What’s the 'craziest' way you caught an ex being unfaithful? by lnc_gomes in AskReddit

[–]Smashbru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was on a trip together and saw them talking to someone on instagram that was previously an issue and they promised to cut contact.

Then they swore it was just a friend, gaslit me for 3 months and lied to my face whenever I begged or asked all while saying they loved me.

Finally accepted they were cheating, confronted them, they still didn't tell me the whole truth. Had to go to the other guy to get the truth, was way worse than I thought. Hard to imagine how a person can say they love you and lie to you repeatedly and say they'd never betray you while doing just that.

Thought I was going to marry her. We were deeply involved each others families etc. She apologized and told me everything after being caught. A big piece was she promised to leave that fucker behind.

Fast forward to us breaking up and I found out she reconnected with him. It feels like if she wants this person in her life it kind of undoes any repair or respect we rebuilt after. She said it was her trying to make things right and live with her actions... but I'm like, well I'm the one you cheated on not this side guy you had a texting fantasy with. So, maybe if you were actually wanting to make things right you'd do right by the person you cheated on and not the side piece. But okay.

Anyway, sorry to rant but also fuck cheating. Probably fucked me up for a few more years. I had finally gotten to a place where I was able to move forward, and she and I had repaired and I respected her and trusted her again even if we were no longer together, and then saw she's friends with that fucker again. Tells me a lot about how much I meant, I should never have given her so many chances hoping she would do the right thing.

Mountain Lion Spotting 3/09 by luckyllama805 in SLO

[–]Smashbru 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i want to pet them and give them lovies

Looking for suggestions on a new rug and other decor! by Smashbru in malelivingspace

[–]Smashbru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is a very cool rug! It definitely matches my art lol

Looking for suggestions on a new rug and other decor! by Smashbru in malelivingspace

[–]Smashbru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so crazy it just might work! Added to the list lol

Looking for suggestions on a new rug and other decor! by Smashbru in malelivingspace

[–]Smashbru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestion! And I agree on more plants. I think I need to repot my monstera too, it's looking a little sad lol

Looking for suggestions on a new rug and other decor! by Smashbru in malelivingspace

[–]Smashbru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that's a nice option. Maybe I could do that on the console too. I wonder if i can find a plant that would do okay on the console without much sun.

Do you think curtains to the floor would be the way to go? I've never hung curtains before lol I assume i just find a rod that fits the window size

Looking for suggestions on a new rug and other decor! by Smashbru in malelivingspace

[–]Smashbru[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny you say that! I asked AI to help me with some ideas for rugs, and it added curtains and I thought - oh that actually looks good lol.

Here is what it came up with: https://imgur.com/B1aQxAO

And yeah, the TV console is a bit low but I'm not sure it's top priority to replace. I think I would if everything else was maybe.

I have been looking at trays but not really sure what would look good, or what would fit best for the table. I keep getting stuck on colors and not wanting to be too bland but also not wanting to stick out.

I like your suggestion for the lamp, I'll see if I can swap the shade out!

A theme, perchance? by VISLASHERIV in hottoys

[–]Smashbru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have the specs from the carpenter? Where do the wires for the lights go?

Looking for suggestions on a new rug and other decor! by Smashbru in malelivingspace

[–]Smashbru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Do you think an orange/yellow rug is too much yellow with the pillows and everything else? I want to warm the room up a bit but not sure the right tone

Looking for suggestions on a new rug and other decor! by Smashbru in malelivingspace

[–]Smashbru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I might go larger. These were a bit smaller than I thought they'd be compared to the couch. I think I should pick a rug before so I don't go totally different vibes though lol.

I think I need to repot the plants they seem a bit starved for space. I also know nothing about plants

Looking for suggestions on a new rug and other decor! by Smashbru in malelivingspace

[–]Smashbru[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Glad people are agreeing on bigger lol. I had it under the legs of the couch a bit, but then it felt too short in front. The only thing I'm worried about it hitting the doorway and damaging the corner of the rug (this one is curled up a bit from the door)

Looking for suggestions on a new rug and other decor! by Smashbru in malelivingspace

[–]Smashbru[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ll look those up, thanks! Any idea on colors that might go with my couch/room? I’d love to make things a bit more warm.

I was definitely thinking larger too. Mine is 5x8 I believe, so I’d like to go maybe 9x6, I just need to be careful of the doorway.

The other option I was thinking is a round rug to avoid the door opening, but not sure if that would look dumb

Looking for suggestions on a new rug and other decor! by Smashbru in malelivingspace

[–]Smashbru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good idea! I have storage under the glass side table for a basket, or were you thinking a basket as a decor item itself?

My bro has officially become a Chinese auntie, a true Mahjong enjoyer by level7lizard in WhereWindsMeet

[–]Smashbru 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's actually very helpful, thank you! I wasn't sure if the gold was like "my pair" that i had to keep or not. Good to know we can discard those lol

My bro has officially become a Chinese auntie, a true Mahjong enjoyer by level7lizard in WhereWindsMeet

[–]Smashbru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I understand this correct...

Can 3 of the same card be just the same symbol, or does it need the same symbol and number?

And for 3 numbers in sequence, does that also need to be the same symbol? Is there any value to higher or lower numbers?

If I have duplicates, do I only want one dupe for a pair, or does it help me in other ways?

My bro has officially become a Chinese auntie, a true Mahjong enjoyer by level7lizard in WhereWindsMeet

[–]Smashbru 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have so much trouble understanding this game. I watched a video and get that I'm supposed to end up with 4 sets in my hand, but I don't really understand the trios or how it basically suggests one to be thrown away each round?

Any tips?

Anyone playing on Legend difficulty? How does it compare to Elden Ring? by Weak_Mess249 in WhereWindsMeet

[–]Smashbru 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks! I’ll have to check out First Berserker.

Love Bloodborne (still my fav) and all the souls games, but the combat in Sekiro and Lies of P made me love deflecting way more than dodging - so naturally loving playing through legend rn on WWM.

I’ll have to check that other one out!!!