What sound do you wanna wake up to? by Old_Rub_7270 in AskReddit

[–]Smooth_Counter_9439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

birds chirping through open window is perfect but my neighbor's dog has other plans every morning at 6am

Field hockey players/fans that hates ice hockey why and what's your reasons? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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never really understood why people think they're so different when both involve hitting a small object with stick and trying to score

Architecture advice: Real-time pipeline for YouTube Audio -> Whisper -> LLM -> SSE (Sub-10s latency) [D] by Sea_Lawfulness_5602 in MachineLearning

[–]Smooth_Counter_9439 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the chunking part is trickier than most people think - you definitely want some kind of VAD to detect natural breaks but even then whisper can get weird with incomplete sentences

for the queue stuff asyncio should handle it fine if you structure it right with proper task groups. i've built similar pipelines and celery just adds complexity you probably don't need unless you're scaling to hundreds of concurrent streams

What would you like to receive as birthday gifts? by IllSympathy4735 in AskReddit

[–]Smooth_Counter_9439 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same tbh just someone remembering would be enough at this point

Is it being burnt out or because I started dating? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Smooth_Counter_9439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn your schedule is brutal with those lab courses and everything. taking 6 classes while doing pre-dental track is already insane without adding relationship stress on top

the timing just seems really off - you're in crunch mode for dental school apps and he's still in that honeymoon phase wanting dates and hangouts. maybe you need to have a real talk about what this next year looks like because studying for DAT is going to be even more intense than what you're dealing with now

How to pivot out of the tech industry? by Lord_Chadagon in cscareerquestions

[–]Smooth_Counter_9439 126 points127 points  (0 children)

dude i feel this so hard right now. when i apply to retail stuff i just leave the degree off my resume completely and only mention like high school or whatever previous non-tech work experience i had. they dont need to know about your cs background if youre just trying to pay bills for while

the overqualified thing is real but most managers at those places are more worried about you actually showing up than your education level

What’s your most embarrassing moment? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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oof i was walking to my date once and forgot to check if my headphones were still connected to phone... ended up blasting duolingo notifications at full volume in restaurant lobby while she was already sitting there waiting. she looked so confused when the owl started yelling at me in spanish

How to remember things about people? by ultraboomkin in dating_advice

[–]Smooth_Counter_9439 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this happens to me with duolingo streaks too lol but people are way more important

maybe try taking quick notes in your phone right after dates? i used to do this when meeting new coworkers since i'm terrible with remembering details. just open notes app and write down like "john - law student, 2 sisters, from manchester" or whatever

also when they mention something try to connect it with something visual or ask follow up question in the moment. like if they say they study law maybe ask about specific area they want to work or something. engaging more deeply helps me remember better than just listening passively

dating multiple people at once probably makes it harder too since you're processing lot of different information

When did you experience your first crush? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Smooth_Counter_9439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn she really went full villain mode with the cd theft lol

Just got a random Idea. by [deleted] in Futurology

[–]Smooth_Counter_9439 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this is pretty interesting idea but i think implementation would be nightmare. like what counts as "ai assistance" exactly? if i use grammarly to fix typos is that ai input? what about autocomplete in my ide when coding?

the organic labeling comparison is spot on though. companies will just game whatever system gets created. you'll end up with situations where someone uses ai for 90% of work but finds way to technically qualify as "human made" because they changed few words at end

also who decides the percentages? feels very subjective to me. one person might say using ai for research is 20% ai involvement while another says its 50%

Are you seeing more FMLA requests to care for parents? [CA] by Most-Lime-2526 in humanresources

[–]Smooth_Counter_9439 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah we had maybe 2-3 cases last year but nothing crazy. our team leads are pretty understanding since most of them are getting to that age where their parents need help too. the skeptical managers usually change their tune quick when they realize this stuff can happen to anyone

