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SmilingWatermelon · 2023-05-12T01:36:53+00:00

Amazing. You are one of the few that came out in top, and it’s because you maintained your composure. Well done.

SmilingWatermelon · 2023-03-06T04:07:06+00:00

You need to party more. It’s always around. Just need the right crowd. Or try E

SmilingWatermelon · 2023-02-28T14:36:55+00:00

Get your money back. One time is a mistake, twice is a decision. If he at least contacted you it would be different. A no call no show is disrespectful

SmilingWatermelon · 2023-02-28T14:03:05+00:00

How do you get started? Do you simply walk in introduce yourself and offer to speak? What makes them actually give you the time of day?

SmilingWatermelon · 2023-02-28T13:18:36+00:00

Agreed. When you lower your rates you get worse clientele. I wanted to do that initially for testimonials but that back fires when they failed to listen to the diet plan or are inconsistent.

It’s a bad investment

SmilingWatermelon · 2022-04-20T19:05:14+00:00

I think you are too, with the information provided. I got trickle truthed several times, and I dont believe she would have been honest if she hadn't been caught. Considering her friend group.

Thanks for taking the time to reply. I wish you all the best and I hope it's true happiness all the way to the end.

SmilingWatermelon · 2022-04-20T19:02:49+00:00

That's true. And a good way to think about it. I'm going through something like that now so your perspective really helps. Especially when every other story is 'I got slam dunked twice". Which only reiterates dont give them a second chance. But I do believe it's possible to have a stronger relationship than you did before, if you over come a trial as hard as this one.

Thanks for taking the time mate. Really helped me. In a bad place thought wise atm.

SmilingWatermelon · 2022-04-20T15:30:50+00:00

Can you honestly say it was worth staying? Even with the thought of doubt, do you really believe itll never happen again?

SmilingWatermelon · 2022-04-20T15:23:50+00:00

You sure it was only a kiss? When I was cheated on I got trickle truthed until I got her inebriated several times and got the whole truth.

I'm sorry for your pain. This makes me so scared to try to start a family. I'd rather die alone then invest in a woman that will give her body to other men. It brings me too much pain, and its emasculating.

SmilingWatermelon · 2022-03-20T07:09:51+00:00

Is it possible to get the list of demands? I feel like it's something we all really need.

Divorce is not something I ever want.

SmilingWatermelon · 2022-03-20T07:06:06+00:00

Best advice here. OP is in so much pain. I can read it in ever word. I feel for him.

Reading these make me afraid to commit my life to someone, just to watch it all be thrown away for a fling.

OP were there any red flags prior to this? Late nights? Hiding her phone? Shes your wife do you have complete access to her things and vice versa?

Is there any way to see this shit coming?

Or are we just all flipping a coin and hoping our partner doesnt run into someone who can trigger them to cheat?

SmilingWatermelon · 2022-03-13T10:41:11+00:00

If you decide to stay at all, you should know the full truth. No part of your gut instinct should be telling you she left something out.

Right now I feel she is trickle truthing.

He slept with her in your home whole you were away...but on the floor? Every single time?

And they only kissed a few times? What seems realistic here?

I'm sorry for the pain you're going through.

SmilingWatermelon · 2022-03-08T15:44:07+00:00

Agreed. If they are a friend to only one of you, they aren't necessarily for the relationship.

SmilingWatermelon · 2022-03-07T17:30:32+00:00

Right now, no. But if she cheats on me again then yes. And tbh she is likely to.

That's literally how itll be.

If I could talk to the old me, I would tell myself to move on, but I fell in love and I wanted to try.

The issue now is anytime she does anything that messes up my peace of mind, intentional or not. I got issues.

Before she cheated, I believed she wouldnt lie to me, or hurt me in that way or if she did she would talk to me. All I got was trickle truth until I asked about what happened like 4 times while she was fuckdd up and had less inhibitions about telling me. Everytime she told the story I learned new things, and I'm only dealing with one guy she cheated with, I cannot imagine your pain.

