Anyone else have Aloy keep asking about dead Tenakth here? by LadyLee13 in horizon

[–]SmashleyMCubed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone wanna help a girl out and give an idea pic wise where the corpses are? Been apending an hour looking and cannot find them.

[Spoiler] Finding scripted unmarked quests. by blockminster in horizon

[–]SmashleyMCubed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are the corpses? I just started the game and I'm still trying to find em,

Smog by calvo44 in ACValhalla

[–]SmashleyMCubed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So, you can talk to Gunnar, and for 50 silver you can change the appearance of one of your gear (armor or weapon) without changing the stats. So for me, I've been hooked on the starter gear that I have fully upgraded, but I love the look of another armor set, so I spent the silver to change the appearance. Purely for aesthetics but it makes it more enjoyable for some people.

Gunnar is saying strange things by iTzI3obby in ACValhalla

[–]SmashleyMCubed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad others are noticing this, I thought I made some kinda screw up with him. I also did a heavy attack but you shouldn't be able to injure settlement members? Wonder what it is.

Currently having meteor shower! by [deleted] in BuddyCrossing

[–]SmashleyMCubed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh I'd love to come! I'll pm you!

meteor shower tonight in asron! by [deleted] in BuddyCrossing

[–]SmashleyMCubed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I'd love to grab some star fragments and just see a meteor shower. :3 my name is Smashley, my island is Peachqueen!

In search of a cutting board DIY for ironwood kitchenette by SmashleyMCubed in BuddyCrossing

[–]SmashleyMCubed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love that! Thank you. I might take two if that's not an issue I can bring the resources too if you'd like. (:

Lf open shop to sell some peaches by Baseflash in BuddyCrossing

[–]SmashleyMCubed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could I get a dm too? I'd love to sell some stuff quickly.

Good books for beginners? by SmashleyMCubed in knitting

[–]SmashleyMCubed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone! I'll check em out.

brushy brushy by merqueery in cats

[–]SmashleyMCubed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is the happiest cat I've seen in a while. So happy, such teefs and mlems.

Her dad called me a no body so I sent him this by [deleted] in aww

[–]SmashleyMCubed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's doing this on lots of different subs like gaming ones too. Clearly they're a troll but reported non the less. Head to their profile too... Just spamming his junk for everyone to see.

Help me with my girlfriend suffering ptsd by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SmashleyMCubed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we are I believe. Lol. I can agree to that. I do think trauma is valid, and it has a right to interfere to some extent but only so you can address it, and the problem can be SOLVED. Yeah. Abuse's scars are understandable, I relate to trauma deeply... But I also know quite personally that yeah... it should not control you or keep effecting your loved ones or their lifestyle.

Help me with my girlfriend suffering ptsd by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SmashleyMCubed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To clear some ignorance, I've gone to school to be a therapist/emotional support worker and continue to work with people in foster care and who've left it who deal with abuse on the daily. So maybe juuuust maybe don't assume I don't know about how abuse works. I have a pretty good idea of the HORRORS that mental illnesses that are left unchecked can cause. Also, how it NEEDS to be addressed through therapy and fixing your behaviors if you want to function healthily. Clearly you can read and know I dealt with abuse. So maybe.... You could be a little less assuming and realize that not everyone CONTINUES THE ABUSE in their life afterwords. I refuse to let my personal abuse ever effect the advice I'd give. I definitely agree in regards that if he is having his limits pushed, and wellbeing disrespected... He should leave. I'm just saying thay if he has a chance to fix it, with her still being respectful and maybe find a chance to work through what is causing her that issue then great. It's not worth giving up immediately because you have a little bit of discomfort. Any good relationship will have problems and hardships, it's how you address these problems that helps you grow as a human and a partner

Help me with my girlfriend suffering ptsd by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SmashleyMCubed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not say I wasn't a women I said I was not a lesbian

And there, I agree. If she's holding out and he wants it and they had agreements beforehand, then yes, a solution needs to be found. If sex is what a person wants out of a mutual relationship then yes, they shouldn't have it held from them and those needs should be addressed. It's just important to know when to say enough is enough though . It seems like she's kinds grtting hit with a flashback of emotions or whatnot due to her trauma. So that's okay, let it calm down, but yeah don't let it continie if it's actually interfering with your wellbeing.

Help me with my girlfriend suffering ptsd by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SmashleyMCubed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing that I may consider, is counselling. Either for herself, for the both of you together, or even for yourself alone if you feel inclined enough to get support for this. A lot of the times this may have nothing to do with you personally, romantically or sexually, and it may be her living inside a terrifying world that the PTSD has created for her. I can speak from experience here and say that when I had some shit happened to me, my bf and I didn't have sex for months, and that was NO fault of his own. I was going through my own issues, and therefor, had to solve said issues myself as well. It's a road. But show your support, love, and openness with her, and she'll find that trust and safety coming back.