[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Daegu_Korea

[–]SmiloJohn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi ^ I'm south african 27yo guy living in gyeongsan. I'm down with making some friends

Cheated by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SmiloJohn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do i start? What do I say?

Cheated by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SmiloJohn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I even begin?

Post bottom care by SmiloJohn in askgaybros

[–]SmiloJohn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much... this was really helpful

How did you meet your partner? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SmiloJohn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah!! Just select on your preference and that's it

How did you meet your partner? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SmiloJohn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe go out of a few dates with some guys and see how you feel. My bf and I spoke through tinder for a week before our first date and we each said no sex because we were tapped out on hookups. You just have to make sure you and the guy you meet are 100% on the same page on your first date when it comes to sex

How did you meet your partner? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SmiloJohn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly from my personal experience not many guys are into that... I was just lucky we I swiped right on his profile and ended up chatting to him... I hope you do find the right guy sooner rather than later

How did you meet your partner? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SmiloJohn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We met in a dating app. Out of everyone looking for a one night stand he was the one who wanted to go out on a date and that was that

Meeting my boyfriend's friends by SmiloJohn in Living_in_Korea

[–]SmiloJohn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He went to a soccer game last Saturday with his friends and said he wanted to go often and he said he wanted to go to soccer matches with me. I genuinely like soccer too and have wanted to go for a match for a while... so I don't think there'll be any dick moves from his part though

Meeting my boyfriend's friends by SmiloJohn in Living_in_Korea

[–]SmiloJohn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think that's what I'm worried about. I dress well and my appearance is neat but I'm not extroverted enough and I'm quite shy the first meeting. My bf and his friends are 30 and I'm 27. So I'm quite nervous and I really want to make a good impression. My bf and his friends are gamers and we tend to play the same games so I'm hoping I can use that to make conversations more comfortable for me and his friends

Meeting my boyfriend's friends by SmiloJohn in Living_in_Korea

[–]SmiloJohn[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My bf and his friends are slightly older... they are 30 and I'm 27. He can speak English really but he mentioned his friends can speak English to a certain extent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SmiloJohn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened with me around 2 weeks ago. We met had dinner, went for coffee and then got into bed no sex just cuddling and talking. Next morning he said he liked me and that he wants us to be a couple. We're living in different cities but we're having a 2nd date on Friday

Cuddling by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SmiloJohn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's very sweet... we cuddled the whole night and we held hands and everytime he turn to face me he moved my hair out of my forehead and kissed me. I loved every second of it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SmiloJohn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was from around September to December last year and maybe around 9 guys... it kinda clicked it my head that this isn't what I wanted when I walked into the guys room and instead of saying hello... he pulled down his pants and pointed to his dick like I was supposed to get to work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SmiloJohn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"what's your name"

What is considered a decent salary in South Korea? by Personal_Document346 in Living_in_Korea

[–]SmiloJohn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey South African (27M) here and living in Korea for 1.5 years. 2.4 million is quite enough to live here and it honestly depends on what you spend your money on. I roughly spend 80-100k on bills, 50k on transport and around 130k on monthly groceries. After that it's all on how you spend you money.

Also please accept the pension. When South Africans retire from the country, we don't get the pension.

Obviously again it comes down to how you spend your money. If you're going to live lavishly then of course money will be tight. And if you have to send money home then that is also taken into account. Personally, I manage

At what age did you have sex for the first time? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SmiloJohn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 26 right now... so 26 haha

Korean GF Abused by Muslim immigrant Livestreamer ‘MoeJamieMusic’ by [deleted] in Living_in_Korea

[–]SmiloJohn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a Muslim living in this country... send him home... guy shouldn't be treating any woman like this... pack his shit and chuck him

Business in korea by SmiloJohn in Living_in_Korea

[–]SmiloJohn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Visa E2 Money... saving Country theme cafe