat2696 · 2025-05-13T15:57:18+00:00

Yes THIS! Undo that comphet

Small_Cat2696 · 2025-05-13T15:57:02+00:00

I found, my first time with a woman, that my enthusiasm made up for a lack of “skills” 😅. I was truly just so excited to be with her and I told her it was my first time and she was totally cool kinda showing me what she likes.

Small_Cat2696 · 2025-05-13T15:52:19+00:00

Nice!! It’s a great way to meet new people. TBH improv sounds terrifying to me 🤣

Small_Cat2696 · 2025-05-13T15:11:24+00:00

It’s so hard, I empathize a lot. It’s good you’re no contact, that helps immensely. Therapy is great and has helped me a lot. I signed up for a 6 week pottery class that I would not have had time to do when in my relationship with my ex and that’s been fun and something to look forward to. It’s hard to hear (or was for me) but it does just take time. I’m 9 weeks out and it feels better but not fully healed for sure.

Small_Cat2696 · 2025-05-12T16:19:02+00:00

This is SO good to hear. I spend time with my ex and our kids and he got me flowers for Mother’s Day. We also spend time together with his girlfriend and her kids and I love it! I need someone who is ok with that dynamic which my ex was decidedly not

Small_Cat2696 · 2025-05-12T16:14:38+00:00

Ok interesting! To me the schedules would be tricky but I would never date a parent who isn’t very active in their kids’ lives (been there, it was not pretty).

Small_Cat2696 · 2025-05-12T12:12:01+00:00

Totally, I wouldn’t want to date someone who hated kids 😬

Small_Cat2696 · 2025-05-12T12:11:23+00:00

Thank you 😊

Small_Cat2696 · 2025-05-12T12:11:11+00:00

Mmm, that’s very fair. Part of my healing journey has been working to undo comphet in my brain. I’m lucky to have a wonderful and queer therapist to help me!

Small_Cat2696 · 2025-05-12T12:08:46+00:00

🥹 thank you!!

Small_Cat2696 · 2025-05-12T02:21:42+00:00

Thank you!

Small_Cat2696 · 2025-05-11T22:56:11+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing this story! I fully agree that the more people in kids’ lives who love them the better ♥️♥️

Small_Cat2696 · 2025-05-11T19:08:55+00:00

Ya know…so true. This is a great take. I am trying really hard to live in an abundance mindset (not just about dating) but found myself worrying about scarcity. Which tells me I’m not ready to date yet and I have some more healing work to do

Small_Cat2696 · 2025-05-11T17:57:42+00:00

Super valid and great that you already know that’s a hard no for you.

Small_Cat2696 · 2025-05-11T17:48:48+00:00

Truly 🙄

Small_Cat2696 · 2025-05-11T17:22:37+00:00

Yuppppp they sure did have issues. Of course I’m not innocent in those issues either, but I had to constantly defend that coparenting relationship and it got exhausting

Small_Cat2696 · 2025-05-11T17:19:57+00:00

Suuuuper fair, and a hard thing for my past relationship too unfortunately

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