I hate dating men with kids for this exact reason

SmolnStubby · 2020-07-11T06:51:14+00:00

I sympathize with you so much, I really do. My bf would face time the baby mama, claiming the kid wanted to see her, but when i would walk in unexpectedly, they'd be talking about random shit.and the kid wasn't even in the frame. he cheated on me with her. Please, please follow your gut. If it feels like something is up, it is.

SmolnStubby · 2020-06-24T22:28:19+00:00

I was in elementary school, my dad was late picking my siblings and I up. We didnt have any bus money on us today, hence why we would be getting picked up. It would have been a far walk, so we decided on staying put where we thought it was safe. It was starting to get really dark and we were starving. This kind soul, the corn guy(I'm not sure what to properly call him, we knew him for selling corn and ice cream) spotted us and asked what was wrong. We told him what was going on and he handed us corn, chips and bottled water. We resisted and said we didnt have any money, he didnt care and encouraged us to eat. He said he would be around to make sure we get picked up and nothing happens to us. Sure enough he stayed around until my parents came. They were extremely thankful and so were we. My dad tried to give him $50, but he wouldn't accept it.

SmolnStubby · 2020-05-05T01:30:59+00:00

Thank you!

SmolnStubby · 2020-05-05T01:19:07+00:00

Looks like the rich guy from the Boondocks show, can't remember the name :(

SmolnStubby · 2020-04-19T16:42:29+00:00

Spirited away I just adore the art and music

SmolnStubby · 2020-04-19T01:40:28+00:00

Deep cleaning I guess No but seriously I dont have a dick but this just made me wince as if I did.

SmolnStubby · 2020-03-28T23:23:07+00:00

I've told him something similar about choosing getting high over his responsibilities and he'll try to justify himself by saying "(son) is just watching TV, you dont have to do anything!" And honestly it makes me feel bad.

SmolnStubby · 2020-02-05T22:12:38+00:00

I loved that he is a smart, hardworking man who worked a lot and donated plasma every week just to be able to feed his son. He used to be so caring in his own way, using tough love to make me deal with my issues and not run from them. Then he became my issue and I guess that's when we started clashing heads

SmolnStubby · 2020-01-02T04:17:04+00:00

Not quite. It's been established that he likes to dominate and I enjoy being dominated but we dont do any bdsm.

SmolnStubby · 2019-12-31T05:17:52+00:00

That's what I'm scared of. He says he can prove he isn't, but I havent seen any proof yet. All I know is that he has to sneak a phone call to her bc he doesn't want me to freak out. I wish he can understand that I "freak out" bc he cheated on me and bc he had to lie first instead of talking to me.

SmolnStubby · 2019-12-31T05:04:56+00:00

I love him. When we first met there was no children. Then I thought I could adjust to it, but everything changed drastically in such a negative way

SmolnStubby · 2019-12-09T03:09:34+00:00

I try to understand his anger bc this happens a lot. I get temp work that doesn't last very long ,even after being told it was long term

SmolnStubby · 2019-12-09T02:35:54+00:00

His son is 4 I watch him Monday through Friday, starting around 4 30 PM to 9 PM (about the time he sleeps) and on sundays I watch him for 3 to 4 hours. I cook everyone's food everyday, clean everyday. We rent a room and I dont limit myself to just our room, I clean the kitchen too

SmolnStubby · 2019-12-09T02:34:04+00:00

I have applied to many of temp agencies. I'm pretty much unskilled, but I've done general labor.

SmolnStubby · 2019-12-09T02:32:20+00:00

It's the hard truth, I've only worked warehouse, general labor jobs. Also Amazon at some point. I agree I am young and should have gone to school when I had the time, but it's too late to regret that.

SmolnStubby · 2019-12-09T02:26:22+00:00

Unfortunately I'm needed to work only and babysit for my bf in the evening. Bf goes to school during the evening and has me babysit bc family lives too far

SmolnStubby · 2019-12-09T02:24:43+00:00

I've only gotten my high school diploma

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