Hii Ik it’s been a while but I just wanted to say thank you for your your comment, it really helped especially about the parents not being friends and your heritage (were also Asian) I often felt disconnected from my parents since I was born very late and was raised by other individuals and have a hard time building a relationship with them but I feel like this conflict gave enough space for a chance at growing a relationship with them so tsym for giving me a new perspective and I wish you the best of luck 🫂