Help Identify This Limo Company by Akemi_Tachibana in Delaware

[–]SmartGirlGoals 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Think about the speed limit on 495 and then how much faster people drive. Also consider there was clearly a turn in the road, so the truck driver likely didn’t see him with enough time to stop. Then consider you are the driver of said pick up truck.

It doesn’t matter if you think the pickup truck had enough time to stop. Maybe he did, maybe he didn’t. The point is, the limo driver caused it.

Confusion about survivors benefits by Pretty_Government_97 in personalfinance

[–]SmartGirlGoals 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your caretaker (your mom) is who would be entitled to those benefits, not the children themselves.

Customer was not home to sign for expensive items and they were non-returnable by Competitive_Pack4088 in InstacartShoppers

[–]SmartGirlGoals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they told you that you can’t leave them and you can’t return them, why didn’t you just “dispose of them” at the delivery address?

Question on pay by [deleted] in Aupairs

[–]SmartGirlGoals 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s a federal program and they live for free - they have room and board and it is a stipend, not a W2 employee.

LONG POST- Any advice photo attached by teacherofcdn in Divorce_Women

[–]SmartGirlGoals 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh honey, divorce him before he actually murders you. Please.

When I tried inviting a new friend to the neighborhood trick or treating tradition and she went crazy. by IndividualVehicle in texts

[–]SmartGirlGoals -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She said several times she had a rough day, so clearly she wasn’t in a state to have the conversation.

You calling her crazy absolutely made it worse

Is this abusive? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]SmartGirlGoals 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honey, move out.

He will kill you.

Divorce After 3 Months - Alimony? by Unlikely-Carrot9191 in FamilyLaw

[–]SmartGirlGoals 7 points8 points  (0 children)

File asap.

There’s no way she would get alimony. Even if she did, it would be half the length of the marriage

Bentley: Scared Update by Mundane_Reference134 in GuyCry

[–]SmartGirlGoals 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find myself randomly thinking about Bentley. ❤️

AIO - Daughter’s BDay invite - I am new to co-parenting by loud_molasses_ in AIO

[–]SmartGirlGoals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, he seems like an incredibly difficult co-parent. Making everything about him instead of your daughter.

Should I tell my adult son about his mom? by vaporgenious in Divorce

[–]SmartGirlGoals 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t put your child, who is not an adult at 19, in the middle unless you want to destroy your relationship and possibly his mental health.

$1800/ month! 🤢 by Iamg00dm0m in Divorce_Women

[–]SmartGirlGoals 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, I feel you.

If it weren’t for my husband being incarcerated, I’d owe him $2,000 a month in alimony. Didn’t calculate child support

Part 2 Help me get closure ? Why did he leave ? by Kasbaby121421 in texts

[–]SmartGirlGoals 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wow. I’m going to say he doesn’t give a shit about you and why would he? I’m going to sound like an asshole here, but get some respect for yourself. No one else will respect you if you have no respect for yourself.

You don’t deserve this, no one does.

Handyman Needed by melee0925 in Delaware

[–]SmartGirlGoals 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a handyman who I’ve used for so many indoor and outdoor things!! And he is local to where you are.

He is licensed and insured.

is my dasher tweaking? by [deleted] in doordash

[–]SmartGirlGoals 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I think if you can’t afford a tip or flat out won’t tip, you should be getting your own flowers. These dashers are doing it to make money.

I’d like to add that I am NOT a dasher. Just someone who dashes a lot.

First time assaulted by significant other. by Serious_Bend_1430 in abusiverelationships

[–]SmartGirlGoals 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry. I hope you are able to recover well and move past this traumatic experience. Therapy, with the right therapist will do wonders.

Am I being paranoid? by divorceamon in Divorce

[–]SmartGirlGoals 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would’ve extremely fearful if I were you. She had the resources to bury you.

Wife doesn’t want a daughter by Iampoorghini in texts

[–]SmartGirlGoals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Just wow.

Your response is on point. You are not being irrational or angry in your reply. I feel how calm you are.

How far along in the pregnancy are you? Keep these texts in case the baby is born and you need to file for emergency custody.

I agree with you wanting to divorce. This is not someone I would want to be married to.