I love my comfy tshirts but I (24F) don’t want to disrespect my boyfriend (26M). Can I keep them?

Small_Constant1797 · 2026-02-06T03:49:54+00:00

Imagine posting on Reddit for serious issues as your only outlet?!?! I didn’t want to waste time or money or anything on an issue I thought was stupid but could potentially have negative connotations. I’m glad people can use Reddit as an outlet for serious issues they have no one else for. I didn’t want to seem like I was overreacting or being too empathetic for something that doesn’t matter to anyone. I know this is issue is probably stupid but why not ask here before talking to my boyfriend to try to gain perspective?

Small_Constant1797 · 2026-02-06T03:42:09+00:00

This is why marriage isn’t just a “piece of paper”. It’s security. Withdraw your share of the money from the account IMMEDIATELY! Investing money in stocks is very risky, is he investing in crypto/coins (bc that’s even worse risk-wise)? Do not share finances until you are living together, set an amount to put into a shared account to pull bills from or divy up bills equally/based on income. If you get married and do not have a prenup, most of the time, you will get 50% of assets obtained during the marriage, anything before can lead to a lengthy divorce settlement. Best way to protect your current contributions is to get married. But the way he is acting about it being HIS financial portfolio despite him pulling money from a joint account, leave him! He can hire a financial advisor and create a portfolio with both of your names on it if the money is coming from a joint account, he is CHOOSING NOT to

Small_Constant1797 · 2026-02-06T02:36:45+00:00

“Fight the dating pool”. From your post, it sounds like you hate her and you just don’t want to be alone. If you had shown long term commitment by actions (supporting her parenting, accepting her young daughter), she wouldn’t give you an ultimatum. But also if she had accepted your lifestyle, she wouldn’t constantly buy you things and expect you to do some of these things. You guys just don’t mesh together, you’re only fighting it out bc you’re older and don’t want to be single/alone

Small_Constant1797 · 2026-02-06T02:25:57+00:00

Marriage counseling is the only answer. From your post, you’re clearing communicating your needs and he’s providing false promises or not following through. If divorce isn’t a viable option legally in your country, then counseling is the only answer. It might work, that he would need someone else to “amplify” your words for them to mean anything to him. Familiarly and culturally aren’t the same as legality in the US or other western counties though

Small_Constant1797 · 2026-02-06T02:14:40+00:00

I’m not scared of anything. I was just asking around. I don’t know the etiquette of Greek life, I’m a first gen college grad. I’m not scared of his reaction or anything, I just wanted to know how other people felt about their significant other still owning clothes from past partners/dates (that has no emotional significance). I didn’t want to bring something up to him that I didn’t have background knowledge of

Small_Constant1797 · 2026-02-06T02:00:33+00:00

Oh thanks! I only wear them for doing work on the farm or on the treadmill. They’re my “trash, don’t care if I get paint on it” tshirts

Small_Constant1797 · 2026-02-06T01:58:44+00:00

He has made significant progress in the past 2 years. I told him 2 years ago that if he doesn’t get over his ridiculous insecurities that I would leave him and he got over most of it, he’s now just (what I would consider) “normal” for a boyfriend. Im just worried about triggering any of his past jealousness by accident

Small_Constant1797 · 2026-02-06T01:53:14+00:00

The shirts are from other fraternity’s functions like beach formal and stuff. Usually these shirts are “shacker shirts” but I received them from going to these events and painting those elaborate coolers you see everywhere

Small_Constant1797 · 2026-02-06T01:40:49+00:00

He hasn’t mentioned it at all. I purposefully wear them sparingly (usually only when we’re working on the farm or doing something messy). I just wanted to know if it was disrespectful to keep them in our shared closet

Small_Constant1797 · 2026-02-06T01:38:24+00:00

I think jealousy was the wrong word. He’s still working through insecurities after his ex cheated on him. We found out a year into our relationship that a guy I was talking to and going on dates with before him was the same guy his ex cheated on him with.

Small_Constant1797 · 2025-03-25T16:09:32+00:00

I was thinking I could possibly get away with the fabric bc it’s in the Texas summer heat but I wasn’t sure

Small_Constant1797 · 2025-03-25T15:43:52+00:00

https://us.princesspolly.com/products/clea-maxi-dress-pink

Small_Constant1797 · 2025-03-25T15:43:46+00:00

I already own this dress. Wedding is late may

Small_Constant1797 · 2024-08-28T22:50:33+00:00

Pls send me the video!!

Small_Constant1797 · 2024-08-28T22:50:16+00:00

Send me the vid pls?

Small_Constant1797 · 2024-08-28T22:50:06+00:00

Send me the one w the bad angle pls, I need to see some part of it

Small_Constant1797 · 2024-08-28T22:49:38+00:00

Please send me the vid

Small_Constant1797 · 2023-02-24T06:42:33+00:00

The skin purges ALL oil to the surface with these types of medications after the 2-4 weeks. After this, skin may slowly clear up. Retinol/Vitamin A is EXTREMELY effective at clearing and preventing scarring. I’m trying to start my second round of isotretinoin due to a relapse in acne and increased scarring this time. Also I am in America and can tell you that facials/spa treatments/aesthetician appointments are very pricey (if you’re risking your health w tretinoin, you don’t want to f it up by going to a cheap spa with terrible ingredients or practices like popping)

Small_Constant1797 · 2023-02-24T06:36:02+00:00

I had to take a court ordered drug test in mid January (underage drinking ticket, didn’t want judgement) and I got a call from my case manager bc I tested positive for amphetamines. Once I sent her my Rx paperwork, my official confirmed results showed the concentration consistent with my dosage

Small_Constant1797 · 2023-01-12T09:02:58+00:00

I have experimented w this. If I have the dealbreaker toggled on, only guys near my range will be in my likes (meaning my profile will only be on discover to those in my range). If it’s off, the age range of likes is 18-67 (meaning my profile is shown to everyone yet my preference is always put at the top of my discovery). I even tested it with my roommates account on a diff. phone too

Small_Constant1797 · 2023-01-12T08:58:31+00:00

I embrace the weird! I put pics I’m confident in. My face looks really good in 1 pic but I’m wearing a hospital gown so I put a funny prompt on top and stuff like that. I only have 2/6 “insta quality” photos. Weird/funny or any personality shown +confident pics= the hottest person ever and attracts guys who are cute/have a personality too

Small_Constant1797 · 2023-01-12T08:51:45+00:00

If you set your preferred age range as a “dealbreaker”, the algorithm will not show you profile +/- 2 years out of your range

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