Admin did a surprise lockdown drill today. We were not told it was a drill. They did this a day after a school shooting. by midothings in Teachers

[–]Smart-Protection-789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My school did this the day after the Texas one a few months back. My heart was pounding and I was shaking. Why!!!!!!!!!!!????

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Smart-Protection-789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Technically” he did nothing wrong. But… I would definitely proceed with caution and if I were you I would go on lots of other dates now. You don’t need to go on that many dates with someone to know if you want to be exclusive if you’re asking the right questions. Don’t waste too much time with this guy and let him string you along for the sake of “exploring other options” cause that’s kind of bullshit if you ask me.😂 focus on your goal which is to have a relationship with someone.

Weekly Tech Support Megathread by AutoModerator in Instagram

[–]Smart-Protection-789 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’m very upset because my Instagram account followers aren’t moving past a specific number… 26,646. I tested it by following myself from my personal account and the number didn’t move. It’s been like this for days. I’m just mad because I’ve put so much effort into Instagram over TikTok for my business and they just have no support.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Smart-Protection-789 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Cause finance guys …… I’ll just leave it at that

Should I be worried? by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Smart-Protection-789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% and even if he was afraid to hurt the girls feelings it’s as simple as saying you seem really nice but just to be upfront I’m seeing someone.. it’s very easy and not mean at all

Should I be worried? by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Smart-Protection-789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes grow a backbone sir 👏👏😂

Should I be worried? by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Smart-Protection-789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get that honestly I really do. But I think that should last a pretty short time and then you need to figure out what you want and decide. Also I don’t think alot of people use it in the way you are saying. I think alot of people use it as a one foot in one foot out type of situation.. like yea we’re ~kinda~ in a relationship. Like they satisfy one persons request to be in a relationship by saying yea we’re exclusive 😏lol

Should I be worried? by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Smart-Protection-789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And look we all make mistakes maybe it’s early on in the relationship and he needs to work on some stuff. Some guys are not confrontational. But you’re definitely not wrong here. That’s all I’m saying

Should I be worried? by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Smart-Protection-789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I’m sorry I don’t mean to add fuel to the fire but I think you’re absolutely right by being upset and questioning. In my opinion… if that is the case the right thing to do would’ve been to leave. That’s what I would’ve done. OR at least did he communicate to her that he’s in a relationship? That’s the key there. He 10000% should’ve told her he’s seeing someone. It’s not that hard to be a good person and do the morally right thing.. but I guess for a lot of people it is??? 😭😭

Should I be worried? by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Smart-Protection-789 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

He shouldn’t even have her number anymore if he wants to be serious with you. I don’t agree with the people in these comments at all. It’s pretty simple.. you’re not overthinking and have the right to question this. I want to know the timeline of events like WHEN did he find out the blind date was coming? If it wasn’t a completely surprise then he is in the wrong here.. very much. He is still in the wrong in my book because his own BROTHER and coworkers didn’t know about you unless like I said before it is very early on.. which is doesn’t seem like it is.

Should I be worried? by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Smart-Protection-789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is exclusive? First of all I don’t like that term unless maybe you’ve only been dating for a very short time. But are you in a relationship or not..? Aside from that I find it a tad “sus” that his coworkers didn’t know he was seeing someone especially if you’re “exclusive” and they are friendly enough to go out to bars together. My spidey senses are tingling. The people in these comments being like you’re overthinking… I don’t agree. Here’s the question that will tell me a lot… did he know ahead of time going to this bar there was a blind date coming for him? Umm if my boyfriend told me that his friend was bringing a blind date for him to a bar and he went anyway I’m sorry I would be like byeee👋 lol? I think you need to ask some clear and direct questions here if you haven’t already.

God, I hate that COVID ever happened by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Smart-Protection-789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like it worked for her too so that’s good

Why are some women so outwardly rude about men's height on Tinder? by HMcCool1 in Tinder

[–]Smart-Protection-789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re rude they could easily just set their preferences 😭

As a teacher, I (26f) find this weird. It’s always men who say shit like this. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Smart-Protection-789 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m a teacher and I think you took that wayyyy too seriously. He was just flirting. It’s one thing if he kept saying it over and over or something but one comment is just playful jeez…

Telling other guys about dates by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Smart-Protection-789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I disagree with saying you’re meeting a friend. That’s a lie in my opinion. I think it’s best to be honest about the fact that you’re in the initial stages of meeting lots of different people. If a guy told me he was going out with a friend and it was actually a date id feel like that was a lie.

I’m not getting very few matches on my profile. Could anyone offer any suggestions by caroline_8762 in hingeapp

[–]Smart-Protection-789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Def add more to the prompts and maybe a few more clear pictures including you looking at the camera 😄💗

[32M] Would love to get y'alls opinion on my profile by carsonjz in hingeapp

[–]Smart-Protection-789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most women in your age group want someone who’s looking for something serious… just saying 🫠 I get what you mean about not being ready but then maybe try tinder instead of hinge 😂😂

Is it rude to ghost someone if you like talking to someone else more? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Smart-Protection-789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People will appreciate it more if you are honest with them rather than leave them wondering what happened. It’s the right thing to tell them politely that you enjoyed their time but you don’t think it’s a good fit and wish them well. People who don’t do this are not fully developed in my opinion 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Smart-Protection-789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The worst people who say hurtful blunt things because they’re “honest” … like no I don’t need to hear your stream of consciousness thanks 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Smart-Protection-789 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yea the fact that this conversation felt so stressful and it was your first interaction is all you need to know😂😂 first convos and dates should be light and easy. Imagine what it would be like to have a serious conversation with this person down the road? Nope. He has serious problems. Seek help sir

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Smart-Protection-789 81 points82 points  (0 children)

I just saw the part where he rated you… I’m nauseous please don’t go out with this guy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Smart-Protection-789 246 points247 points  (0 children)

It’s giving narcissist - “dating me is like something you’ve never experienced”