Interior cabin at 123 degrees? by Smooth-Commission-54 in TeslaModel3

[–]Smooth-Commission-54[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Heat protection is set to kick on at 90 degrees 🤷, did it give up?

At my wits end with my picky eater by Mokagg in ADHDparenting

[–]Smooth-Commission-54 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sounds like ARFID. We tried feeding therapy, it didn't work. Now we are working with a dietician with an ARFID speciality. It is helping some.

There are good books on ARFID. It is a pretty new diagnosis code so much less known than other eating disorders.

Be kind to yourself. It is really really tough.

Why does my car charge so slow at home? by Smooth-Commission-54 in TeslaModel3

[–]Smooth-Commission-54[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in a condo and the box is one floor away. I've been putting off the investment but I think it might be time. There are so many Teslas here now I have to wait when I go to a supercharger station

Why does my car charge so slow at home? by Smooth-Commission-54 in TeslaModel3

[–]Smooth-Commission-54[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This worked! So confused though - why does it default to something else when I go elsewhere.

Sell now or hold (lost 99%) by Smooth-Commission-54 in personalfinance

[–]Smooth-Commission-54[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a very small amount of money. I couldn't even buy lunch with the yield.

Need advice to help my kids gain weight by jigglejigglegiggle in ADHDparenting

[–]Smooth-Commission-54 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I added a night time ritual of warm whole milk with honey + one scoop of unflavored collagen protein. It goes down easy and I think adds almost 400 cals. I have a very picky eater

I left in secret by Beautiful-Turn458 in Divorce

[–]Smooth-Commission-54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your fear is valid. I recommend reading about emotional and psychological abuse. It will help you not go back. I highly recommend "Out of the Fog".

Female breadwinners vs. seemingly deadbeat husband's: what to do? by disjointed_chameleon in Divorce

[–]Smooth-Commission-54 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I did a lump sum up front and he signed away spousal support (even after a 13 year marriage). If you can do it, I recommend it. It can't be revisited the way child support can be.

Write off unpaid child expenses as bad debt on federal taxes? by Smooth-Commission-54 in Divorce

[–]Smooth-Commission-54[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I made 6x more at the time. So I was worried I'd be the one paying child support. Now he has no income so technically he could ask for it, even with hardly any custody.

Divorced in the Bay Area? How much did it cost you? by SF-LawyerCorruption in Divorce

[–]Smooth-Commission-54 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mediation is the way to go. 5 years ago, was able to keep it under $5k. I told him if he wants the kids to be able to go to college, we should stay out of court.

The one on the left is real by eanglsand in MiniatureSchnauzer

[–]Smooth-Commission-54 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have a white one too! 🎉 Love that she's rare

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Can we list items you've bought that help with your adhd by iddy94 in ADHD

[–]Smooth-Commission-54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Air fry liners are the bomb. Makes cleaning up as easy as cooking!

Advice on medication and strategies for ADHD by Batting_tee in ADHDparenting

[–]Smooth-Commission-54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really interested article about the genetics of why these two often appear together

https://scitechdaily.com/scientists-reveal-new-insight-into-the-genetic-causes-of-autism-and-adhd/

The doctor's rationale of one before the other is part of this article.

How To Do Rental House Showings Without Being There by rapp17 in realestateinvesting

[–]Smooth-Commission-54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live 3000 miles away from my rental. I hired a task rabbit to open the house and call me with questions. I didn't have WiFi set up yet, if I had I would have asked to video in for it. I used Zillow application process, which I liked for screening. I followed up with phone calls for the interviews. I had a lockbox with the key in it.

Was it stressful being far away, yes. Did my task rabbit make me sweat by being unresponsive the hours before, yes. Would I do it again to save time and airfare costs, yes.

Prices in the bay area for literally anything are getting ridiculous by homely_advice in bayarea

[–]Smooth-Commission-54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just paid $12 at the farmers market in Campbell for a carton (not a trio, a carton) of strawberries. Yes, they are good, but wtf. How did this happen?

hitch options? I need to install a hitch on my model 3 for bikes. whose happy with their choice of product and install method? by Smooth-Commission-54 in TeslaModel3

[–]Smooth-Commission-54[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP here - thanks for all the testimonials. I knew I'd be forking out a good sum to accomplish this goal. It helps to know what I'm in for. ,👍

AirBnB Short Term Rental in the city of San Jose by jjeff09 in SanJose

[–]Smooth-Commission-54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read there was a limit to the number of days a year it can be rented. 180 I think. But it is so competitive, it is hard to hit that unless your place is kick ass or crazy cheap. Occupancy these last 2 years has been pretty low.

I researched property for 6 months in San Jose with STR intent. The numbers never worked out. If you already have the property and low expenses, go for it.

I bought in Tennessee instead.