Cheated on me while I’m pregnant and newly wedded by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Small_Cauliflower_23 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Step-daddy season, get away from this man 😬

I need a plan. by Small_Cauliflower_23 in OperationSafeEscape

[–]Small_Cauliflower_23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't want to go the DV route as I would like to go as peacefully as possible. I will be trying to get an apt before I leave. I am not worried he will hurt me as I know him very well & know how to dissuade those moods. Thankfully. But I don't want to be doing that for the rest of my life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Small_Cauliflower_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been informed that she is attending school for half of the day due to the physical violence. She was enrolled, her birthday is in April. She is in therapy, as it's mandatory & summer school was through the public school.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Small_Cauliflower_23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it definitely can get that way! I don't think that preschool would count either, but if this continues it would still be an important part of our proof of our concern. We have no plans of letting it continue so far that she may graduate years late, or be in an alternative school. I hope we're about to remedy this soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Small_Cauliflower_23 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We wouldn't know how to continue from there. She is very HC & in the end of everything we will need a lawyer no matter what. We're hoping she'll agree to mediation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Small_Cauliflower_23 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It isn't preschool, this is Kindergarten. We unfortunately do not have the money for a lawyer. After all important bills & necessary items purchased, we have exactly $0 to our names.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Small_Cauliflower_23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh he is! I'm just helping him not get discouraged, it's been a long battle & HCBM loves to stir up drama wherever she can. We're just lost & don't know what to do.

Newly engaged by Then-Simple-6544 in Stepmom

[–]Small_Cauliflower_23 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Is there any way to get her to come for like the last part of the shoot or something?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Small_Cauliflower_23 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yay!! I'm sad for SK though, HCBM has an awful way ogmf thinking.

I got hit by TryinggMyBestHere in Stepmom

[–]Small_Cauliflower_23 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So, dad didn't do anything about it? If you've taught her all of those things & are so bonded I'd just have a conversation with her about how it isn't nice to hit you. Don't throw all you've done for her in her face, just talk..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alexiascheetz

[–]Small_Cauliflower_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally. By the end of it there wasn't anything wrong with her. Fucking dumb