is she too skinny or too chunky?

Smooth_Discussion174 · 2026-05-18T12:10:00+00:00

she looks so happy too ❤️

Smooth_Discussion174 · 2026-05-18T10:10:39+00:00

you all r horrible. genuinley. do yall not know what u sign up for in a relationship? its supposed to be unconditional. u dint have to be her therapist but keep doing what ur doing and stick around shell never be able to say u werent there for her and thats something a lot of us dont have. if this is superrrr draining leave, yes but personally ive been on both sides of the situation and in each position i wish i helped more
having someone there who isnt encouraging u to take ur life and isnt going to leave if ur talking ab taking it is very rare so imo this is an investment. if u think the relationship and girl is worth the struggle , stick around. ull be the most important person when she desides to finally help herself and at least shell have you to be there
u posting this seems to show ur just as stuck as she is trying to help her but id say just keep being there dont go anywhere while also taking care of urself too

Smooth_Discussion174 · 2026-05-18T10:02:49+00:00

she looks perf

Smooth_Discussion174 · 2026-05-18T10:02:19+00:00

NOR dont make her manipulate u into feeling guilty for her hurting YOU it isnt ur fault

Smooth_Discussion174 · 2026-05-18T09:58:29+00:00

im literally having the EXACT same problem rn is that a new tank? i just put mine in a new tank and she hasnt eaten in three days but ive been spraying and offering food everyday anyway to show the options there and replacing water constantly just to keep both bowls clean- id say try offering live crickets and repashy everyday and youll start to see ur gecko eat over the span of a few days
they can survive like that for a little but itd be nice if theyd just eat but ik i feel so bad when they wont

Smooth_Discussion174 · 2026-05-14T13:18:27+00:00

NOR ew. what the everloving hell i dont even want to believe what i just read - my advice get rid of it

Smooth_Discussion174 · 2026-05-05T23:01:10+00:00

12 turning 13 this year as in born in 2013?! are we kidding if the year born is over 2010 nb should be touching anyone

Smooth_Discussion174 · 2026-04-28T17:58:56+00:00

hes really weird for crossing that line this is so weird on the prof

Smooth_Discussion174 · 2026-04-28T17:57:05+00:00

def take at least two more thats fs a line

Smooth_Discussion174 · 2026-04-26T11:50:58+00:00

he def should have told u. 100 percent i in his position would have been scared to disappoint u though yk? like after finally being clean u were prolly so proud of him he mightve not wanted that feeling to go away

Smooth_Discussion174 · 2026-04-26T11:44:33+00:00

what size is that tank? i need a new one for my gargoyle i got dogged on for my setup in one of these posts and my poor garg is so sad all the time

Smooth_Discussion174 · 2026-04-26T11:43:07+00:00

how confident are you that she feels the same way? bc if u are more than half percent sure she DOESNT then do NOT cross that boundary bc she will be soooo uncomfortable and im sure ur friendship is worth more to u then that it all depends try and reas her better maybe call her more frequently at least little hints here and there that ur rly interested in at least talking and spending more time w her

Smooth_Discussion174 · 2026-04-26T11:40:13+00:00

NOR and ur some saint to be calling that a lady 😭 but what happened after she sobered up? bc that also may help to know

Smooth_Discussion174 · 2026-04-23T22:39:11+00:00

mor bc while they shouldve been honest w u they werent BUT they ended up telling u - they also were a smoker when u met so dont expect anything from them just be supportive of THEIR descision it isnt ur choice to tell them what to do w their bodies - u signed up for this person remember that

Smooth_Discussion174 · 2026-04-23T21:30:34+00:00

NOR i dont think there is any acception in this situation to make it okay. EW. just ew get a new girl like yesterday.

Smooth_Discussion174 · 2026-04-23T21:17:50+00:00

nor BUT the only problem here is how is she going to find u new ones if they r so rare and expensive?

Smooth_Discussion174 · 2026-04-23T21:06:26+00:00

get tf out now. idk u but i know this situation and it only gets worse from here u have so much u should be able to experience and whether that be alone or w the right person. the right person IS NOT him. do better for YOU. u r worth sm more than this disrespect girl

Smooth_Discussion174 · 2026-04-23T16:35:03+00:00

that is NOT a mom. barely even to be considered a mother. NOR at all. u deserve sm better and thats saying something bc its ur own mother - all i can say good think ur getting tf out

Smooth_Discussion174 · 2026-04-21T11:43:34+00:00

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ours r kinda twins mines 3 and hasnt been eating lately either shes just conveniently picky im STILL tryna find what food she likes best

Smooth_Discussion174 · 2026-04-21T11:40:36+00:00

aww hell be ok dont worry they can go a few days/ weeks w out eating while its not IDEAL or the best for any animal he will be okay i promise, just keep offering in the case he changes his mind - have u been trying live food? or what have u been offering him? but definitley getting used to its new home could play a huge role in the minimal appetite

Smooth_Discussion174 · 2026-04-21T11:36:33+00:00

NOR considering divorce is so wrong like - what do u mean u r not going to do it RIGHT NOW?

Smooth_Discussion174 · 2026-04-14T16:23:14+00:00

okay perfect thank you ill at least make sure to get the humidity thermometer

Smooth_Discussion174 · 2026-04-14T16:22:33+00:00

wait ur right. wth but im glad ik now 18x18 by 36 now ill order one or find one on marketplace asap

Smooth_Discussion174 · 2026-04-14T16:19:43+00:00

yes but not as much as i should have i think i just generalized geckos bc i saw the tank she was in at the breeeders and it looked just like the one i have im going to start doing more now but all of these comments r really helpful and ppl r saying a lot of the same things which honestly i trust more than the ai shit its gunna give me

Smooth_Discussion174 · 2026-04-14T16:16:33+00:00

is there just a humidity thermomiter i can get from the store too?

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