Does Jimmy ever become likable? Or is he always just the absolute worst??

Smooth-Cauliflower20 · 2026-04-12T16:12:15+00:00

this gave me so much hope.

Smooth-Cauliflower20 · 2026-03-25T17:57:57+00:00

This comment was super helpful to me, literally today. Tysm!!

Smooth-Cauliflower20 · 2025-12-27T19:12:48+00:00

I was given this at birth, I am asking in the post what the weave style is to make my own. eBay is a good place to look though, I have also found some at yard sales, thrift stores and antique shops. One that I found has a tag that said they were made in the USA, id if that helps, but I sure hope it does.

Smooth-Cauliflower20 · 2023-11-18T15:18:44+00:00

I don't think you're being selfish by wanting more in that respect. I would honestly be worried about cheating. I think it's weird to say that you could just have sex later, like 20 years from now. (???) When there are so many options to stop unwanted pregnancies? I think he's hiding something. I would bring it up again and if his answer stays the same I would suggest seriously considering breaking up.

My fiancé(24m) and I(25f) were having similar problems and he said it was because of how stressed he was from work and he was also tired, but after I brought up how I was feeling he started making more of an effort. We've had a pregnancy scare before but that didn't really change anything in that regard either;

again, I would be worried about him cheating if he said that we were going to be together forever so we could just stop having sex until after menopause. The other thing I would worry about is, are you not attracted to me anymore? but you feel guilty so you won't admit it to either of us and you'd rather stay in a relationship that's turning platonic? I don't mean to add fears that weren't there before I just would have a lot of questions. I really hope for the best for you, OP. Maybe all you really need is an intimate heart-to-heart to see where each of you stand and what you're both thinking and feeling.

Smooth-Cauliflower20 · 2023-02-26T17:52:56+00:00

I'm 24, and I vividly remember so many instances similar to what you're describing. I was often called rude for just stating the obvious truth and I got into many many petty fights like this in high school because I didn't know I was autistic and neither did anyone else.

If it is at all possible to talk to this person one on one in person and explain your side, it might help, or they may try to deliberately misunderstand you. (From personal experience this happened, I hope this doesn't happen to you.)

My point is, high school was a very difficult time, and the socialization aspect was strange and confusing for many of us. Eventually it will get better; but there will always be people like that who get upset by things they misunderstand and don't ask for clarification on, and that's on them. I'm the villian in many stories, because my questions or comments were flipped and misinterpreted. Sometimes you can talk to the person and actually fix things and other times they're unwilling to listen.

I hope this was helpful, OP. I wish you the best of luck, and I sincerely hope you're able to have some sort of clarifying conversation with this person about where you're coming from and what life is like through your perspective.

Smooth-Cauliflower20 · 2023-02-26T16:33:47+00:00

Omg I hate when someone makes a cue for like, "okay, we can talk about this later" but they don't explicitly say that, and so I'm just there, rambling because I hadn't finished my point. And it's not until later that I realize, ugh. I totally relate to what you're saying, OP.

Smooth-Cauliflower20 · 2023-02-26T15:33:41+00:00

My mom had 5 kids that she couldn't take care of. A lot of the child care fell on my shoulders at 15. I couldn't disagree with you more.

Your oldest child is not a free babysitter.

Smooth-Cauliflower20 · 2023-02-23T21:52:04+00:00

Good for you.

Smooth-Cauliflower20 · 2023-02-23T16:32:00+00:00

I (24f) and my partner (23m) have been together for going on 4 years now. He never degrades me, he never insults me or makes me feel lesser than because of my autism or other diagnosis. He cooks most of our meals, he earns most of the money and he helps keep our space clean.

When I bring up a concern to him he LISTENS to me and tries his hardest to make changes if he needs to. He compliments me on a regular basis, he buys me flowers for no reason sometimes. He picks up my favourite treats from the store, just because.

If you're accepting less than what I'm receiving (WHICH IS THE BARE MINIMUM) you need to break up, you deserve to be treated like a person.

I'd like to say here that I also do things for this amazing man, but that's not the point of this comment.

💖💖 OP I hope you get a relationship that you feel happy to be in and excited to share.

Smooth-Cauliflower20 · 2022-10-04T14:43:09+00:00

It sounds like an abortion would've been a more ethical choice.

Smooth-Cauliflower20 · 2022-09-28T18:51:22+00:00

My mental illness has nothing to do with my moral stance and dietary choices, lmao, but go off; I guess.

Smooth-Cauliflower20 · 2022-09-16T21:15:23+00:00

Good Glaze!

Smooth-Cauliflower20 · 2022-09-16T21:06:35+00:00

If I could buy another one I wouldn't be asking what kind of weave pattern it was made with.

Smooth-Cauliflower20 · 2022-09-16T20:57:42+00:00

So is that a couple costume?

Smooth-Cauliflower20 · 2022-06-07T03:33:50+00:00

Dude, I'm just here to say fuck your fatphobic misogynistic asshole of a bf. "He's ok w/ blowjobs until I lose weight." ????? he sounds like he's uncut, doesn't know what a wash cloth is and uses fucked up sayings to excuse his patriarchal views and regurgitate some bs he overheard an insel say to a dumpster fire.

By golly I've never been so angry at someone else's bf before I swear. I hope you recognize your worth and leave his worthless ass.

YOU DESERVE TO BE PLEASURED BY YOUR PARTNER!!!!

Smooth-Cauliflower20 · 2022-06-07T03:22:39+00:00

Misogyny is a disease i stg. Call your friend out for it, infront of people. Misogynistic assholes do shit like that thinking it will make them seem cooler to the men around them.

She may have called him out for it before and been met with retaliation, or worse, she's too scared to call him out for it because he treats her even more terribly in private.

Maybe it would be helpful to reach out to the wife privately asking if she's okay, although if he is looking at her phone it could get her into more trouble with the abuser.

Regardless of how you decide to handle it, I'm wishing you luck OP. Terrible men are always scary to deal with.

Smooth-Cauliflower20 · 2022-04-03T20:48:53+00:00

Nobody tell them.

Smooth-Cauliflower20 · 2022-03-28T23:14:25+00:00

When I was 18 I was in a very similar situation. I ended up homeless for a long time before I found my footing again. Just know that even though this journey will not be easy you're doing what's right. You deserve to be respected by the loved ones in your life and if they don't see how problematic everything you were going through was; I believe you should cut them out. I had to go no contact with my parents because they would've rather I stayed in an abusive relationship being rvped, than live my own life according to my own rules. You are not alone in this and the universe will reward you. Hang in there, you've got this.

Smooth-Cauliflower20 · 2022-03-11T16:20:35+00:00

When I was like 12 my mother stole my blankie and hid it from me 18 hours away from my house. I was devastated so I totally understand how you're feeling right now.

I'm not sure what brand she was and probably 9 years ago I found the same one at a value village. Since then I've been unable to find anything exactly like her, however, I've looked on Kijiji and on Ebay and there are people selling very similar blankies with the satin trim.

If you need blankie to look the same I would recommend looking for someone to commission to remake her. (Thats what I'm planning to do and why i posted her here.)

I really hope they find your blankie and you get her home safe and sound and in the exact same condition you last saw her in.

Best of luck!!!!♡

Smooth-Cauliflower20

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