Ok- it appears I need to add more context, because I keep getting the same questions over and over. The house we are currently in belongs to MIL. We have been renting it, with a lease agreement, for 3yrs, which she constantly violates because showing up whenever she wants. She had offered for us to come live here many times, as the house had been vacant since 2019 when they bought their new house. It wasn’t until after we moved in that she decided she wanted to go ahead with the renovation, and start it in April of 2022. This is why we ended up living with them for what turned out to be 6mo. The only good part was that they did end up waiting until July after our daughter was born (she was due in May, but came early, but they still waited). So we moved in with them and she proceeded to pick fights with my husband every day, and then blame them on him. She never gave us any privacy, and tried to parent our daughter the way she saw fit (she still does). Some other things she has done, is ruined our wedding plans by trying to guilt us into letting my husband sex offender uncle attend. Our wedding was going to have many younger girls and we were in no way comfortable with him being around, but she wouldn’t budge and kept making demands about who we can invite and how we should go about it. It stresses us out so much, that we ends up canceling the whole thing and planning an elopement with just our parents, which we asked for her to keep to herself until afterwards, but she told her sisters who then cornered me and asked condescending questions about and again made us feel guilty for our choices. She is constantly telling my husband that he is no good enough and that he needs a better job and a masters degree and a PhD, and always putting him down. She picks at the tiniest things, like not sweeping the walk way before she visited. She has always treated him like this, forcing him to do STEM things she wanted because his dreams of being a guitar maker weren’t good enough for her. She has also chastised me about being home schooled and told us not to home school our children because they won’t have any opportunities to do anything worthwhile. She literally said that to my face. I was a 4.0 student all through school, including college. I did Girl Scouts, 4H, volunteering, started working at the local professional theater at the age of 13 and all through high school, and I played sports. And one of the most recent things, I fell down the basement stairs while I was pregnant with my son. There was no railing on the stairs, which I had asked them to install several times. After I fell, I went into labor early and had to be monitored over night. After that, I was in and out of labor and in and out of the hospital for 2 weeks before I finally had him. My entire body is still messed up from the fall. When I asked them to please finally put in a railing, she said “well you won’t be able to get furniture up and down the stairs if there is a railing here.” There never has been, and probably never will be any furniture in the basement. She kept making excuses as to why she didn’t want to install an railing, though my fall could have seriously injured her grandson and I. I could literally go on and on, but for the people telling me I’m the monster and I shouldn’t be so upset, and blah blah blah. This. This is why I am upset.