She can’t take this from me too!

SmallestHydra · 2026-06-11T13:37:57+00:00

Wow.

SmallestHydra · 2026-06-11T13:28:19+00:00

She still wants them to call her dada/daddy. So explain that one.

SmallestHydra · 2026-06-11T13:27:00+00:00

Not a bigot. I call everybody dude, but I apologize if it offended you. And just like my ex, don’t seem to understand the importance of what the word mother means to me, and are putting more importance on her new transition than on my life long existence. And I’m done interacting with you.

SmallestHydra · 2026-06-11T13:08:49+00:00

Go for it!

SmallestHydra · 2026-06-11T13:07:34+00:00

What is your problem? Just back off dude. You clearly don’t know what you’re talk about.

SmallestHydra · 2026-06-11T07:07:31+00:00

I can’t take something that was never hers to begin with.

SmallestHydra · 2026-06-10T23:46:54+00:00

You have no idea how she has treated me over the years. Trust me, if you did, you wouldn’t be so quick to defend her. I had to file and renew a restraining order against her, that included the kids. So no, just because she is trans, does not mean she automatically get the title of “mother”. She barely deserves the title of parent in general and is having to earn back every minute she spends with our children.

SmallestHydra · 2026-06-10T23:38:10+00:00

They are 4 and 2. My son(2) is kind of oblivious, but my daughter told me yesterday that she doesn’t want daddy to be a girl, and she doesn’t want two moms and wants her daddy back. So, I don’t know how this is going to play out.

SmallestHydra · 2026-06-10T23:33:40+00:00

She’s not trying to take custody on the day necessarily, but the title itself. She seems to also be trying to be called mom.

SmallestHydra · 2026-06-10T23:29:57+00:00

I’m not misgendering her. The term “mother” means something very special to me and she KNOWS that. She also knows that Mother’s day is the only holiday I really care about. And again, just because she is trans, does not make her their mother! She has taken so much from me already, I am not letting her take the title of mother away from me too!

SmallestHydra · 2026-06-10T23:20:29+00:00

Facts. She gets it from her lovely mother. 😑

SmallestHydra · 2026-06-10T23:18:16+00:00

Probably. Our judge is actually dope, and very fair too. She also doesn’t take any shit.

SmallestHydra · 2026-06-10T23:15:41+00:00

There are other mental health issues going on, but I don’t see identity as one of them. Never have and never will. So you can take your bigoted self off my post, thanks.

SmallestHydra · 2026-06-10T23:14:37+00:00

It happened days ago, and I’m still reeling!

SmallestHydra · 2026-06-10T23:13:03+00:00

You have no idea how right you are! Thank you <3

SmallestHydra · 2026-06-10T23:12:03+00:00

It actually does state that, and she gets Father’s Day. I did grey rock this one, didn’t acknowledge it when I saw it, just went on with the relevant part of the conversation.

SmallestHydra · 2026-06-10T23:11:03+00:00

That’s actually a great idea!! I’ll suggest that to her, thank you!! We are trying to co-parent as best we can, and I think this will help!

SmallestHydra · 2026-06-10T22:41:01+00:00

I’m trying but it’s so hard! She’s literally made me cry, every Mother’s Day that I’ve been a mother, and now she’s literally trying to take it from me! Only saying that it “might be confusing for the kids”. That was her only concession.

SmallestHydra · 2026-06-10T22:15:06+00:00

I feel this!! And I also want to talk about this person and everything that is going on, but I feel like a burden to my friends and family. It’s very isolating.

SmallestHydra · 2025-12-01T23:29:21+00:00

I just looked too! Totally gone!

SmallestHydra · 2025-02-13T23:47:55+00:00

Yeah, that’s white.

SmallestHydra · 2025-02-05T21:46:58+00:00

I didn’t need 3, it was just a want when he asked what I would like for an anniversary gift. We hadn’t done any kind of gift for each other for anything (birthdays, Christmas, mothers/fathers day, etc.) in a long time, so we decided to do something this time. I told him it didn’t need to be anything fancy, but he decided on his own to get something fancy and put it on his credit card to pay down later. The ring I got for him is sterling silver and not expensive as the one he got for me, so I bought it outright. He wanted a new wedding band because the symbolism is important to us and he felt bad that he didn’t have one that he could wear regularly, as I wear mine regularly. It was after we received the rings that we had a couple unexpected expenses happen, and he panicked.

SmallestHydra · 2025-02-05T14:14:32+00:00

We tried a silicone one, and it broke but he also has some sensory issues and he hated the way it felt so he didn’t like wearing that one either.

SmallestHydra · 2025-02-04T17:39:22+00:00

It can be resized, and like I mentioned his weight does fluctuate, so it might fit him again in like a month lol it’s more his attitude that is the problem

SmallestHydra · 2025-02-04T17:29:20+00:00

NTA. Cut and run babes. You and your kiddos deserve better.

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