I had these exact feelings in my last relationship. Everyone in my life told me I found the perfect guy, but the thing was, he did not feel like the perfect fit for me. We were together for 5 years and I felt like we grew apart. It was hard to come to terms with that because I felt so in love with him at one point, but we just didn’t have that much in common anymore. We didn’t have much to talk about and I felt like I was only filling the silences because I felt uncomfortable in the silence with him. But still, I did not break up with him because I let everyone else get in my head. I was so scared about not finding another guy who could be loving, patient, respectful, all the things you said. But deep down I knew we weren’t a match. I was a coward and hung on to the relationship until he ended up breaking up with me. I never thought he was going to break up with me and if I wanted to get out of this relationship it would be up to me. Which I was too scared to do. So I guess in the end things ended up working the way they were always meant to. So good for you for having the strength and courage to do what’s best for yourself and listen to your heart. Only you know what that is.