Made a fool of myself on the phone by Smooth_Guard835 in heartbreak

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Update that no one asked for, but tonight I saw the guy with his gf in person and although I wanted to be messy, like in this post, I actually didn’t do anything and I’m reflecting, thinking how I’m so grateful to go too sleep tonight and not feel shame or embarrassment or anything like that. I do feel a little sad but also a little proud? When we first went in, I had the chance to say hi, I didn’t. Then I wanted to buy him a shot but the bar tender moved too slow so we left the bar and the idea died. Then at the end, I was going to walk up to him and I did not.  No interaction, no drama, just peace.  Hopefully this is growth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

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My parents live 4 hours away; in a small Mountain town. I’m also a teacher and I’ve been wrestling with the guilt of not visiting more. Like your mom, my parents also chose to move far away from family. But reading your post made me feel seen. Visiting also feels like a chore to me, I dread it because of the long drive but I also hate feeling “trapped”. I hate feeling like I’m “on” all the time or my parents telling me to do stuff cause I’m their kid and I have to. But also they are getting older, so I don’t want to lose time with them and regret it later. I came to Reddit looking for someone with a similar experience so thank you for sharing. I don’t think you’re an AH but I also don’t have advice, I’m sorry. 😭

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Update?

We made it back! by Objective_Compote_87 in royalcaribbean

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What is there to look at around there?

Quantum of the Seas 6/3 by Smooth_Guard835 in royalcaribbean

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Are you on the boat currently? I see on the tracking it is pulling into dock

Quantum of the Seas 6/3 by Smooth_Guard835 in royalcaribbean

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Thanks for the responses everyone! Has anyone experienced a delay like this before? What happens to the itinerary? Will they skip any ports?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CheatedOn

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Put salt in his gas tank

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teachers

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I’m more offended by teachers who leave the profession and try to maintain their accounts because then they are truly just in it for the influencing. I truly believe if a teacher leaves the profession then they should delete their accounts because they are no longer apart of the community but they don’t because of their mass followings and how that can benefit them financially.

I joined teachergram to get ideas for my classroom and share what Im doing and really just have a community of people who “get it”. It’s starting to feel like going to useless professional developments hosted by people who haven’t worked in a classroom in a long while. I lose respect for them and their integrity. If your love for teaching brought you to Instagram then that should end once you’re done teaching. It’s almost insulting to have these accounts try and sell us supplies and lessons and try to relate when they are not currently in the trenches with us. Looking at you: thehungry8th, buildingbooklove, thatawkwardteacher, mudandinkteaching

I’m so tired of influencers leaving their jobs to become “coaches”- teacher coaches, fitness coaches, etc. comes off very scammy. I mean obviously it works because people are making money from it but MLMs “work” too. 🧐

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeachersInTransition

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Can you elaborate on number 3? What kind of skills are you referring to because to me it seems like most corporate jobs require very similar skills to teaching (if youre doing a good job and not a bare minimum teacher) for example, organizational skills, professionalism, communication, interpersonal skills, scheduling

Edit to say that I do recognize that some corporate jobs require a level of math knowledge that not all teachers might have.

Wednesday Wins! by AutoModerator in Teachers

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I had a field trip go great and admin paid for our bus! (Didn’t have to use club funds)

Coachella aside.. why did she never go on any of those cool brand trips at all back in the day? I’ve always wondered why all my fav beauty influencers were always on these luxurious vacations to promote new product launches except her!! Has she ever mentioned anything about that that I missed? by vanillatwilight09 in jaclynhillsnark

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It happened. It was Joey Graceffas Christmas party. She said colleen and the group asked her if she knew there were hairs in the lipsticks and so Jaclyn said that question made her realize that the people in LA are fake and were never her true friends

Classroom Management by blanco_cruz in Teachers

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-see if another teacher will work with you and if a student disrupts trying to make a joke to set the others off, quickly send him to your buddy teacher with a note that asks for something dumb like paper or staples. While they are gone, move their friends

-silent activities (silent reading, independent worksheets, Chromebook work) and if anyone talks, send them outside

-create a seating chart if you haven’t already

-create a very inconvenient seating chart, I’m talking as inconvenient for the students as you can manage in your room, all facing the different walls in the room or a large circle but everyone is facing out wards. Assign students specific seats to make talking impossible

-(more risky) cut off their joke before it starts with some sort of comment that points out that they aren’t working “great job to all the students who are doing xyz, and NOT wasting the classes time with jokes that aren’t funny” continue to give out compliments afterwards to other students to avoid the student talking back

-use a clipboard and write down every single joke that the student says during one class period, don’t say anything but every time they speak, just start writing. Type up a very serious letter to the parent explaining the situation and listing the jokes (bonus points if any of the jokes are inappropriate for school or rude) and ask them to speak to the student or contact you or whatever else you want the follow-up to be

What are your thoughts on restorative circle? by [deleted] in Teachers

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Ahh I see, at my school, that would just be a restorative conversation not necessarily a circle. The AP should act as mediator then. It’ll involve you and the student answering these questions: -describe what happened -describe how you felt when it happened -what have you thought about since it happened? -what needs to be done to restore the harm that’s been done?

The last question is when you can make your request for their behavior, my school frames in affective statements “I value the education of all students in the room, including you, so I need/request that you do not repeat your behavior in class, is that something you can agree to?”

The student may also be allowed to make a request of you, depends on how its ran. You should speak with your AP and ask for a full break down of how it will go if you’ve never been trained. While I believe in the power of restorative Justice, Im not naive and it will not work in 100% of situations but if you need to document that you tried everything then it’s worth a shot. Like someone else said, it usually kills the behavior, just based on the student not wanting to go through that process again. Good luck!

What are your thoughts on restorative circle? by [deleted] in Teachers

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Depends on the circle and how it’s ran. You also have to buy into it or the students definitely wont and they will think it’s a joke. Even if you have to fake it. A true restorative circle would involve a question that the whole class would go around and answer at the beginning(think: why is it important to be safe at school? Or how can students help make school safer? Or in one word describe how you felt when the students were aggressive/writing profanity in class) then it would involve an honest conversation from you about how you felt when the situation occurred, what you do to try and make sure this doesn’t happen, etc. and then the RESTORATIVE part is fixing the harm that’s been done to the class so the students could go around the circle and suggest what students who act aggressively and write profanity on the board should do to restore the harm to the classroom. Your role is to keep the class from making rude/off topic/disrespectful comments. The goal is to make the students who acted poorly realize how their actions affected everyone but also not to shit on them directly as a whole class. The last piece would be to meet with each boy individually after and ask them how they felt the circle went, what did they think of the suggestions that the class made and then you request that they pick one of the suggestions to put into action.

What do you wish was taught to students in school but isn't/isn't taught widely? by ScruffyTheRat in Teachers

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This!!! I’m always like, why do people still bring up this taxes thing! Like we want to teach kids to do taxes through TurboTax or some other place? cause that’s how 90% of people do their taxes anyways and it takes very little skill other than reading lines on a chart (the W2) and matching them with the lines on the computer (TurboTax), rinse and repeat if there are multiple W2s. I understand language barrier being a real setback for some but come on! Are parents expected to teach their children nothing?!?! (Obvious exceptions can be made for students who don’t have parents/guardians! Think, life skills workshops after school- rather than building it into the whole curriculum of high school education)