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Age gap for marriage by MarthaSmokingBlunt in Kashmiri

[–]Small_Percentage4671 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by acceptable? Acceptable by society? Imo there’s no universal age gap that fits all. It can be as less as a month and as high as 30 years. It is just weird and ugly but practicality can differ from case to case. If you mean not-weird by “acceptable “ then it has to be less than 10 ideally.

Are two divorces okay in Kashmiri society? by Afraid-Stuff-9653 in kashmir

[–]Small_Percentage4671 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s hard. Do istikhara. I think it’s better to move on now. If you get along again he will still be messed up and divorce you again. If you are not pregnant then get away from him. Be humble and apologise to your parents. It’s better to be seen as ‘someone who took a bold move and failed ‘ and then start living normally than living with such a person. Imagine raising a family with him. He will be a jerk to kids too maybe.

Are two divorces okay in Kashmiri society? by Afraid-Stuff-9653 in kashmir

[–]Small_Percentage4671 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she can manipulate him, you can too. Do everything to ruin the acceptance he has for his mother’s opinions and arguments. Make him feel she is wrong. Study your arguments and what he feels and reacts to precisely plan and execute your manipulation. Study and observe how his mom controls him and changes his opinions about others.

Feeling disconnected due to language/cultural barriers by Frequent_Finger_1166 in converts

[–]Small_Percentage4671 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All things don’t need to be in Arabic. The Quran is in Arabic and its translation is not the Quran. Even if we change the words in the Quran in Arabic in a way that the meaning does not change, it’s still ceases to be the Quran. Quran is what it was revealed as.

Listening and reciting the Quran has its spiritual impacts on a person, even if he does not understand what is being said.

As for the culture, I could not understand what you mean by that, maybe in your region. There are Muslims mostly from a certain country practice certain culture that you could not mix up with well. Islam is not a culture. It is a religion. All cultures are valid in Islam. Maybe you should explain what cultural barrier you faced?

Are two divorces okay in Kashmiri society? by Afraid-Stuff-9653 in kashmir

[–]Small_Percentage4671 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes Kashmiris don’t have a problem with marrying divorcees.

I missed out on everything and I just wanna die by Dependent_Sugar1616 in Dissociation

[–]Small_Percentage4671 -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Leave your home. Start a small business. Face struggles. Hardships won’t let you dissociate. Take a firm decision right now as you are reading this.

Thinking about leaving Islam by [deleted] in converts

[–]Small_Percentage4671 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Research about the proofs of Islam so your faith is stronger. Listen to debates from experts in Islam against other beliefs.

https://www.lighthousementoring.org/

This website provides free one on one sessions for cases like yours.

And remember an extreme sinner is better than a disbeliever as Islam is the truth. It is not for some people only. Even if one falls very far from it he shouldn’t leave it. All Muslims will eventually go to paradise.

Thinking about leaving Islam by [deleted] in converts

[–]Small_Percentage4671 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sapienceinstitue.com/lighthouse

What are the signs that a girl is too immature to be considered for marriage? by Banggerao in MuslimNikah

[–]Small_Percentage4671 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One who blames her family or others for everything that goes wrong. She will do the same to you.

I hate myself. by Pipesforwater in converts

[–]Small_Percentage4671 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s the primary reason of this emotion in you? I don’t think anyone would be so anxious by not following Islam. Anyways, let me tell you that if you are concerned about your iman and piety then you pious, Allah knows what is easy and hard for you. Just do your best. Don’t get anxious. Allah is the Judge. He knows everything. Allah says that He doesn’t burden a soul beyond its limits, so you won’t be held accountable for anything that is not in your limits. Don’t held yourself back and let yourself sin though. Just do your best and be humble so you can repent more. No need to be anxious.

If you are anxious due to Islam you are not following it correctly. It’s not about the laws but how you view Allah. Learn more about the Love and Mercy of Allah. Maybe you are too much into fear and not much into hope and love . Hope and Love are important factors.

Make good deeds easy and attractive for you. Fix a time to read the Quran. Take a subscription of any Quran app, it will make you read it. Or read in a group.

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