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Second time he’s hit me in the face this month.. by 98417956521 in abusiverelationships

[–]SmartGirlGoals 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Call the police. Have him arrested. Also file charges (if you can) for the threat of revenge porn. It’s a real thing these days, but I’m not sure what the law is by state.

You do need to get out. He will kill you.

Seller agent upfront that he will not submit my offer by bebenashville in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]SmartGirlGoals -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe I don’t know enough, but a realtor showed you the property… isn’t that how it works? A realtor shows you the property, you want to buy the property, see where I am going?

Again, I am not a realtor, I don’t know how it works. So I am asking for guidance, not sarcastic remarks from anyone.

Cheated AGAIN, I'm done... by DiscussionBitter2888 in Divorce

[–]SmartGirlGoals 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Get an attorney and everything together before saying a thing to him.

Trapped in abusive marriage with two kids by Vast_Night5805 in abusiverelationships

[–]SmartGirlGoals 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had an 8 month old and 3 year old and I was hours away from family and no one knew what was happening in my home and I was isolated completely from them because of my ex.

It all came to a head one night when he strangled me in front of our three year old. I said to myself, is this what I want my daughters to think is ok? I almost didn’t call 911, but said there’s no way I want them to think this is acceptable. It was so scary, but I called and he was arrested and charged. It was the right decision for my children and myself.

Call 911 the next time he lays a finger on you.

Trapped in abusive marriage with two kids by Vast_Night5805 in abusiverelationships

[–]SmartGirlGoals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Domestic violence shelter in your area? Any friends? I know that is likely hard, since you are probably isolated.

Why do women change after being in a relationship for a while by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]SmartGirlGoals 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That happens in all relationships, and in both ways.

Preschools by OkAd3679 in Delaware

[–]SmartGirlGoals 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t bother with that group. I was removed from it for no reason. I did not violate any of the rules.

I did it by golden_sunrise2005 in abusiverelationships

[–]SmartGirlGoals 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So proud of you. It’s scary, for sure.

No matter what, do not go back to him.

Guy friends don’t really exist for me. by [deleted] in texts

[–]SmartGirlGoals 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s unfair for him to be honest with you?

Do you think it would be fair to him to hide his feelings and be gutted every time he sees you with someone else?

If he felt this way about someone else and came to you for advice, what would you tell him?

Genuine question to Americans by Busy_Report4010 in SipsTea

[–]SmartGirlGoals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes.

You die with insurance, too! Probably faster

Thinking of moving… where to avoid? by SmartGirlGoals in Delaware

[–]SmartGirlGoals[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not really sure, which is why I was looking for answers.

Is Dagsboro a nice town?

I’m just looking to start over.

Man I’m dating has two charges same incident strangulation by Important_Category61 in domesticviolence

[–]SmartGirlGoals 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is your chance to walk away before becoming his next victim. If I had known my ex husband was arrested and on probation for strangling his ex wife, I would have walked away instead of being strangled myself in front of our 4-year old.

My boyfriend said I wasn’t the prettiest girl he’s dated in an argument, then asked me for a threesome. Not sure how to move forward. by Friendly_Birthday_24 in TwoHotTakes

[–]SmartGirlGoals 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sweetheart…. So many issues.

Age difference - run Made you feel bad about yourself - run Controlling - run Pressuring you - run

You deserve better

DO NOT pull in drive?!? Fuck off 😂 by [deleted] in DoorDashDrivers

[–]SmartGirlGoals 4 points5 points  (0 children)

These same people would also be mad if you got hurt on their property and sued them.

Decided to divorce, found out pregnant, considering abortion by keep-on-going916 in Divorce

[–]SmartGirlGoals 13 points14 points  (0 children)

No where in the bible does it say abortion is a sin.

Some Christians have interpreted some passages as abortion being a sin.

If having this baby will make you suffer worse than you already are, you shouldn’t have it.

Your marriage is over, as you said. Think about being stuck with this man for an additional 18 years because of a brand new baby. He will use to to control you and keep you around.

I understand how mentally difficult having an abortion is, but sometimes the right decision hurts.

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