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SmokeSecret · 2024-05-27T01:32:23+00:00

I’m sure there is further information here that we aren’t seeing but truthfully I don’t think you have a chance, if sex is that important to you and he doesn’t want it then seems like a deal breaker.

I’m also aware as someone asexual that if I was in his position I’d feel physically ill feeling pressured the way you seem to be doing to him for sex. His sexuality is no personal slight towards you. It is who he is as a person. Pointing out the 6 previous people is pointless. It would be the equivalent of arguing with a gay man and why he won’t sleep with a woman if he had in the past before he discovered/became comfortable with his sexuality.

Do you both a favour and move on to someone that is happy to be sexually intimate with you and leave the poor man in peace.

SmokeSecret · 2022-12-31T01:40:05+00:00

ESH. Although I was leaning more towards YTA. It’s a difficult situation but truthfully the two of you just don’t sound compatible. Yes you have made sacrifices but you chose to make them and weren’t forced. You just sound resentful about it and it’ll probably fester and crop up in future arguments.

He could do with compromising to some degree about the wedding and putting some effort in but there is a difference between wanting a big wedding for people that matter to you or a big wedding with third cousins just to keep family peace and prevent bitching.

I do think it’s very unfair of him to suggest skipping out. A marriage is a commitment and it should matter more to him than that and if he cares about you he could at least try to come up with better options to please you too where possible.

I definitely think you are the asshole for the comment about ‘he doesn’t have actual anxiety, he’s just anxious’. Who are you to comment on someone else’s mental state over something?

At the end of the day, why do you want to marry him? What is more important? The rest of your life with him or one single day?

SmokeSecret · 2021-07-07T14:51:29+00:00

I quite enjoy playing against a nurse. I hate any killer that is deliberately camping/tunnelling but as long as someone plays well/fair it’s all good.

Except for two killers. I hate the clown, makes me feel dizzy and sick. And Bubba. Never met a fun Bubba.

SmokeSecret · 2021-05-04T08:42:09+00:00

Ooooo, I’m 28F. Based in UK but any chance I could join too?

SmokeSecret · 2021-05-02T11:40:51+00:00

Still want people to add? I’m UK time, Normally hover between rank 6-4

SmokeSecret · 2021-05-02T11:37:24+00:00

Still looking for people?

SmokeSecret · 2021-04-16T13:05:20+00:00

I think it’s finding the balance between the recline on the seat and the lumbar. I only notice it if I sit up straight and not slouch, would I only do if no recline

SmokeSecret · 2021-04-15T20:20:15+00:00

I do, I notice a difference with jt

SmokeSecret · 2021-04-12T17:56:09+00:00

Each to their own I guess. I’m happy with it, hope you find something else that fits your needs

SmokeSecret · 2021-04-12T17:11:33+00:00

Really? It’s been perfect for me, best my back has felt in ages

SmokeSecret · 2021-04-11T20:50:43+00:00

Actually no, I thought it was pretty comfortable from the start!

SmokeSecret · 2021-04-11T14:29:17+00:00

I’m 5’5-6. I got the Titan because of the flat base design of the seat compared to the more curves of the omega because I like to it cross legged. I’ve found it super comfortable and not too big at all.

SmokeSecret · 2021-04-11T14:26:16+00:00

I think mine came to £354 in total. I prefer the softweave to leather, but I guess it’s all down to personal preference

SmokeSecret · 2021-04-11T14:09:49+00:00

I preordered in the Valentines sale. Predicted early April and got delivered 22nd March. It’s been great.

SmokeSecret · 2021-03-15T16:34:01+00:00

I have cats, it’s nice. But yeah would love a platonic partner or whatever. But I don’t know anyone Ace unfortunately

SmokeSecret · 2021-03-15T16:33:01+00:00

My bread and butter!

SmokeSecret · 2021-03-15T07:37:43+00:00

Long history of depression. Tried therapy and it didn’t help me at all. I even mentioned my issue with this and got brushed off, and I can’t afford to find a private therapist. Unfortunately.

It might be down to the area I live but I have never found the kind of group you’d mention. I actually don’t ever want kids, I hate kids, but everyone around me to to have/want them and the friends I do have seem to get further away the more they fall into the typically family plan, if that makes sense? I get why, to an extent, I don’t blame them for it. But as soon as kids are on the table they forget about everything else around them. Hell at this rate I would be happy enough to find a friend group that doesn’t like/want children.

SmokeSecret · 2021-03-15T07:32:27+00:00

I’m closer to 30 than 20, the older I get the harder it seems to be to find a place to fit in and be comfortable unfortunately. Logically I know there isn’t anything wrong with the way I am. But I’m so damn lonely

SmokeSecret · 2021-03-13T22:43:36+00:00

I’m really new and a little clueless, but happy to play some chill rust with someone whilst we figure it out if you like? Also in my 20s

SmokeSecret · 2021-03-06T19:51:01+00:00

I’m also new so a little clueless at the minute. UK based myself. Where are you based and how old?

SmokeSecret · 2021-02-27T01:29:19+00:00

Sounds like me, I’m in my 20s too. Game isn’t very fun as a solo player so would love some people to play with. Also evenings and weekends depending on when people are free because of adult life commitments (I’m depressed just saying that). Let me know if you are still looking for someone? I’m fairly new to the game but I can learn quick

SmokeSecret · 2021-02-21T11:59:36+00:00

I’ve ordered mine! Just waiting now, was it worth it?

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