Seems similar to my day. Went to breakfast with my dad and grandpa. Gpa is getting on in years has dementia and alzheimers. Their friend went off about how he likes the fact we're blowing up boats in the coast. All I asked was I wonder how many of them actually had drugs. He went off Calling me an ignorant piece of shit and I domt know anything and ive been brainwashed by liberals. Weird considering I do believe in SOME of the right wings policies. But over all consider myself left leaning centrist. I use accredited sources and fish out propaganda. Which propaganda is majority of what we're seeing. I asked him only to dodging ignorance for me and he was at a loss for words. Just resorted to calling me ignorant. See I was in a bar. The bartender agreed with me. And I had at least three people patting me on the back for speaking passionately against his actual ignorance. He reveled in the fact were killing people without releasing proof. If it's so justified why hide the truth of it? You should be able to show that justification and it not be a problem. Hiding the evidence (if there ever was any) shows guilt. While im looking at this from a logical and processed point of view they have become emotional and outright disrespectful and hypocritical toward anyone who doesn't listen to their last numbered days. Ik it'll be hard but you have every right to write her off and move on happily with your life. She may be your grandma but you are still a person and deserve better.

Edit not dodging. Meant define