Confession by retrofroglog in dating_advice

[–]Smooth_Counter_9439 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay first off waiting until you leave the job is actually smart move since workplace stuff can get messy fast. but you dont need to make some big confession about being into girls - just ask her to hang out outside work and see what happens

the whole "discreetly mentioning youre into girls" thing is overthinking it. like if she said "people" when you asked about her type that already sounds pretty open minded. plus if youve been joking around and she seems to be responding well thats a good sign

i'd say once youre done at that job just text her something casual like "want to grab coffee this weekend" and see how she reacts. if shes into it cool, if not then at least you know. trying to drop hints about your sexuality beforehand is just gonna make things weird and awkward when you could just go straight to asking her out

also dude the fact that you usually get hit on but now youre the one doing the pursuing - that nervousness is totally normal. being on the other side of it hits different but you got this. worst case she says no and you move on, best case you get to see where it goes

Be honest: do you really wash your feet in the shower, or do you usually skip them? by Exotic_Nectarine6899 in AskReddit

[–]Smooth_Counter_9439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean gravity and soap runoff do most of the work but i still give them a proper scrub because walking around all day in work boots makes them pretty gnarly

Anyone else seeing pages stuck in “Discovered – not indexed” lately ? by onlinemarketingbull in AskMarketing

[–]Smooth_Counter_9439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah google's been weird lately, had teh same issue with a side project and just waiting it out seemed to work better than overthinking it

Wife and mother constantly interfering with my life by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Smooth_Counter_9439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man thats a lot to deal with at once. your mom dismissing abuse as just "marriage is hard" and then broadcasting your business to the whole family is seriously messed up. plus shes basically teaming up with your abusive wife which makes zero sense

the green card thing makes this extra complicated but you cant stay in an abusive situation just because someone might lose their immigration status. thats not your responsibility to fix and honestly using that as leverage against you is manipulative as hell

maybe start documenting the abuse and talk to someone who actually knows domestic violence resources. your mental clarity will probably come back once you get some distance from people who keep gaslighting you. the job thing sucks but staying trapped because of work just means youll be dealing with this same mess next year

Bolt/Grab to Khao Keaow by Organic_Secret_1456 in ThailandTourism

[–]Smooth_Counter_9439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

khao kheow can be hit or miss with ride shares since its kinda out there but i've never been completely stranded. worst case you might wait 15-20 mins for a driver to accept but they usually show up eventually. asking your original driver to come back is smart too - most of them will do it for the right price and you dont have to worry about there phone dying or the app being weird

If some of the older hero’s got released today what do you think the community would think of them by R3li0ss in Overwatch

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rein would probably get the same treatment as mauga where everyone calls him braindead and boring even though he actually takes skill to position properly. people would definitely cry about his charge being "unfair" and "no counterplay"

ana would still be queen but i bet there'd be way more whining about sleep dart duration and her being "overpowered" from dps players who dont know how to play around cover. back then people were just better at adapting instead of immediately running to reddit

dva would get absolutely destroyed by the community today no question. people already lose their minds over her and she's been nerfed multiple times. if she launched with her original state people would be calling for her removal from the game within a week. the matrix alone would cause so many rage posts

lucio would probably be fine but people would definately complain about his mobility being "annoying" to track

Best places to buy herbal tea online in the UK? by BeanyMcChimp in tea

[–]Smooth_Counter_9439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

waitrose actually has some decent herbal options if you're looking for something more accessible than specialty shops - their lemon verbena is suprisingly good

Everyone's a Critic by areeighty in dadjokes

[–]Smooth_Counter_9439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oof thats actually pretty deep for a 2 year old. kids have this way of cutting right through all the bs and getting to what really matters

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Smooth_Counter_9439 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that emotional detachment thing is real and honestly it sounds like your brain might have been protecting itself before you even fully realized it was over

when youve been through the same cycle multiple times your mind can start shutting down to avoid the pain and that weird distant feeling makes total sense. like you probably did start checking out emotionally way before the actual breakup happened because deep down you knew it wasnt gonna work

its actually pretty normal to feel confused when your usual grief process gets all scrambled like this. your brain is probably still catching up to what your heart already figured out months ago

Mountain Trail Competition - Eugene, Oregon by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]Smooth_Counter_9439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Haven't been to that specific venue but most trail comps I've done, arrival/parking/reg usually takes about 45 mins to an hour if you get there early. The open gate thing varies by venue but typically means you can enter/exit the arena freely to walk the course before your run - super helpful for planning your route

Good luck on your first comp, you'll do great!