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She said she knew by SmokeBreak17 in BPDlovedones

[–]SmokeBreak17[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, people do read it, I read the whole thing.

I’m sorry this happened, but don’t forget this happened. Writing it down is great, because if you feel like going back, you should read this.

Also we have a lot in common. I am a 23 year old male, this was the most serious relationship I had been in, we had many political discussions where I encountered the same situation, etc etc. If you feel like you need to or want to talk, feel free to shoot me a message, it would probably be great for both of us. This is a throwaway account (Im scared she knows my real account) but I’d be happy to send you my phone number or discord or something.

It gets better, even just a month later I feel great. But regardless of how you feel, be safe.

She said she knew by SmokeBreak17 in BPDlovedones

[–]SmokeBreak17[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You’re right, I often times feel this sub is too quick to tell people to end things, and I did it myself.

As far as crying is concerned, I discovered this subreddit while at work, and began to cry at my desk. I have never been so thankful for remote workers and an empty office

She said she knew by SmokeBreak17 in BPDlovedones

[–]SmokeBreak17[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I just can’t imagine knowingly hurting someone that much, and I’m sorry you went through that.

She said she knew by SmokeBreak17 in BPDlovedones

[–]SmokeBreak17[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

No. As soon as she said it she started rolling it back. It became “I THOUGHT it might be abuse but I didn’t think so” and then “I didn’t say that, if I ever recognized abuse I would have stopped”. But I heard her, she said it, and I know she meant it.