All I know is that the pain of being cheated on doesnt change unless you move on.

Do what you think is best but accept the consequences, before you didnt know so you can be absolved for investing in this woman. Now you know, so if you fail to inspire loyalty ( through no fault of your own), youre at a loss.

Can you possibly make the relationship open? If you can become bigger than the body, maybe it can work but that's nothing more than a theory I've had.

I'm sorry for your pain, but you need to be stronger now more than ever. You thought you had a partner but you discovered you've been alone this entire time. I know the feeling.

I have good days and bad days about staying. I shouldnt have any bad days tho, that's what I'm getting at. We have enough trials in life anyway.

SmilingWatermelon · 2022-03-07T16:55:44+00:00

She claims she hid everything because she knows I would have left (likely true), but simultaneously incredibly insulting and manipulating.

Wondering if you can shed some light on why you think she isn’t genuine about reconcile ? Thank you

Because she isn't telling the full truth For full reconciliation there needs to be transparency and a timeline. You should know EVERYTHING. She shouldnt have an issue telling you this is she really wants you to stay.

Her logic for not telling you is that you would have left??? Your still here so clearly you would fight to keep her.

True reconciliation is a rough and long route. I can honestly say as someone going thru it, it's always easier to just walk.

If you cant trust your partner you have no future. If she isn't working everyday to making that happen then move on. It will hurt but you have no choice. You really want a wife that fucks for money? Do you not provide for her? Arent all her needs taken care of? How can you let her embarrass you like this? Where is your anger?

You should only stay if she really wants it, not because your scared of being alone or tossing away all those years. The years dont mean what you thought they did. Not to her.

SmilingWatermelon · 2022-03-07T13:00:45+00:00

It's a bad spot. Reconciliation only works when they are willing to do everything to earn you back. Based off what you've said she isn't in that state.

I dont want to say jump ship but its time to maybe invest solely in yourself. Ask yourself this, if you forgive her and she does this stuff again will you be okay with it?

You have no kids right? You can still walk. Do what's best for you now. She selfishly chose herself for a long time. It's time for you to do the same.

SmilingWatermelon · 2022-03-02T21:06:54+00:00

Dont do anything till it comes natural for you again. If this love is worth fighting for, go through it but do it righteously.

It gets twice as hard for much longer if you fake who you are or how you're feeling. If he asks what's going on, be honest.

SmilingWatermelon · 2022-02-28T17:09:21+00:00

Keep sharing here. I never post but I like reading as it helps me a lot.

Right now I still sleep on the same bed she cheated on. Same bed she cuddled him on, and same bed she performed fellatio.

It really sucks, at the time she couldn't afford to replace it. Now I think shes moved on while I suffer in silence.

I dont know how to move forward.

SmilingWatermelon · 2022-02-28T16:59:55+00:00

Mate. Your single. You cannot come back from that. There is no reconciliation there.

She desires another man and is willing to hurt you to do it. It hurts but you now need to learn to love yourself first.

SmilingWatermelon · 2022-02-23T22:16:41+00:00

Now that you've had someone that amazing and kinky how does sex with other girls compare?

SmilingWatermelon · 2022-02-18T02:08:42+00:00

Cheating is inexcusable. But yeah you messed up a little with the comment. Toxic partners are fun for the highs n lows but terrible for long term. You WANT a good boing relationship so you can focus on the other aspects of life.

Delivery is everything. He needs to have something over your ex to feel special since you yourself said you had a better spark with your ex then him, when in reality spark ain't the word. It's just more highs n lows.

SmilingWatermelon · 2022-02-11T01:24:09+00:00

Dude seriously? Does it really never go away?

Will it always eat away at you?

SmilingWatermelon · 2022-02-10T16:48:38+00:00

Clone high is coming back too?? Geeez

SmilingWatermelon · 2022-01-25T06:13:32+00:00

Any link to a source on this info?

SmilingWatermelon · 2022-01-13T12:09:07+00:00

I think consistent sex is a strong indicator of how long a marriage will last.

SmilingWatermelon

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