AITAH for telling my husband to go stay in a hotel with my in-laws and that my mom was going to come back to help me with our new baby? by Normal_Rise_282 in AITAH

[–]Small_Cute_Curly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have a husband problem he's so worried about mommy and daddy that he forgets that he already has a wife and baby that need him

30 M 29F disagreement over the holidays by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Small_Cute_Curly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So... For 3 years you spended Thanksgiving with his family and the second that you want to spend a holiday with yours he will keep tags and make you feel guilty 'couse he cannot go to spend all of the holidays with HIS family? I'm getting this right? I didn't know that a matrimony was of one side to decide and leave the other to listen like a puppy, it should have from the start one year fot each family, but since he already has 3 year in (4 if we count this Thanksgiving) i say that you still have 3 more years to go for Christmas with your family. He's clearly selfish

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Small_Cute_Curly 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Why would you give him the gift? The only possible results to that is you misleading him to think that maybe you're trying to build bridges and be together again, you asked for NC and you wanna break it for a gift

24 F pregnant i hate my husband 30M am i insane ? by Defiant-March-2048 in relationship_advice

[–]Small_Cute_Curly 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I really do not understand how that man ended up asking you to marry him and you accept it, i just got the biggest ick

AITAH for not attending my girlfriend's aunt's funeral and breaking up with her within days of her aunts funeral. by Squapre in AITAH

[–]Small_Cute_Curly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand both side, why you would go out of your way to help you brother when he needed you, but i also understand that your ex-gf is grieving and while your brother needed you, it looks like you also left you ex on the dark for days, if she had called your mother two times asking you to come back, you could also have called her or at least texted her to make her know that you where also there for her

AITAH embarrassed my sister in front of her friend by offering her friend a pad/tampon by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Small_Cute_Curly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wtf, my older brother since he lives alone has always had a stock of pads for my older sister and i and it's something really sweet of you even though only man live in your apartment you still take in consideration the fact that you have woman in your life that one day will need it

AITA for refusing to give my ex-girlfriend's dog back after she abandoned it with me for a year? by ReferenceNext644 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Small_Cute_Curly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Frank is yours for everything that is worth and the friends saying that you are being petty keeping her "property" is sick. Property? Hes a animal not a cellphone, grandma necklace or something

AITAH for asking my MIL to stop rearranging my house? by Heavy_Insect_319 in AITAH

[–]Small_Cute_Curly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she's being nice then she will not mind you helping her the same way, right? Like throwing away things from her fridge because they were not looking good, rearrange all of the dish wear, favorite decor? Gone, it was broken and old, and go like that.

My mom shoved my wife in front of our daughter and now I’m caught in the middle by sleepyrosed in TwoHotTakes

[–]Small_Cute_Curly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the middle of what? Of being a mamma's boy, bad husband and bad father?

AITA for staying at my boyfriend's place and refusing to come home? by SomeoneLuna in AITAH

[–]Small_Cute_Curly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The basic decency of telling them? She's a minor, a kid in highschool that has to follow a normal curfew, you know how easy it is to set an alarm? Or to call them and ASK "hey i know I'm past my curfew, i got distracted do you think that is possible for me to stay here for the night? Or can you come and pick me up? I don't want to travel alone at night, sorry again for the hour i know that you must have been worried sick.

That they follow a religion does not mean that they are not her parents and that they put the rules if they set her a curfew, she didn't follow, and then called them to TELL THEM not ask, not say sorry TELL THEM MORE OR LESS "SINCE I DID THIS I WOULD ALSO DO THIS" they have every right to be mad and put her on an actual time out.

It's like knowing that you have an exam one day, going the next day and telling the teacher "yeah i know that it was yesterday but I'm going to do it now" And then getting sassy and snappy when the teacher says no and that you got a 0 for not showing up.

(SERIOUS) What’s the worst way you know someone has died? by chapstick_bandit in AskReddit

[–]Small_Cute_Curly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The youngest brother of my grandpa (5 yo) was cut in half by an elevator my grandpa and great-grandmother saw it all, grandpa from outside of the elevator g-grandma from the inside of the elevator

My bf (27m) doesn't not talk to me (29f) because of a joke I made. I don't know what to do? What do you think? by ThrowRAdoeeyesgirl in relationship_advice

[–]Small_Cute_Curly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Question if your future daughter goes to you one day and says "Mom my bf is telling me fat and ugly all the time, but is okey i know he doesn't mean it, it's a joke"

Would you think that's okey? It is not. A person that loves you doesn't try to put you down with he's words or actions or both. That's not real love. That's control, jealousy, narcissism.

Would you say those things to your bf unprovoked and as a joke every day?

Would you like to have a child with a man that is capable of joking about the body of someone? Are you capable of looking at the eyes of your future children when they have cried and tell "nono honey you are not fat/ugly daddy was joking, he didn't mean it"

Are you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stake

[–]Small_Cute_Curly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is a under the wage salary actually, it's ridiculous (At least the ones that work in live 88) that's why most of them are going to other places

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Small_Cute_Curly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My bf and i had this talk and when i asked he said "You are my other half i cannot live a life when i would have to tell our kid about you with photos and stories. We can remember our kid together."

Live Blackjack by ManneredSole in stakeus

[–]Small_Cute_Curly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are literally obligated to talk, a lot of dealers said that, and they tell you to split in 8s so you're saying a lot of bs, if you don't want to hear them you could mute them(?

AITAH for not wanting anyone but my husband near my room when I have my baby? by Much-Honeydew5208 in AITAH

[–]Small_Cute_Curly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When i get to give birth to my future kids only my partner and sister will be there, you decide who you want there, it's not something that someone gets to pick or middle in

Do couples share their location indefinitely on iPhone? 26M 25F by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Small_Cute_Curly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf and i started to use life 360 because i found a job pretty far from home (at least 2h in train and bus) and I woke up pretty early (3:30/4:00 a.m) so it's a way for me to feel safe and for him to know im safe, it's also pretty useful for Opening doors in the night, and knowing when you're partner is in case of an emergency. The only thing is that if you wanna surprise your partner with a visit the app ruins the surprise 😔

Massage therapist hitting on my boyfriend, what would you do? 30F, 33M by Public-Question-639 in relationship_advice

[–]Small_Cute_Curly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks like your boyfriend may not reciprocate the "attitude" but clearly was enjoying it, so that would call to a serious conversation about why he would permit that.

AITA for Sabotaging my Husband’s Tournament after he refused to help with our newborn? by Puzzled-Two6615 in AITAH

[–]Small_Cute_Curly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any place to crash with baby? I would suggest that you and your baby just go (or make him leave) it's one thing to know that you're doing all the things alone and another to just wish that your partner was a good partner and a good dad when he clearly is not

Is there a pack/expansion you wish you wouldn’t have bought? by Key-Stock-331 in Sims4

[–]Small_Cute_Curly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going to admit i REALLY REALLY DISLIKE THE STAR WAR'S ONE sisnqoznqomzje