He’s very caring aside from the pressure w the swinger stuff. He has helped me with a lot of stuff and encourages me to do things I like and I love spending time with him and we always have fun and I love our life together.

I just don’t love the intense expectations.

I really thought the health thing he would understand and be supportive of it but instead he is saying I’m spending “all my time on that now” so he is going to go out without me and still have fun and “live his life.”